FabSwingers.com forum: Player

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Moan over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and move on its their loss x

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By *inkyman looking for funMan
over a year ago

bathgate

"Just block and move on its their loss x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, I know. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Nothing to feel foolish over,the lengths fakes go to on here is scary. Head held high and move on. There's still genuine guys on here. Just need ti find more of us x

Moan over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Nothing to feel foolish over,the lengths fakes go to on here is scary. Head held high and move on. There's still genuine guys on here. Just need ti find more of us x

Moan over.

I know there are, just gonna feel sorry for myself for a bit!

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have all been there and its not nice just be glad you found out now try not let it bother you to much xi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully you can put it behind you shorty and move on.

This site is great but always be vigilant and trust your guy instinct

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to the best of us on here. Forget move on and have some fun... Its the best medicine x

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Sorry to hear you've had a crap week then this on top of it all. If you need anyone to talk to I'm good at listening x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys. I'll be back to my normal cheeky self very soon. Forgetting and moving on is the best advice, easier said than done though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have all been there and its not nice just be glad you found out now try not let it bother you to much xi"

This

Hope your ok.

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By *u-cee smurfetteWoman
over a year ago

aberdeen

Chin up their loss at the end of the day i know its not what ur wanting to hear just now

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think most are players on here both male and females.

Everyone uses this site and the people on it to manipulate situations and finally get what they want from it.

Not sure in what way use feel uve been played so can't really give my opinion on it. The

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*hug*

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think swinging brings out the most exploitative behaviours in people, rightly or wrongly...... People have their agenda and will play the people who can get them it.

In some case, better to have them stand in front of you rather than trust them standing behind you.

Good luck

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I think swinging brings out the most exploitative behaviours in people, rightly or wrongly...... People have their agenda and will play the people who can get them it.

In some case, better to have them stand in front of you rather than trust them standing behind you.

Good luck"

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

It's not nice when it happens, but the way you're feeling now will soon go. You won't let it happen again, believe me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not nice when it happens, but the way you're feeling now will soon go. You won't let it happen again, believe me! "

You're damn right I won't!! Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the nice messages, I've had a good cry and approx 55 cups of tea and I feel much better.

Wallowing in self pity isn't really my style, thankfully.

Much love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt that you're a gorgeous woman so his loss! Just pick your self up, dust your self off and start again!

A positive mind creates positive things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just treat it as a lesson learned darling. We have all fallen for the lines at one time or another so you're not alone. It hurts when people we trust let us down but when the mist fades we see a lot more clearly. The shame is all theirs.

Chin up...fun to be had!! X

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Just treat it as a lesson learned darling. We have all fallen for the lines at one time or another so you're not alone. It hurts when people we trust let us down but when the mist fades we see a lot more clearly. The shame is all theirs.

Chin up...fun to be had!! X

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By *esignergeekMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I've had a good cry and approx 55 cups of tea and I feel much better."

Ah, the magic of a good cuppa. Glad you’re feeling better about things. Amazing what tea can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats you definition of a player thou i would say everyone on a swinging site would be described as players

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"whats you definition of a player thou i would say everyone on a swinging site would be described as players "
player to me would be someone who has no regard for others just so long as they get what they want with no care about how they get it .....yup a fair few on here could be deemed players

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By *dicplCouple
over a year ago

Fife

"whats you definition of a player thou i would say everyone on a swinging site would be described as players player to me would be someone who has no regard for others just so long as they get what they want with no care about how they get it .....yup a fair few on here could be deemed players "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest thats the _iew you should have of anyone on here unless they show otherwise

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

to be honest thats the _iew you should have of anyone on here unless they show otherwise "
lol it is until someone proves otherwise and not with words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Chin up...fun to be had!! X

Throw myself back in the deep end?!!! Thanks lovely ladies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up...fun to be had!! X

Tried to pm u but u have fems blocked. X

Throw myself back in the deep end?!!! Thanks lovely ladies xx "

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By *lackgrapeMan
over a year ago

Purley

Never take things too seriously here and never have high expectations just try and take it one day at a time .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else want to bump this so I don't get to forget about it???

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Anyone else want to bump this so I don't get to forget about it???

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simple treat everyone as a player if they aint they will prove it over time if they are they will scurry off in search of an easy targetyou will be right 95% of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else want to bump this so I don't get to forget about it???

simple treat everyone as a player if they aint they will prove it over time if they are they will scurry off in search of an easy targetyou will be right 95% of the time"

That's one way for a guy not to bother with you!

