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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You see all these posts for clubs and parties and it's always all couples. But how's us singles suppose to meet singles when no one holds a singles night. Is this a good idea or not x

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Absolutely!

great idea!

I'd be in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theirs lots of places that arrange singles nights maybe just doesnt come under the category of swinging

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By *axter1987Man
over a year ago

your hotlist

i'd deffo attend, great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to attend my first social so sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in single pringel xx

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm sure I could be tempted. Will there be cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see all these posts for clubs and parties and it's always all couples. But how's us singles suppose to meet singles when no one holds a singles night. Is this a good idea or not x"

Go Tina, put me down and no need for a plus one, great idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be a great night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see all these posts for clubs and parties and it's always all couples. But how's us singles suppose to meet singles when no one holds a singles night. Is this a good idea or not x"

Yes

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd be up for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theirs lots of places that arrange singles nights maybe just doesnt come under the category of swinging "

True. Singles just meeting singles is just that . It's not hard to arrange OP. Just select a venue and there you go. Its not swinging tho. Just singles meeting for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be interested in a singles only social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see all these posts for clubs and parties and it's always all couples. But how's us singles suppose to meet singles when no one holds a singles night. Is this a good idea or not x"

Yes it's a good idea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a fab idea

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Your not.......you supposed to service hubby lol

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Woohoo I'm not just an air head I have good ideas to. But here's the good part was thinking as well it puts everyone in a safe environment as well to get names numbers for a later date if you choose to meet that person. x

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"theirs lots of places that arrange singles nights maybe just doesnt come under the category of swinging

True. Singles just meeting singles is just that . It's not hard to arrange OP. Just select a venue and there you go. Its not swinging tho. Just singles meeting for sex."

I just meant so everyone knew that everyone was single and available type night if that sense. As it's so hard on here these days.

And I didn't mean for me to arrange it but I know an organiser who can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on day and venue then I'm in. Even if I can't make it then it's still a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep sounds a very good idea miss sparkles

Look forward to seeing what happens with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bad idea at all Tina ....

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Not a bad idea at all Tina .... "

Glad you think so lol did you see my comment ^^^^^ where i said I know a woman who does lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fun.

Sick of being an "extra bit of fluff" as someone once called me!

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Great idea. Problem is getting a venue that is within easy travelling distance for the majority of people.

I know Shelley has a glasgow pub that she uses on a sunday for socials.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Would i qualify to attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate that everyone has their own taste and opinion, bit I wouldn't touch this with a barge pole.

Reeks of desperate.

Apologies to anyone offended, just my opinion.

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I appreciate that everyone has their own taste and opinion, bit I wouldn't touch this with a barge pole.

Reeks of desperate.

Apologies to anyone offended, just my opinion. "

Everyone's entitled to an opinion but at the end of the day if your single why not meet single in a Safe and social environment. Where you can put faces to names and know they are single not attached and not married. Many could say anybody who joins fab for sex is desperate for sex. It's the same with everything it is what it's is and everyone perceives things different.

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I appreciate that everyone has their own taste and opinion, bit I wouldn't touch this with a barge pole.

Reeks of desperate.

Apologies to anyone offended, just my opinion.

Everyone's entitled to an opinion but at the end of the day if your single why not meet single in a Safe and social environment. Where you can put faces to names and know they are single not attached and not married. Many could say anybody who joins fab for sex is desperate for sex. It's the same with everything it is what it's is and everyone perceives things different. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theirs thousands of dating sites that cater for single people to meet other single people who are not married or attached but its not swinging or swingers this is a swingers site so why arrange it on a swingers site if your banning swingers from attending its a bit like jumping in to a swimming pool then complaining its full of water

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I think that the Wales forum have run a few singles only socials that seem to be pretty popular

So can't see the harm in it

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"theirs thousands of dating sites that cater for single people to meet other single people who are not married or attached but its not swinging or swingers this is a swingers site so why arrange it on a swingers site if your banning swingers from attending its a bit like jumping in to a swimming pool then complaining its full of water "

I'm single and consider myself a swinger..... I was when I was a couple and I still am now, it's not exactly easy to arrange mfm on match. Com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a great idea wish somebody would set a social up for this would be an interesting night and you never know people might get together as couples so everyone would benefit on fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Tina lots of intrest. Great idea go ahead with it. Sure lots of people will go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theirs thousands of dating sites that cater for single people to meet other single people who are not married or attached but its not swinging or swingers this is a swingers site so why arrange it on a swingers site if your banning swingers from attending its a bit like jumping in to a swimming pool then complaining its full of water

I'm single and consider myself a swinger..... I was when I was a couple and I still am now, it's not exactly easy to arrange mfm on match. Com "

A female arranging to meet a couple for mff or the like is swinging. A female arranging to meet just a male is not. I meet couples. Im a swinger. If I just met a male or female it would be just a straight hook up and sex.

