FabSwingers.com forum: What's the most?

By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

What's your message count at and what's the most you have had?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

148 unread. Most 250 odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the minute, 230 unread. Remember when I was single here long time ago...when I first joined, I didn't delete any and had over a 1000 in three weeks....single fems esp when new get bombarded...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 5 unread one day, WAW, felt like a celebrity.

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

274 unread.

340ish is highest.

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By * pie4you xWoman
over a year ago

narnia x

107 unread just now and highest has been at 510 x

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By *ndermykiltMan
over a year ago

Perth

Got 0 unread just now most I've had was 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 just now.

Most in one day about 4-5 when I uploaded a couple of pics a few weeks ago

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm seeing a pattern here LOL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mad thought this but how about instead of having unread messages you read the messages, or is it a vanity thing as well??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im totally ocd about clearing my inbox all the time lol... i think maybe 40 is the highest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to wake 1 morning to 3 indox I'd have to phone into work for a holiday I couldn't focus on work after reading the thanx but no thanx replies all at once

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Mad thought this but how about instead of having unread messages you read the messages, or is it a vanity thing as well??"

Speaking for myself, the messages i have are within the last 3-4 days. I do make an effort to politely reply to most, as many will testify to. And continue to chat regularily to quite a few. Time and volume are the issue. But i still continue to try because there are some genuinely nice people on here that are interesting and fun to chat with and I have formed good friendships with outwith the site, all from a single polite email.

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Currently 0 unread

Generally don't get into double figures lol unless being really cheeky lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Last msg recieved 3weeks ago last outgoing 3weeks ago

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I got up to 2 unread today from same lovely lady

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Mad thought this but how about instead of having unread messages you read the messages, or is it a vanity thing as well??"
careful slippery path that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlike my dishes (which I let pile up until I'm eating lasagne with a whisk), I always keep on top of things like messages. I currently have zero unread messages... Sorry, one unread message. The most unread messages I've had in my inbox is about eight. I get about three or four unsolicited messages each day from females or couples and about thirty or forty from friends each day. I always reply politely and with a dash of humour.

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

O unread lol most be 2 , no one mails us lol . Dont start lol

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"O unread lol most be 2 , no one mails us lol . Dont start lol"

Not even for decorating advice?

(Always thought that was such a fun pic)

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Unlike my dishes (which I let pile up until I'm eating lasagne with a whisk), I always keep on top of things like messages. I currently have zero unread messages... Sorry, one unread message. The most unread messages I've had in my inbox is about eight. I get about three or four unsolicited messages each day from females or couples and about thirty or forty from friends each day. I always reply politely and with a dash of humour. "

You lucky bastard!!

What's your secret??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 unread

Probably in the hundreds before I used my filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No unread messages. We tend to reply to mail asap but then again we don't receive that many mail from people in the first place lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, we only seem to be able to see so many then they 'fall off' the bottom. We do reply to 99% though. Those in the 1% clearly haven't read the profile or wrt lk kidz innit?

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By *esignergeekMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Inbox zero!

(Not really. I’m in the middle of a lovely chat. There’s messages all over the place.)

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Currently 134 unread

Mass deleted over 350 last Monday

And thats with filters on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lucky bastard!!

What's your secret?? "

What's my secret?

Perle de Lait.

Also learning how to eat béchamel sauce with a whisk gave me a skilful tongue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero unread, don't actually get that many, so the majority of folk do read profiles

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

"O unread lol most be 2 , no one mails us lol . Dont start lol

Not even for decorating advice?

(Always thought that was such a fun pic)"

Nope not even for decorating lol , and thank you for liking my pic lol

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"O unread lol most be 2 , no one mails us lol . Dont start lol

Not even for decorating advice?

(Always thought that was such a fun pic)

Nope not even for decorating lol , and thank you for liking my pic lol

You're welcome, i just hope it was emulsion!

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Most 3 or 4 ...but not really been playing much and only had the one pic.....on last profile we were more active and had a lot more pics and got more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 at the moment but things might change come time . He he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just 12 unread at the moment. I've been at 200 unread in the past.

I mass delete.

I sometimes read messages and save them with the intention of replying but I often forget.

I don't get as many messages as some women on here. I feel so unloved lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"O unread lol most be 2 , no one mails us lol . Dont start lol

Not even for decorating advice?

(Always thought that was such a fun pic)

Nope not even for decorating lol , and thank you for liking my pic lol

You're welcome, i just hope it was emulsion!

First you steal my heart and then you steal my F@@king gag! Damn you to hell Ickles, damn you to hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly a vanity thing for a lot of women on here.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm currently all caught up. Was at 80 odd unread on friday as I'd only been dealing with a few. Sadly probably 65 of them were unsuitable, so I'd rather have 15 any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is ridiculously high!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 1 most ever was 6 but had been offline for a week

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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I had 957 the other day, which had accumulated over 3 weeks. I only had filters on to block couples and tv's.

I did reply to messages that were relevant and friends messages ( I think, they can fall off the page sometimes).

The reason why I didn't reply to the rest of them is because I have come to realise if you message someone for example a single guy, even to say no thanks, then if you needed a break and put a filter on single guys they can all get through the filter because you have already messaged them.

So to the guys that think its vanity ignoring the messages to see how many you can get, no it isn't always the case.

I have narrowed my age group and I had 21 messages in 2 days. A huge difference.

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

3 unread i was over the moon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 unread i was over the moon lol "

Same here Ha Ha Ha

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By *rs Robinson no 1Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

8 since last night

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By *bandAbCouple
over a year ago

lanarkshire.

Has 4 this morning and thats prob the most yet lol some couples get more attention than others lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most is 3 but usually 0 but some times its worth all the effort when you get a good reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 and 1. Thanks for rubbing that in. Only a girl would ask that question. Going to find a corner to cry in now.

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Once I had 1 msg..so I framed it

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By *he Mad ChatterMan
over a year ago

Wonderland

"Once I had 1 msg..so I framed it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get much mail then again I use the filters and hide my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im totally ocd about clearing my inbox all the time lol... i think maybe 40 is the highest "

Am the same most I have had is 90 but clear it every time I come on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 174 & most I think was 650 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 174 & most I think was 650 x"

I never sent you that many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think someone might have messaged me once...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At 174 & most I think was 650 x

I never sent you that many

Haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most I get is about 30 in a day, obviously must have a shit profile compared to every other female on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

around 50 per day but had 104 in 1 day recently...never going to show the extra naughty pics again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 inbox just now and we've never received a message without starting the conversation ourselves

Ink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I remember having 3 but sure one of them was sent by mistake and other from the site after upgrading and 3 from a male so none any use haha

Morale was high that day

haha

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Currently 0 unread, about 12 currently sent & unread.

There was this one time when I had 4 unread messages!! But one of them was a message abet twice by mistake. Generally speaking the most unread I'll have is 1. 2 at a push.

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