FabSwingers.com forum: Friends requests

By *gowbhoy4fun OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I see on some profiles that if you send a friend invite before messaging they will block you ....is it just me that thinks this is a bit extreme ??....its a REQUEST not an order so obv upto the person to accept or not ...i also think this is a good way too see if someone is interested in meeting/ chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view is its a bit presumptuous and bad form but I just ignore.. not block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to chat first, and if we all get on, then send an invite. We just ignore the random requests

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"My view is its a bit presumptuous and bad form but I just ignore.. not block.

This

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

It just screams show me the dirty pics

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I've never blocked anyone for sending a friends request if that request hasn't come with a message it simply gets deleted and forgotten about.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"It just screams show me the dirty pics "

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply delete any friend requests if the person has not first of all sent me mail.

Once we mail back and forward and enjoy chatting that is when the friend request should be sent from either side, but for someone simply to send a friends request without even trying to start conversation!! I just delete the friend request and carry on as if no more had happened.

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By *gowbhoy4fun OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

If i wanted to see dirty pix theres plenty porn on web for that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get random friend requests every now n again so I'll accept just to check out any private pics......then delete em!

Repeat offenders get left in 'fwiend limbo'......if you neither accept nor decline then they Cannae send another one....mwahaha!

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By *gowbhoy4fun OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"We like to chat first, and if we all get on, then send an invite. We just ignore the random requests

Like ti chat then ha ...sure i sent you message but no reply

lol x

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By *dicplCouple
over a year ago

Fife

"It just screams show me the dirty pics "

Yep!! We don't block but we do ignore if we haven't even spoken. I personally think it's a bit rude to want to see your pics without even saying nowt - I mean if we wanted that then they wouldn't be private lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to chat first, and if we all get on, then send an invite. We just ignore the random requests

Like ti chat then ha ...sure i sent you message but no reply

lol x"

Can't actually remember if you did or not, and we try to reply to every message. Getting back to the post, as said, we just ignore random requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to chat first, and if we all get on, then send an invite. We just ignore the random requests

Like ti chat then ha ...sure i sent you message but no reply

lol x"

And on checking, no, you have never sent us a message

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"My view is its a bit presumptuous and bad form but I just ignore.. not block.

Yup

Most of the time they just want to perv at our pics

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By *gowbhoy4fun OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"We like to chat first, and if we all get on, then send an invite. We just ignore the random requests

Like ti chat then ha ...sure i sent you message but no reply

lol x

And on checking, no, you have never sent us a message "

No i never my mistake ..sorry !!...but i did wink n fab mrs pix

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I also laugh at the ones who send a "hi" and then a friend invite.

Still not getting to see the pics!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"My view is its a bit presumptuous and bad form but I just ignore.. not block.

This unless they obviously don't fit my preferences so therefore haven't read the profile, then it's a block.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Get random friend requests every now n again so I'll accept just to check out any private pics......then delete em!

Repeat offenders get left in 'fwiend limbo'......if you neither accept nor decline then they Cannae send another one....mwahaha!"

Pfft you only had to ask n I would have showed you them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit cheeky sometimes I accept. Perv the pics then un-friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only accept friends once i have chatted to the person / persons for sometime and trust them .

But i don't have many ??????????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get random friend requests every now n again so I'll accept just to check out any private pics......then delete em!

Repeat offenders get left in 'fwiend limbo'......if you neither accept nor decline then they Cannae send another one....mwahaha!

Pfft you only had to ask n I would have showed you them

I'm terribly shy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit cheeky sometimes I accept. Perv the pics then un-friend.

I'm bad I have done this also

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By *gowbhoy4fun OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I'm a bit cheeky sometimes I accept. Perv the pics then un-friend.

I'm bad I have done this also

Feel free to send me request then when im offline you can perv away lol ...or just ask and i'l show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a bit cheeky sometimes I accept. Perv the pics then un-friend.

I'm bad I have done this also

Feel free to send me request then when im offline you can perv away lol ...or just ask and i'l show

Don't need to you've lovely public ones.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Get random friend requests every now n again so I'll accept just to check out any private pics......then delete em!

Repeat offenders get left in 'fwiend limbo'......if you neither accept nor decline then they Cannae send another one....mwahaha!