Some people use fabswingers as just a sex site but swinging is about couples so complaining there's too many couple events doesn't make sense. Maybe you and all the single men who complain they cant get a meet are looking in the wrong place.

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You can be single and a swinger and nothing wrong with meeting single people with like interests. On any other site is need to explain in a swinger. In a swingers site arranging I explain nothing

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Seems a good idea and something new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great idea Tina. People should use this site for whatever suits their lifestyle and the more who meet socially and get on well/make friends, the better. It's all about enjoyment!! You go girl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im in depnding on what date and night it is but sounds like it could be fun and in my eyes for folk who are saying its not swinging the singles night could also be a potential for a new swinging couple to emerge from dont know if anyone else thinks that but i do

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"theirs thousands of dating sites that cater for single people to meet other single people who are not married or attached but its not swinging or swingers this is a swingers site so why arrange it on a swingers site if your banning swingers from attending its a bit like jumping in to a swimming pool then complaining its full of water

I'm single and consider myself a swinger..... I was when I was a couple and I still am now, it's not exactly easy to arrange mfm on match. Com

A female arranging to meet a couple for mff or the like is swinging. A female arranging to meet just a male is not. I meet couples. Im a swinger. If I just met a male or female it would be just a straight hook up and sex.

Some people use fabswingers as just a sex site but swinging is about couples so complaining there's too many couple events doesn't make sense. Maybe you and all the single men who complain they cant get a meet are looking in the wrong place."

I haven't said anything about there being too many couples events, I enjoy lots of party's and socials with mixed people so I'd say I was in exactly the right place for me

Swinging has changed a great deal since the keys in a bowl scenario. We didn't meet couples when I was a couple so I don't see why I need to do so now to justify my "swinger" status! I'm happy just doing what I do and having 1-1 meets as well as mfm and group meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and consider myself a swinger . I'm sick of reading it's a "sex site " when swinging is so much more than about sex !!!

If I go to a club or party and decide I want to partake in the play that's going on with someone who's there , be it a swingle male , female or a couple doesn't that make me a swinger ??? So I meet up socially a lot with swingers and there's not an automatic thought that I'm gonna go home and "have sex " with them . It's for me about having a group of friends that on occasions we have added benefits with no expectations. I think the single social is a great idea to let people meet up as tina said in a safe and social environment and perhaps open up new doors for future fun times whether that be sexually or not .The other point that someone said is there are plenty sites/dating sites out there for "singles". So, we then have to justify our lifestyles to them or worry they want more or a relationship with us ?

On here its about being able to be accepted for what we chose to be, not having to explain it to all and sundry

So its definitely worth suggesting I'd say . Well done chick xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazes me the people want to get all factual or state rules etc. if your not intrestied then dont come. people trying to do something positive and negative comments dont help good on you Tina trying to do something positive

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Whenever a select group is asked for there's always negativity....it's life ....

Be it far n thin...beautiful and ugly....

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I just mean I'm very bi sexual and a swinger for me to meet someone in the normal way I need to justify that. On a swingers site it's accepted no questions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazes me the people want to get all factual or state rules etc. if your not intrestied then dont come. people trying to do something positive and negative comments dont help good on you Tina trying to do something positive "

Well said , if you dont like it dont attend. Simple, swinging isnt just for couples, how people chose to use the site is their own business

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"I just mean I'm very bi sexual and a swinger for me to meet someone in the normal way I need to justify that. On a swingers site it's accepted no questions x"

You do what suits you and you don't need to justify it to anyone... go for it thou you have plenty interest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazes me the people want to get all factual or state rules etc. if your not intrestied then dont come. people trying to do something positive and negative comments dont help good on you Tina trying to do something positive "

the op did ask if people thought it was a good idea or not so dont complain when people do as the op asked if she only wanted to hear the opinions of people who thought it was a good idea then she should not have asked for both

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

"

so why ask peoples opinions ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ive got lots of lovely people i meet but i still and allways will clnsider myself a single And after a recent episode i consider this even more so But i have been to socials with a partner SO am i considered a single or not because i certainly consider my self to be a single

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

so why ask peoples opinions ? "

That's to the suggestion of a night, not to why they are on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theirs thousands of dating sites that cater for single people to meet other single people who are not married or attached but its not swinging or swingers this is a swingers site so why arrange it on a swingers site if your banning swingers from attending its a bit like jumping in to a swimming pool then complaining its full of water "

Don't want to use dating sites swinging suits my life events at the moment.

