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By *overocketone OP   Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

As a singleton just curious how married couples( Not to each other) on the site would feel if they didnt know there spouses were on site too. A tad embarrising if they bumped into each other in a swingers club! I do applaud them for the eccuses they must have to make and even to their kids

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I tend not to give too much thought to what other people get up to, as it's their business and not mine.

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Well if there on here there only having fun and each to there own I would say

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Over the years, I have learned not to care what others do. It is not my drama, they don't lie to me nor waste one second of my time here.

Let them focus on people who will meet them and do their thing.

They deal with any consequences

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Over the years, I have learned not to care what others do. It is not my drama, they don't lie to me nor waste one second of my time here.

Let them focus on people who will meet them and do their thing.

They deal with any consequences "

wise ...very wise

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Over the years, I have learned not to care what others do. It is not my drama, they don't lie to me nor waste one second of my time here.

Let them focus on people who will meet them and do their thing.

They deal with any consequences "
sometimes wish I could take this _iew of things though my nature dosnt allow it to happen in reply to the op would loves to see this happen the indignation on both faces but inability to say anything would be hilarious

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Over the years, I have learned not to care what others do. It is not my drama, they don't lie to me nor waste one second of my time here.

Let them focus on people who will meet them and do their thing.

They deal with any consequences sometimes wish I could take this _iew of things though my nature dosnt allow it to happen in reply to the op would loves to see this happen the indignation on both faces but inability to say anything would be hilarious"

Bad man

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have seen first hand a married person who told their love done they were on a night out with work colleagues, come to a club and play with someone. The partner suspected, arrived and was given entrance because we knew the partner was there but not the story told. A playroom door was forced open and a tawdry, undignified drama was played out for all to see.

It was unpleasant to witness

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

One*

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By *overocketone OP   Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

Yes thats embarrising

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By *overocketone OP   Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

Yes thats embarrising

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Yes thats embarrising "
yes

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Yes thats embarrising "
yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sure would be but suppose pple involved would hope it wouldnt happen but think your point about even making excuses to their kids just doesnt apply to married ppl on the fly im sure most single parents on here do the same no one on here would wish there kids to know married or single

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By *overocketone OP   Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

My apologies Iam sure its right across the board...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Yes sure would be but suppose pple involved would hope it wouldnt happen but think your point about even making excuses to their kids just doesnt apply to married ppl on the fly im sure most single parents on here do the same no one on here would wish there kids to know married or single "
im sure all want to protect their children married or single though promises werent made and broken to children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i cant disagree with that but my point was about the kids more than getting into a massive debate over the rights n wrongs of married ppl on here

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Each to their own really I don't judge others and don't want others judging me. Personally I came off the site when my ex wanted to try again but that was just my choice I find it easier to be upfront and honest not saying others aren't in fact I applaud those who are brave enough to tell the truth no matter how complicated.

If it works for them who am I to pass judgement after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a singleton just curious how married couples( Not to each other) on the site would feel if they didnt know there spouses were on site too. A tad embarrising if they bumped into each other in a swingers club! I do applaud them for the eccuses they must have to make and even to their kids

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just avoid swinging clubs and let your wife get on with it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

It happens and if people are happily swinging and attending, socials, clubs or parties and don't expect to bump into people they know then more fool them it's happened in the past and will happen again.

The consequences are theirs so it's their choice.

Whether it's spouses or kids they lie to about where they are going is the same across the board some are open to grown children about their activities on here and some aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a singleton just curious how married couples( Not to each other) on the site would feel if they didnt know there spouses were on site too. A tad embarrising if they bumped into each other in a swingers club! I do applaud them for the eccuses they must have to make and even to their kids

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you mean there are people on this forum that are not married wtf

perhaps they spent time in jail and missed the mating game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use to be very anti married men and women. However I get there is reasons why people do what they do.just know I'm not the one who is cheating or lying .I suppose if you like sex and you not getting that need. Then dose meeting other people save marriages ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeking fun elsewhere after not getting any at home is an unfortunate but natural state. If the active spouse is satisfied and the other remains unaware, there is no need to break up the family etc. Couples change over the years and can drift but their mutual responsibilities keep them tied together. It isn't ideal but it works.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

If anyone is judging anyone for whatever reason then theyre on the wrong site

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

As an earlier poster said "not my drama" if married folk are not being honest. I'd rather be up front & folk know my circumstances & if they want to play fine. If they don't it's not my relationship dealing with the consequences. Who am I to judge?

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"As an earlier poster said "not my drama" if married folk are not being honest. I'd rather be up front & folk know my circumstances & if they want to play fine. If they don't it's not my relationship dealing with the consequences. Who am I to judge? "

Always smile at the double talk which emerges in these threads.

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