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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think its sad that people have judged you through. Other people bitching n gossiping.

Learned all long time ago never judge a book by its cover . Unless you spend time with someone you will never Truely

Know what they are like .

Learned there's a lot of jealousy on here

Fact is some people have meet the same people nobody owns them Nsa .

The cliques etc. Well glad iv meet some great people on here .

Hope I meet more tonight .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always judge a person by their actions towards me.

Or by actions that i witness first hand.

Going on gossip and whispers is never a good idea.

Even if some of the stories do turn out true in the end.

Good luck for tonight.

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

I totally agree with crumpet

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

If that is the case you wouldnt want to know them anyways

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If that is the case you wouldnt want to know them anyways "

So true shallow shows a lack of self worth . Anyway hoping to have a great night .enjoy your Saturday .

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By *ikchattyfellahMan
over a year ago

Greenock

Best policy is never to judge while your life is not over. While you're alive then there's always the opportunity to fail your own high level moralistic standards.

I find if you judge less harshly (if you really can't say nothing) then folk are more likely to forgive it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we don't recognise it as we do it all the time as a natural thing but we make judgements every day off our life's that's what keeps us save .

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Best policy is never to judge while your life is not over. While you're alive then there's always the opportunity to fail your own high level moralistic standards.

I find if you judge less harshly (if you really can't say nothing) then folk are more likely to forgive it."
this seems to be the fab warcry of recent times the simple fact is we all judge we all get up in arms about paedophiles, rapists , murder and other things there is nothing wrong with having standards and only wanting folk who fit those round you im not manys cup of tea and couldnt really care less rather be happy with the decent freinds I have than a shower of backstabbers so I will keep it real and judge on what I see

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By *oznrayCouple
over a year ago

helensburgh

my policy has always been to ignore what I hear and let people fuck it up for themselves and its worked well over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's human nature to judge. It's never going to be avoided.

It's a website we all judge based on what we read, what we see and also on our own _iew of ourselves or our standards.

However it's wrong if those judgments then hurt others or lead to someone else not forming their own opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's human nature to judge. It's never going to be avoided.

It's a website we all judge based on what we read, what we see and also on our own _iew of ourselves or our standards.

However it's wrong if those judgments then hurt others or lead to someone else not forming their own opinion.

"

This

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By *ew guy69Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Dnt listen to other people ur here to enjoy urself and other people u only live once so enjoy xxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I often wonder why people think this scene will be any different to the outside world, people put too much weight on the word 'community'.Some people will do what they need, to get what they need and if they consider someone to be getting more, they will become jealous as they would if someone had a better house, car or job. It is what we do every day, every week, every month and will be for the foreseeable future.

Rise above the nonsense, the more you show any reaction, the more people win.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"I often wonder why people think this scene will be any different to the outside world, people put too much weight on the word 'community'.Some people will do what they need, to get what they need and if they consider someone to be getting more, they will become jealous as they would if someone had a better house, car or job. It is what we do every day, every week, every month and will be for the foreseeable future.

Rise above the nonsense, the more you show any reaction, the more people win."

Wise words.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"my policy has always been to ignore what I hear and let people fuck it up for themselves and its worked well over the years"

Absolutely roz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's human nature to judge. It's never going to be avoided.

It's a website we all judge based on what we read, what we see and also on our own _iew of ourselves or our standards.

However it's wrong if those judgments then hurt others or lead to someone else not forming their own opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you cant say something good about someone then simply say nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you cant say something good about someone then simply say nothing at all"
I think this too

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton

"What people think of you is none of your business "

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton

This one time, on the 62 bus...I farted, at that very moment 4 people turned round and looked at me...

"felt like I was on The Voice"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""What people think of you is none of your business ""

Love this

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton


""What people think of you is none of your business "

Love this "

Yup Shelly -head held high, confident in your own skin

-Martha Graham

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton


""What people think of you is none of your business "

Love this

Yup Shelly -head held high, confident and comfortable in your own skin

-Martha Graham "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some great advice .so thanks need to relise you can't keep everybody Happy all different . I suppose the day people stop talking about me. I should worrie them iv became boring .

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