I class myself as a swinger not looking for dates,the point of maybe single swingers nights are for solely for single people to meet other singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So would anyone be up for making this singles night happen? I would be up for helping out if anyone else is interested?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I don't understand why so many people on here feel they need to police what other people do, or use the site for.

Baffling.

Anyway, it sounds like a great idea and I hope it goes really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

so why ask peoples opinions ?

That's to the suggestion of a night, not to why they are on here."

who questioned why people are on here their questioning why arrange a singles only night on a swingers site thats nothing to do with swinging no one is saying single people cant be swingers but single people who only want to meet single people is not swingers even if you all have a gang bang its still not swinging its just a gang bang

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

so why ask peoples opinions ?

That's to the suggestion of a night, not to why they are on here.

who questioned why people are on here their questioning why arrange a singles only night on a swingers site thats nothing to do with swinging no one is saying single people cant be swingers but single people who only want to meet single people is not swingers even if you all have a gang bang its still not swinging its just a gang bang "

The thread is singles night, no reference to swinging in the OP.

My post was to the singles posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my old granny used to say..."Some people would start a row in an empty hoose..!"

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sorry if i put my big size8 foot in it yes i wold love to come to this night

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

And Jinty i agree with u so whose organizing this and when

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

so why ask peoples opinions ? "

Pretty sure she was looking to guage a level of interest before arranging so the opinions being looked for was yeah id come or no thanks ... Wasnt really any need for all the negativity ... So much couples v singles negativity on here sometimes from both ends... Think theres plenty room for us all to get on with our own interests side by side wether it be meeting singles couples or a mix of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if singles night is what singles want then good luck to use actually sounds a good idea if am honest .... ill let yous get on with it am off to shag the mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a great idea Tina. People should use this site for whatever suits their lifestyle and the more who meet socially and get on well/make friends, the better. It's all about enjoyment!! You go girl!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure why people are justifying their activity on here, we are all here to do our thing.....

If others don't like it, who fucking cares.

so why ask peoples opinions ?

Pretty sure she was looking to guage a level of interest before arranging so the opinions being looked for was yeah id comte or no thanks ... Wasnt really any need for all the negativity ... So much couples v singles negativity on here sometimes from both ends... Think theres plenty room for us all to get on with our own interests side by side wether it be meeting singles couples or a mix of both "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see all these posts for clubs and parties and it's always all couples. But how's us singles suppose to meet singles when no one holds a singles night. Is this a good idea or not x"

In Wales we host single only socials

They don't have to be vetoed to attend either. ...so it's a way of newbies getting veried

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By *inasparkles OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

This will be a good night and as there is so much interest Iv passed it onto shelly: alternative socials so keep the eyes open for a date and all those interested getting adding we will make sure it's a night to remember for us single Pringles . Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is alternative socials her profile on this or is it another forum?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I appreciate that everyone has their own taste and opinion, bit I wouldn't touch this with a barge pole.

Reeks of desperate.

Apologies to anyone offended, just my opinion.

Everyone's entitled to an opinion but at the end of the day if your single why not meet single in a Safe and social environment. Where you can put faces to names and know they are single not attached and not married. Many could say anybody who joins fab for sex is desperate for sex. It's the same with everything it is what it's is and everyone perceives things different. "

the problem is even going by whos showing an intrest theres a fair few errrrrr "singles" who need to escape from the other half

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I really can't understand why folks can't just let others get on with things without trying to be superior!

I probably wouldn't join this event as it's probably going to be in Glasgow but seriously why the feck can't people just let them get on with it without pissing on their parade

I think it's a great idea and as I've said it's worked brilliant in Wales to help folk get verified! Surely knowing that folk will turn up is better than all the randoms who wouldn't , we have all been there and no point in pretending that just cause we are long time "swingers" we are any better than folk who are starting out

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I really can't understand why folks can't just let others get on with things without trying to be superior!

