FabSwingers.com forum: Getting nowhere

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. I was wondering could somebody help me out here. I have been on here now for several months and I still can't seem to get a genuine meet. I have tried chatting with everybody but my messages go unanswered 95% of the time. Could anyone help me out and try get my name out there or tips on how to break into this scene. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I was wondering could somebody help me out here. I have been on here now for several months and I still can't seem to get a genuine meet. I have tried chatting with everybody but my messages go unanswered 95% of the time. Could anyone help me out and try get my name out there or tips on how to break into this scene. Thanks"
patience is the key m8. It's just the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both your pictures are really poor. Very little in your profile and limited to women only 18-40. It looks like you've really made no effort in creating your profile so there's a starter for ten. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback. I'll look at giving my profile a facelift. Appreciate the help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both your pictures are really poor. Very little in your profile and limited to women only 18-40. It looks like you've really made no effort in creating your profile so there's a starter for ten. Good luck."

Spot on sameroom. Patience is again the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could I suggest changing the comment about ticking items off your checklist? Fab isn't a shopping list and although most people would know what you meant, the less reasons you give people to walk on past, the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is 1 hell off a big TIP , go along to one off the many Social's that are on in Glasgow that way people will see you face to face and then make up there own minds about what your like as a person .

Hope this helps .

Check out Socials in Scottish Forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes, I can see how that can come across. Cheers guys for your help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have thought about that and I would be very interested in going. As iv never been to one before I was always a bit wary of going alone and would probably prefer somebody to come along with me and show me the ropes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have thought about that and I would be very interested in going. As iv never been to one before I was always a bit wary of going alone and would probably prefer somebody to come along with me and show me the ropes."

Would you be expecting someone to come along to your first meet and show you the ropes ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No obviously not. But it would be nice to go along to the social with is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No obviously not. But it would be nice to go along to the social with is all"

I totally understand where your coming from and was not trying to be rude was just trying to point out that sometimes you just need to grab bull by horns and go along , usually there will be others who have never been before or ask who is going and see if they fancy a pint before going then you can go along together as 2 guys or better if a female reply's it could be f/m

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah good idea mate. Cheers for your help. Really appreciate it. I will definitely get along to a social. Maybe this weekend if there is any on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah good idea mate. Cheers for your help. Really appreciate it. I will definitely get along to a social. Maybe this weekend if there is any on "

One on in the balloch area and it sounds if it will be a cracker , so av a look at who is going pick a few to message male or female , explain about it being your first and see where it leads but always be polite .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will do mate. Thanks again. You've been a great help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its funny but guys seem to think that as a couple it is easy for us.

We have been trying to find some guys to join us for some fun & come across a huge number of guys who talk a good game but bottle it when actually given the opportunity to do some real life fucking!!

Anyway whether as a single guy or as a couple a huge amount of effort is required kissing frogs before finding your Prince.

All I can suggest is hang in there, keep trying & don't get put off by lack of results.

Ps block all the wasters immediately. That way you will not waste any more time on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its funny but guys seem to think that as a couple it is easy for us.

We have been trying to find some guys to join us for some fun & come across a huge number of guys who talk a good game but bottle it when actually given the opportunity to do some real life fucking!!

Anyway whether as a single guy or as a couple a huge amount of effort is required kissing frogs before finding your Prince.

All I can suggest is hang in there, keep trying & don't get put off by lack of results.

Ps block all the wasters immediately. That way you will not waste any more time on them.

if your having problems getting single guys it might be your profile heading that says NO SINGLE GUYS thats causing it just a thought

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Its funny but guys seem to think that as a couple it is easy for us.

We have been trying to find some guys to join us for some fun & come across a huge number of guys who talk a good game but bottle it when actually given the opportunity to do some real life fucking!!

Anyway whether as a single guy or as a couple a huge amount of effort is required kissing frogs before finding your Prince.

All I can suggest is hang in there, keep trying & don't get put off by lack of results.

Ps block all the wasters immediately. That way you will not waste any more time on them.

if your having problems getting single guys it might be your profile heading that says NO SINGLE GUYS thats causing it just a thought

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just a guess but the heading may be to deter the high volume of mail from single guys but when they want a guy are pro active and msg themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your having problems getting single guys it might be your profile heading that says NO SINGLE GUYS thats causing it just a thought

just a guess but the heading may be to deter the high volume of mail from single guys but when they want a guy are pro active and msg themselves

just a guess but its obviously not working so like i say could be the NO SINGLE GUYS ON PROFILE

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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if your having problems getting single guys it might be your profile heading that says NO SINGLE GUYS thats causing it just a thought

just a guess but the heading may be to deter the high volume of mail from single guys but when they want a guy are pro active and msg themselves

just a guess but its obviously not working so like i say could be the NO SINGLE GUYS ON PROFILE

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lol that could be the case...... but knowing this cpl and the yrs they have been here in the past wishful thinking guys wasnt a problem perhaps it is now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol that could be the case...... but knowing this cpl and the yrs they have been here in the past wishful thinking guys wasnt a problem perhaps it is now

i take your point thou it is a good idea think ill change ours to avoid the "are yours available just now " messages as though we just sit here waiting on any guy that wants his hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your having problems getting single guys it might be your profile heading that says NO SINGLE GUYS thats causing it just a thought

just a guess but the heading may be to deter the high volume of mail from single guys but when they want a guy are pro active and msg themselves

just a guess but its obviously not working so like i say could be the NO SINGLE GUYS ON PROFILE

lol that could be the case...... but knowing this cpl and the yrs they have been here in the past wishful thinking guys wasnt a problem perhaps it is now "

It has always been a problem unfortunately. Maybe it is worse now or maybe our tolerance levels are lower for getting pissed about. Who knows.

But yes the prominent "no single guys" notice is intended to reduce the flood. If we want to find any we write.

Anyway this is well off topic. All we were saying is it takes hard work & patience before any member can expect to find the right people to play with.

It is a surprise I think to many new members just how hard it can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your having problems getting single guys it might be your profile heading that says NO SINGLE GUYS thats causing it just a thought

just a guess but the heading may be to deter the high volume of mail from single guys but when they want a guy are pro active and msg themselves

just a guess but its obviously not working so like i say could be the NO SINGLE GUYS ON PROFILE

lol that could be the case...... but knowing this cpl and the yrs they have been here in the past wishful thinking guys wasnt a problem perhaps it is now

It has always been a problem unfortunately. Maybe it is worse now or maybe our tolerance levels are lower for getting pissed about. Who knows.

But yes the prominent "no single guys" notice is intended to reduce the flood. If we want to find any we write.

Anyway this is well off topic. All we were saying is it takes hard work & patience before any member can expect to find the right people to play with.

It is a surprise I think to many new members just how hard it can be."

all am saying is you cant highlight no single guys on your profile then come on a forum complaining you cant meet any i get why you put it on but maybe single guys sending messages and not getting a reply or hearing couples say they get hundreds of messages a day find when a couple sends messages to them it might seem a bit suspicious not saying you are but it could look that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met couples and love a good fuck, genuine and well hung. Can safely say if I see a sign that says "NO SINGLE GUYS" I will definitely NOT message haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are sorry but these "what am i doing wrong" "help me out posts" are getting really boring, sorry op but theres too many!!