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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

are two single people who hook up just to attend couple only events just a couple of fraudsters or are couples happy to play as long as the numbers are even ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would they be fraudsters?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

In my eyes they have no connection so yup fraudsters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would they be fraudsters?"

pretending to be a couple just to attend a couples only event when their not a real couple just two singles wangling their way in

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

In my opinion there are some fb's who have had a better "connection" than some couples who I've met on here, you get some couples where it's obvious that ones only doing it to keep the other half happy......notice I said "some" not most or all

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Happens at clubs all the time. We don't care if they're a 'real' couple or not because yet again, none of our business. As long as we all get along and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion of they know each other and play as a couple then fine

I have seem the old green eyed monster raise its ugly head when FB's are concerned x

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I don't give a fuck tbh...only concerned about us and whoever we play with and can sus people out quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its not directed towards fuck buddies who play together its towards the adverts you see in forums looking for a partner to attend a couples only event thats never met each other before

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Still doesn't bother me ...too many give a shit what others do and think ... Life's too short to concern myself with others ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still doesn't bother me ...too many give a shit what others do and think ... Life's too short to concern myself with others ..."

fare play ... i prefer to be concerned thou kinda dont just fuck anyone but each to their own

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Still doesn't bother me ...too many give a shit what others do and think ... Life's too short to concern myself with others ...

fare play ... i prefer to be concerned thou kinda dont just fuck anyone but each to their own "

We don't fuck just anyone either ...but been in the scene long enough to know the scene well ...can pick up vibes a mile off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still doesn't bother me ...too many give a shit what others do and think ... Life's too short to concern myself with others ...

fare play ... i prefer to be concerned thou kinda dont just fuck anyone but each to their own

We don't fuck just anyone either ...but been in the scene long enough to know the scene well ...can pick up vibes a mile off "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still doesn't bother me ...too many give a shit what others do and think ... Life's too short to concern myself with others ..."

This

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By *affyman57Man
over a year ago

helensburgh

If its not directed at FD why did you name the thread "Fuck Buddies"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If its not directed at FD why did you name the thread "Fuck Buddies""

are people who advertise on forums looking for fuck buddies to attend meets not classed as fuck buddies ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion there are some fb's who have had a better "connection" than some couples who I've met on here, you get some couples where it's obvious that ones only doing it to keep the other half happy......notice I said "some" not most or all "

I hate this fb phrase...I was lucky enough to be with a lovely lady for many months playing as a couple and the people who met us would confirm that we where not two"randoms" hooking up!

Its the people who make the difference not if you share a home or have kids together in this modern world.

Yes people have there preferences but they might be wearing blinkers too

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Sorry but by its very definition f/b means there is nothing in the relationship apart from sex.so where is the deep connection that a cpl has who know each others secrets and can tell you everything about their partner by its own definition f/b is all about the fu××ing and nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but by its very definition f/b means there is nothing in the relationship apart from sex.so where is the deep connection that a cpl has who know each others secrets and can tell you everything about their partner by its own definition f/b is all about the fu××ing and nothing else"

Not always true. My fb is a very close friend of mine, we know a lot of secrets & things about each other.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I also think some confuse fuck buddy with friends with benefits, which is what we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it really matter?

Fb's are like unicorns...just enjoy and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The insular, judgemental side of fab strikes again. Forget the labels its about people and fun doing what they want with whom they want.

Disgruntled Monday morning granny!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"The insular, judgemental side of fab strikes again. Forget the labels its about people and fun doing what they want with whom they want.

Disgruntled Monday morning granny!"

If that means me, no offence was meant so I'm sorry if it seems that way. We try not to judge anyone, as what they do is none of our business (said that a lot over the weekend!)

We personally don't feel like we need labels, we've never sat down and said "are we this or are we this?" We just are.

But some people obviously feel more comfortable with them, so if it helps them then I guess we identify with FWBs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone else starting to think that rather than having meets the OP likes to get his kicks from us little fishes biting the bait on his forum posts??

thats a couple of threads ive just read where he is stirring up a barney!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The insular, judgemental side of fab strikes again. Forget the labels its about people and fun doing what they want with whom they want.

Disgruntled Monday morning granny!"

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The insular, judgemental side of fab strikes again. Forget the labels its about people and fun doing what they want with whom they want.

Disgruntled Monday morning granny!

If that means me, no offence was meant so I'm sorry if it seems that way. We try not to judge anyone, as what they do is none of our business (said that a lot over the weekend!)

We personally don't feel like we need labels, we've never sat down and said "are we this or are we this?" We just are.

But some people obviously feel more comfortable with them, so if it helps them then I guess we identify with FWBs."

No honey.. It certainly wasn't you! x

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"The insular, judgemental side of fab strikes again. Forget the labels its about people and fun doing what they want with whom they want.

Disgruntled Monday morning granny!

If that means me, no offence was meant so I'm sorry if it seems that way. We try not to judge anyone, as what they do is none of our business (said that a lot over the weekend!)

We personally don't feel like we need labels, we've never sat down and said "are we this or are we this?" We just are.

But some people obviously feel more comfortable with them, so if it helps them then I guess we identify with FWBs.

No honey.. It certainly wasn't you! x "

Didn't think so but wanted to make sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why does everything you post on here get seen as stirring it up just because you dont agree with the " cleet" a lot of married guys on here play alone because they say their wifes dont play when truth is they couldnt handle their wifes playing so play alone happy to shag other peoples but dont want anyone touching theirs if thats the case then thats up to them but when that person then goes and hooks up with some fuck burd just to increase his chances then to me it becomes a fraud because wife swapping is about swapping wifes not swapping some fuck bud that you advertised on a forum for while your wifes sits in house looking after the kids if you meet a couple you expect them to be a couple if you want to meet a single you meet a single or two singles not two singles pretending to be a couple ...and please spare me the oh dont judge patter this is a sex site if your happy to just shag people on here without judging that person then it doesnt say much about you

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think if they are a 'regular playing with each other' pair, there is little difference.

If they are people who have just hooked up to get in a club and possibly breach the single guy ratio set by the club, I think that is unfair to the couples who attend in good faith thinking there will be set ratios of people. That ultimately is the decision of the club management what to do. I have seen people meet up in a bar before and come in together, then decide they are not into each other. She sits downstairs and he goes in search of fun.

But, that is for the club to deal and if people aren't happy..... They complain in the moment with management

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I have seen lots of couples say they won't play with FB couples so I am guessing yes, it must bother some people.

I can understand it to a point, as people who have just met to play won't have the same connection as couples who are together and swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone else starting to think that rather than having meets the OP likes to get his kicks from us little fishes biting the bait on his forum posts??

thats a couple of threads ive just read where he is stirring up a barney! "

well spotted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex should be more than fuckin a hole in the wall. Body and mind are involved. If people are not honest before a meet there's every chance it will be a disaster. However, if all concerned just want sex because it's Saturday, and with anyone and aren't fussy... it's their choice. Personally, I prefer not to rush in and make it a special thing. Happy fabbin folks

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By *axter1987Man
over a year ago

your hotlist

lol "those filthy singles, weazling their way into couples nights....bastards"

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