I probably wouldn't join this event as it's probably going to be in Glasgow but seriously why the feck can't people just let them get on with it without pissing on their parade

I think it's a great idea and as I've said it's worked brilliant in Wales to help folk get verified! Surely knowing that folk will turn up is better than all the randoms who wouldn't , we have all been there and no point in pretending that just cause we are long time "swingers" we are any better than folk who are starting out "

Because they literally cannot help themselves. Must be very boring round their way, perhaps they need a hobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

Great idea

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I really can't understand why folks can't just let others get on with things without trying to be superior!

I probably wouldn't join this event as it's probably going to be in Glasgow but seriously why the feck can't people just let them get on with it without pissing on their parade

I think it's a great idea and as I've said it's worked brilliant in Wales to help folk get verified! Surely knowing that folk will turn up is better than all the randoms who wouldn't , we have all been there and no point in pretending that just cause we are long time "swingers" we are any better than folk who are starting out

Because they literally cannot help themselves. Must be very boring round their way, perhaps they need a hobby "

Fancy starting a knitting club ?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I really can't understand why folks can't just let others get on with things without trying to be superior!

I probably wouldn't join this event as it's probably going to be in Glasgow but seriously why the feck can't people just let them get on with it without pissing on their parade

I think it's a great idea and as I've said it's worked brilliant in Wales to help folk get verified! Surely knowing that folk will turn up is better than all the randoms who wouldn't , we have all been there and no point in pretending that just cause we are long time "swingers" we are any better than folk who are starting out

Because they literally cannot help themselves. Must be very boring round their way, perhaps they need a hobby

Fancy starting a knitting club ? "

I'm just starting to learn, so yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can't understand why folks can't just let others get on with things without trying to be superior!

I probably wouldn't join this event as it's probably going to be in Glasgow but seriously why the feck can't people just let them get on with it without pissing on their parade

I think it's a great idea and as I've said it's worked brilliant in Wales to help folk get verified! Surely knowing that folk will turn up is better than all the randoms who wouldn't , we have all been there and no point in pretending that just cause we are long time "swingers" we are any better than folk who are starting out

Because they literally cannot help themselves. Must be very boring round their way, perhaps they need a hobby "

the op asked for peoples opinions dont ask for opinions then jump down peoples throats because they dont suit like i say good luck to use but if you dont want opinions dont ask for them

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I really can't understand why folks can't just let others get on with things without trying to be superior!

I probably wouldn't join this event as it's probably going to be in Glasgow but seriously why the feck can't people just let them get on with it without pissing on their parade

I think it's a great idea and as I've said it's worked brilliant in Wales to help folk get verified! Surely knowing that folk will turn up is better than all the randoms who wouldn't , we have all been there and no point in pretending that just cause we are long time "swingers" we are any better than folk who are starting out

Because they literally cannot help themselves. Must be very boring round their way, perhaps they need a hobby

the op asked for peoples opinions dont ask for opinions then jump down peoples throats because they dont suit like i say good luck to use but if you dont want opinions dont ask for them "

And as was said above, she asked if there would be interest. If people were not interested, a 'no thanks' would have been a lot easier than a diatribe about who gets to use the site legitimately.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Arguing with a fool only proves there are two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can't understand why folks can't just let others get on with things without trying to be superior!

I probably wouldn't join this event as it's probably going to be in Glasgow but seriously why the feck can't people just let them get on with it without pissing on their parade

I think it's a great idea and as I've said it's worked brilliant in Wales to help folk get verified! Surely knowing that folk will turn up is better than all the randoms who wouldn't , we have all been there and no point in pretending that just cause we are long time "swingers" we are any better than folk who are starting out

Because they literally cannot help themselves. Must be very boring round their way, perhaps they need a hobby

the op asked for peoples opinions dont ask for opinions then jump down peoples throats because they dont suit like i say good luck to use but if you dont want opinions dont ask for them

And as was said above, she asked if there would be interest. If people were not interested, a 'no thanks' would have been a lot easier than a diatribe about who gets to use the site legitimately."

pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I really can't understand why folks can't just let others get on with things without trying to be superior!

I probably wouldn't join this event as it's probably going to be in Glasgow but seriously why the feck can't people just let them get on with it without pissing on their parade

I think it's a great idea and as I've said it's worked brilliant in Wales to help folk get verified! Surely knowing that folk will turn up is better than all the randoms who wouldn't , we have all been there and no point in pretending that just cause we are long time "swingers" we are any better than folk who are starting out

Because they literally cannot help themselves. Must be very boring round their way, perhaps they need a hobby

the op asked for peoples opinions dont ask for opinions then jump down peoples throats because they dont suit like i say good luck to use but if you dont want opinions dont ask for them

And as was said above, she asked if there would be interest. If people were not interested, a 'no thanks' would have been a lot easier than a diatribe about who gets to use the site legitimately.

pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea "

Why are you so angry and confrontational? Every post I've seen from you over the weekend has been rude and aggressive, there's really no need to be like that. If something is bothering you, perhaps you need to work through it rather than having a go at other people who're just trying to have fun.

