FabSwingers.com forum: just to much.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sometime wish i was a man on here. post for a meet and get totally swamped that makes it a nightmare. would love men to experience for a day. see what its like. not a moan. just makes it more difficult. men that are ruff are to blame for this. LOL

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

But is it not better to have the choice of meets than to mostly receive no responses or messages deleted even without them being read?

I think I'll swap you for the day !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but what about those times when you say 'no thanks' and they reply 'stuck up bitch' or similar?

:-/

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By *lasguy1972Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"But is it not better to have the choice of meets than to mostly receive no responses or messages deleted even without them being read?

I think I'll swap you for the day !

Snap I understand ladies get swamped but it's totally disheartening at times making a effort and sending reasonable emails getting no reply (i know your swamped) or posting a meet and getting no replies(i know men outnumber everyone and dilute meet adverts) guess everyone has to make a effort no matter how bad it seems at times

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By *lasguy1972Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Yes, but what about those times when you say 'no thanks' and they reply 'stuck up bitch' or similar?

:-/"

Yeah that is not on but at least you got that particular brand of idiots measure early and can block them without even considering a meet

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've given up on posting meets, all you get are guys who haven't read your profile and think it's an easy shag

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I've given up on posting meets, all you get are guys who haven't read your profile and think it's an easy shag

yup, sadly this.

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By *ew guy69Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Alote of guys on here spoil it for rest i can see y woman get fed up no means no sum guys hate fact that woman dnt fancy them lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given up on posting meets, all you get are guys who haven't read your profile and think it's an easy shag

yup, sadly this."

Agreed. I don't bother anymore either. I have batteries.

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By *lasguy1972Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I wish there was a like button on posts because all of the above I agree with.

I keep waiting on the screaming loon ball to post something

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Alote of guys on here spoil it for rest i can see y woman get fed up no means no sum guys hate fact that woman dnt fancy them lol xxxx"

Agreed . .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

close to leaving just drives me mad.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Do the hunting and make the contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do the hunting and make the contact"

Sometimes it's nice to be chased...

Yes, I know. We're a hypocritical bunch

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Do the hunting and make the contact

Sometimes it's nice to be chased...

Yes, I know. We're a hypocritical bunch "

but when it gets too much as in the OP.

Control it by stopping it and go looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do the hunting and make the contact"

Good advice, it also gives you more control and enables you to message profiles that you like/fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a meet yesterday and I received 67 replies and most of them were in a 40 minute period. It's just impossible to reply to them all and some people think they have a god given right to send some abuse after I've said thanks but no thanks especially when I know they just haven't read my profile.

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I know.. read and saw you wanted shaved men so didn't send a message. See it works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but what about those times when you say 'no thanks' and they reply 'stuck up bitch' or similar?

:-/"

Sounds like all the witty charmers are on here in abundance

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By *vTanyaMan
over a year ago

A village in Perthshire

Can't please all the people all the time. Just seperate the wheat from the chavs, if you will pardon the modern biblical reference. It's not so bad being a girl xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sometime wish i was a man on here. post for a meet and get totally swamped that makes it a nightmare. would love men to experience for a day. see what its like. not a moan. just makes it more difficult. men that are ruff are to blame for this. LOL

Don't post meets then, search for the guys that suit you and message them, then you won't be swamped, although when you're getting no guys messaging you'll be moaning about that as well, swings and roundabouts.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

not sure what the problem is if you post for a meet of course guys will message.

They don't know that every other Tom,Dick or Harry has done the same lol.

Like others have said if you don't want the responses you are getting then search for your own playmates that way you don't get inundated and you might just find the playmate of your choosing.

Good luck what ever you choose to do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given up on posting meets, all you get are guys who haven't read your profile and think it's an easy shag

yup, sadly this.

Agreed. I don't bother anymore either. I have batteries. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol or the couples that send you friend invites, say come to our party .get your hopes up then.....block you!

A pillock is a pillock regardless of gender

The genuine people Are polite and nice people

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