Pfft you only had to ask n I would have showed you them

It's true - she will

Only trouble is cutie deletes 99.9% of her mail and then claims it was an accident

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's actually quite rude, I do get them but always send a message back saying "hello is maybe a better start" I wouldn't block though

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By *gowbhoy4fun OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"I'm a bit cheeky sometimes I accept. Perv the pics then un-friend.

I'm bad I have done this also

Feel free to send me request then when im offline you can perv away lol ...or just ask and i'l show

Don't need to you've lovely public ones.

Aww dont mrs i get

very easily hahah X

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"Get random friend requests every now n again so I'll accept just to check out any private pics......then delete em!

Repeat offenders get left in 'fwiend limbo'......if you neither accept nor decline then they Cannae send another one....mwahaha!

Pfft you only had to ask n I would have showed you them

It's true - she will

Only trouble is cutie deletes 99.9% of her mail and then claims it was an accident

Its that blonde hair dye in the salon

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Have blocked people in the past for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have blocked people in the past for this."

perhaps they just want to copy your hidden/private pics that are only open to friends, you would be surprised how many picture collectors there are on here

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

There's probably a surprising number who are looking to do that (I don't just mean to our profile but in general)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's probably a surprising number who are looking to do that (I don't just mean to our profile but in general)"

Looking to do; check other forums, you may find the pics snipped from one forum and put on another as another person, seen it time and time again,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have learned most people send you a friend request just to see you private photos. what other reason is there to be friends. sadly some of my photos got stole and put on a fake profile. harley except new friend requests now. i send them to those who intrest me.

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By *gowbhoy4fun OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Have blocked people in the past for this."

Yes me lol

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I ask for a friend request if I've been chatting to people for a bit or if I've meet them... but not randomly.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Have blocked people in the past for this.

Yes me lol

You've never sent us a friends invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have face pics in our friends pics so don't accept random requests.

We ask that people don't just send us random request but those that do either failed to read our profile and just look at the pics or chose to ignore showing a bit of common curtesy.

We do say on our profile we block random requests so at the end of the day they can't moan about it when we do.

Everyone has their own preferences and this is ours.

K&P

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By *ollydimplesWoman
over a year ago

hamilton

I think its quite rude tbh if u havent even spoke to someone and they send u a friend request

but my real pet hate is someone who messages you.. chats for 2 mins then asks if they can send u a friend request ..when they dont have any pics on there profile

they clearly just want a perv lol

then they say ...its easier to see if your online ..

ok i say ...add me to your hotlist ... that shuts them up lol

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By *gowbhoy4fun OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Have blocked people in the past for this.

Yes me lol

You've never sent us a friends invite."

Well im not allowed to view your profile ...and i only block guys tht fab my pix all the time ...so dont know how this is

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By *gowbhoy4fun OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"We have face pics in our friends pics so don't accept random requests.

We ask that people don't just send us random request but those that do either failed to read our profile and just look at the pics or chose to ignore showing a bit of common curtesy.

We do say on our profile we block random requests so at the end of the day they can't moan about it when we do.

Everyone has their own preferences and this is ours.

K&P"

If it says on profile not too ask for random requests then i dont send them but sometime i do just send random ones lol...its upto them then too accept or not ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you class a total stranger in the street as your friend without even speaking to them? Nothing wrong with chatting first then ask to invite,but random invites are just people wanting to see pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find abit rude / weird to send random friend invites. We only accept ones from people that we are chatting to and hoping to meet. Any others just delete and forget about.

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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"My view is its a bit presumptuous and bad form but I just ignore.. not block.

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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"We like to chat first, and if we all get on, then send an invite. We just ignore the random requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block simply because you delete it once they send it again and again and so on you cannot win!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to block a couple of random friend invites today,can some people not read?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands up I'm guilty of sending friends invites before I've chatted /messaged folk,however my take on this is I'm letting the recipient decide whether they like enough to accept me, not the other way around. After all you do not get to view others private pics unless they accept you, so I can't see why folk take the huff etc.on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" so I can't see why folk take the huff etc.on this.

Aye neither can I but it doesn't stop me seeing it unfortunately!

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