You don't have to like her idea, it's clear that you don't. But you don't need to have a go at her or everyone else either. Not everything is a fight, you know.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea "

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Arguing with a fool only proves there are two "

Not arguing, but I won't be saying any more on it even though he'll need to have the final word.

So anyway, knitting. My friend knitted an amazing Wonder Woman costume. A one piece suit, tiara, boots and lasso, all knitted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend "

i said it was a good idea just dont like the snoot brigade jumping down peoples throats when they give their opinion on an open forum like they own the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend "

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

i said it was a good idea just dont like the snoot brigade jumping down peoples throats when they give their opinion on an open forum like they own the place "

i only see one person jumping down throats

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite "

look up hypocrite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite look up hypocrite "

its obvious why your single

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite look up hypocrite

its obvious why your single "

Wow. Really making yourself look attractive there.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite look up hypocrite

its obvious why your single "

your totally right..... Because I refuse to deal with numpties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite look up hypocrite

its obvious why your single your totally right..... Because I refuse to deal with numpties "

so why you on here looking for them then ?

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite look up hypocrite

its obvious why your single your totally right..... Because I refuse to deal with numpties

so why you on here looking for them then ? "

I'm not.....hence I've never met you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see all these posts for clubs and parties and it's always all couples. But how's us singles suppose to meet singles when no one holds a singles night. Is this a good idea or not x"

Good idea - count me in.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite look up hypocrite

its obvious why your single your totally right..... Because I refuse to deal with numpties

so why you on here looking for them then ?

I'm not.....hence I've never met you "

I wanted to say it, but it was too easy

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Perhaps the manner the answers are being given is getting up peoples noses. though an opinion was asked for. if the op is happy with what is being proposed make a post asking for names. unfortunatly when an opinion is asked for alot of the time thats what gets put on. some opinions you may like some you wont makes no odds its an concensus that was asked for if you go ahead op I hope you get what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite look up hypocrite

its obvious why your single your totally right..... Because I refuse to deal with numpties

so why you on here looking for them then ?

I'm not.....hence I've never met you "

so your single because you havent met me ? oh cheers

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Anyways let's stop hijacking the ops thread it's really not classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite look up hypocrite

its obvious why your single your totally right..... Because I refuse to deal with numpties

so why you on here looking for them then ? "

Time to give it up I'd say. You're just being plain rude now and making yourself look like one of those said numpties. We are all here "to do our thing" as Mr View said earlier.

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyways let's stop hijacking the ops thread it's really not classy "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyways let's stop hijacking the ops thread it's really not classy "

fair doos ... like i say best of luck and good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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pish she asked if it was a good idea that refers to the idea if she asked who would attend she would have got replies stating who would attend look up the dictionary and check definition of the word idea

So I assume you don't think it's a good it's then? That's fine, no one is forcing you "real" swingers to attend

real swingers ? did you not just say on your last post "JUST BECAUSE WE ARE LONG TERM SWINGERS " what a hypocrite look up hypocrite

its obvious why your single

Wow. Really making yourself look attractive there. "

away you and ask people what colour of carpets you should have for your make believe party youv asked everything else its obvious you couldnt arrange a happy meal in mcdonalds and stop sucking up peoples arses in the hope someone might turn up

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Point proved, right there *slow clap*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg can't believe the comments on here. Most people are on this site for the same reason. To meet people for Nsa sex. And for social side. There is great people on here. Yes everyone is entitled to the opinions. This an adult forum . But right now it reads very childish and bitter. The mad crazy would of fab. As a single pringel think its a great idea. Don't give a dame if that means I'm not a swinger . Its just a term a name. Its people that count not words.

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

God, this thread started with someone suggesting something and asking if there would be any interest in it.

Unfortunately the school bully would appear to have hijacked it and turned it into an embarrassing, childish slagging match!

Move on mate!

It's pretty clear no one is remotely interested in your bitching and negativity.

Tina, great idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant idea hunni. Looking forward to this xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Oh dear

The OP asked about a night for singles, if it doesn't interest you please leave the threads for the people it does interest.

To the OP, I see someone is organising it for you, so good luck.

Will shut this now.

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