Someone treated me as a player when im not then I wouldn't waste another message on them! Never heard the saying dont tar everyone with the same brush?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the easiest way to spot a player is to check if the have a profile on a swingers site

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Anyone else want to bump this so I don't get to forget about it???

simple treat everyone as a player if they aint they will prove it over time if they are they will scurry off in search of an easy targetyou will be right 95% of the time

That's one way for a guy not to bother with you!

Someone treated me as a player when im not then I wouldn't waste another message on them! Never heard the saying dont tar everyone with the same brush?"
prefer the practicality of life experience over believeing folks hype. And if you werent a player it would be evident in time to many buy the bullshit on fab its that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Makes a difference from you playing others then eh ?

Moan over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There people on here who just want to play mind games. Think its a game of chess. Tell the same bullshit to everyone. Thinking women don't talk to each other. Just dust yourself down . Get your head up and that gem could be around the corner . All been there . You are reading words on a screen. You learn. Go by your gut feeling. Hug Xx

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Been there done it and got the t shirt. Feel free to pass on a name do us girls can avoid him x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Players come in many guises, both genders and seek people who have declared vulnerability....

They move from honeypot to honeypot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Makes a difference from you playing others then eh ?

Moan over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Moan over.

Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Moan over.

Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx"

it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Moan over.

Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx

it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope

Us women take a while xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Moan over.

Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx

it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope

Us women take a while xx"

thats two weeks of wasted time when ya could be getting shagged silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Moan over.

Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx

it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope

Us women take a while xx

thats two weeks of wasted time when ya could be getting shagged silly

Shagging on here!!? Ye kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Moan over.

Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx

it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope

Us women take a while xx

thats two weeks of wasted time when ya could be getting shagged silly

Shagging on here!!? Ye kidding

lol...thats a standard single guy line!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Moan over.

Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx

it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope

Us women take a while xx

thats two weeks of wasted time when ya could be getting shagged silly

Shagging on here!!? Ye kidding

lol...thats a standard single guy line!"

Got over it fairly quickly, just someone decided after two weeks, to comment on it. Weird.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.

I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.

I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.

Makes a difference from you playing others then eh ?

Moan over.

Sorry?

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

" Got over it fairly quickly, just someone decided after two weeks, to comment on it. Weird. "

Yes, suggests an ulterior motive or hidden agenda?

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

look for nice single guy.... like me

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Forum posts go back a few years so anyone can add a comment at any time once it's been posted.

My bisexuality post was bumped up a few days ago after it being posted 19 weeks ago lol.

Sometimes its a case of people being bored and going over old posts and they want to add a comment to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forum posts go back a few years so anyone can add a comment at any time once it's been posted.

My bisexuality post was bumped up a few days ago after it being posted 19 weeks ago lol.

Sometimes its a case of people being bored and going over old posts and they want to add a comment to it. "

Yeah, it's a pain in the backside!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm looking for love"
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Aye right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And he's back.

So, why do I keep falling for him, and all the lies?

Is it my ridiculously trustful nature or am I being stupidly naive?

Once again, moan over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he's back.

So, why do I keep falling for him, and all the lies?

Is it my ridiculously trustful nature or am I being stupidly naive?

Once again, moan over.

Unfortunately there is always going to be one.

We want to believe and hearts over rule rational thought sometimes.

It's hard not to beat yourself up over it but you have to remember to be kind to yourself. No one else will be. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he's back.

So, why do I keep falling for him, and all the lies?

Is it my ridiculously trustful nature or am I being stupidly naive?

Once again, moan over.

Unfortunately there is always going to be one.

We want to believe and hearts over rule rational thought sometimes.

It's hard not to beat yourself up over it but you have to remember to be kind to yourself. No one else will be. X"

Thank you lovely lady. I'll be fine by wine o'clock tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there is always going to be one.

We want to believe and hearts over rule rational thought sometimes.

It's hard not to beat yourself up over it but you have to remember to be kind to yourself. No one else will be. X"

Amen to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there is always going to be one.

We want to believe and hearts over rule rational thought sometimes.

It's hard not to beat yourself up over it but you have to remember to be kind to yourself. No one else will be. X

Amen to that!"

Exactly x

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