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"And perhaps people should be left to run their own accounts as they see fit"  | |||
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"People moaning about people moaning  "Not the good moaning either  | |||
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"Remember ladies there is a way around getting all that mail you all seem to get in your inbox and it's very Simple to do just block all single males from messaging you and go look for them yourselfs . But alas i don't see that happening so please stop moaning about all the mail you get as there is a way to stop it and again Simples ." As a single female . I'm looking for single males . The issue is men well out number women on here. Where did you see someone moan about it . Mabe the where just stating a fact. Ps this post is going to really help you get meets ?? | |||
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"Clearly this is something that you feel very strongly about OP given you've started a whole new thread by pasting your post from another. " Attention seeking | |||
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"Remember ladies there is a way around getting all that mail you all seem to get in your inbox and it's very Simple to do just block all single males from messaging you and go look for them yourselfs . But alas i don't see that happening so please stop moaning about all the mail you get as there is a way to stop it and again Simples . As a single female . I'm looking for single males . The issue is men well out number women on here. Where did you see someone moan about it . Mabe the where just stating a fact. Ps this post is going to really help you get meets ??" His post was originally a contribution to another thread where the OP of that thread was 'moaning' (ahem) about not getting any replies. Much ado about nothing.;-) | |||
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"Exactly your right Audi. But us females actually would be lost without all the messages. If we didn't get any we would wonder what's wrong with us so we are just going to have to suffer the burden of a full message box but not in silence. Oh and we do prefer a guy to chase us truth be told. " I am very glad that you had put that bit in Fem as i was going to but as another poster posted speaking your mind means less meets and for attention seeking i am not just one who has a voice and uses it . | |||
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"Remember ladies there is a way around getting all that mail you all seem to get in your inbox and it's very Simple to do just block all single males from messaging you and go look for them yourselfs . But alas i don't see that happening so please stop moaning about all the mail you get as there is a way to stop it and again Simples . As a single female . I'm looking for single males . The issue is men well out number women on here. Where did you see someone moan about it . Mabe the where just stating a fact. Ps this post is going to really help you get meets ?? His post was originally a contribution to another thread where the OP of that thread was 'moaning' (ahem) about not getting any replies. Much ado about nothing.;-)" Cheers your right there but goes to show how some people just like to throw theere 2pence worth in with out reading other post first but hey ho this i what fab is turning into . | |||
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"Remember ladies there is a way around getting all that mail you all seem to get in your inbox and it's very Simple to do just block all single males from messaging you and go look for them yourselfs . But alas i don't see that happening so please stop moaning about all the mail you get as there is a way to stop it and again Simples . As a single female . I'm looking for single males . The issue is men well out number women on here. Where did you see someone moan about it . Mabe the where just stating a fact. Ps this post is going to really help you get meets ?? His post was originally a contribution to another thread where the OP of that thread was 'moaning' (ahem) about not getting any replies. Much ado about nothing.;-) Cheers your right there but goes to show how some people just like to throw theere 2pence worth in with out reading other post first but hey ho this i what fab is turning into ." You mean the way you did on the post in question? | |||
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"Remember ladies there is a way around getting all that mail you all seem to get in your inbox and it's very Simple to do just block all single males from messaging you and go look for them yourselfs . But alas i don't see that happening so please stop moaning about all the mail you get as there is a way to stop it and again Simples . As a single female . I'm looking for single males . The issue is men well out number women on here. Where did you see someone moan about it . Mabe the where just stating a fact. Ps this post is going to really help you get meets ?? His post was originally a contribution to another thread where the OP of that thread was 'moaning' (ahem) about not getting any replies. Much ado about nothing.;-) Cheers your right there but goes to show how some people just like to throw theere 2pence worth in with out reading other post first but hey ho this i what fab is turning into . You mean the way you did on the post in question?" I can safely say i read all the posts before i posted mine and found a simpler way off avoiding the females getting all the mail that they seem not to be wanting so just voiced my opinion by letting you all know thats what filters are there for so if you want to avoid getting all that mail you get , USE THEM. Simples | |||
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"Remember ladies there is a way around getting all that mail you all seem to get in your inbox and it's very Simple to do just block all single males from messaging you and go look for them yourselfs . But alas i don't see that happening so please stop moaning about all the mail you get as there is a way to stop it and again Simples . As a single female . I'm looking for single males . The issue is men well out number women on here. Where did you see someone moan about it . Mabe the where just stating a fact. Ps this post is going to really help you get meets ?? His post was originally a contribution to another thread where the OP of that thread was 'moaning' (ahem) about not getting any replies. Much ado about nothing.;-) Cheers your right there but goes to show how some people just like to throw theere 2pence worth in with out reading other post first but hey ho this i what fab is turning into . You mean the way you did on the post in question? I can safely say i read all the posts before i posted mine and found a simpler way off avoiding the females getting all the mail that they seem not to be wanting so just voiced my opinion by letting you all know thats what filters are there for so if you want to avoid getting all that mail you get , USE THEM. Simples " If the explanation of why not all mail is read bothers you that much that you felt the need to make accusations of moaning, then perhaps you should IGNORE THEM. Equally simples. | |||
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"Play nice children" I play perfectly nicely thank you, except when being condescended. | |||
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"Play nice children I play perfectly nicely thank you, except when being condescended." Ooooh like to see you play nice or naughty he he | |||
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"Play nice children I play perfectly nicely thank you, except when being condescended." Calm down Dear, it's only a commercial! | |||
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"I think some are not really reading what the op has written how many posts do you see a fem reply its hard for a fem we get upto 400 mail a day from guys to young or guys who are bi or not bi or ...... I believe all the op was saying is if its that much of a burden set your filters up accordingly also someone sends you a hi hows you msg block them if this is not what you want your volume will go down and for some females the filters will soon be back off as some do enjoy the adulation suchis life" The op was given replies to this on the original post that he posted this same comment to. | |||
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"Perhaps made this post to hilight and get others insights " Well there has definitely been insights. | |||
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"I think some are not really reading what the op has written how many posts do you see a fem reply its hard for a fem we get upto 400 mail a day from guys to young or guys who are bi or not bi or ...... I believe all the op was saying is if its that much of a burden set your filters up accordingly also someone sends you a hi hows you msg block them if this is not what you want your volume will go down and for some females the filters will soon be back off as some do enjoy the adulation suchis life The op was given replies to this on the original post that he posted this same comment to. " Exactly | |||
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"I think some are not really reading what the op has written how many posts do you see a fem reply its hard for a fem we get upto 400 mail a day from guys to young or guys who are bi or not bi or ...... I believe all the op was saying is if its that much of a burden set your filters up accordingly also someone sends you a hi hows you msg block them if this is not what you want your volume will go down and for some females the filters will soon be back off as some do enjoy the adulation suchis life" I read both his opening post here and on the other thread | |||
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"if instead of complaining, how about helping these women and not send so many "If us single guys never sent any mail to the females on here they would not be happy about it . | |||
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"I think some are not really reading what the op has written how many posts do you see a fem reply its hard for a fem we get upto 400 mail a day from guys to young or guys who are bi or not bi or ...... I believe all the op was saying is if its that much of a burden set your filters up accordingly also someone sends you a hi hows you msg block them if this is not what you want your volume will go down and for some females the filters will soon be back off as some do enjoy the adulation suchis life I read both his opening post here and on the other thread " So what i seem to gather here is that all the females are more annoyed at the word ( MOANING ) than really seeing what the post is all about Using FILTERS. | |||
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"I think some are not really reading what the op has written how many posts do you see a fem reply its hard for a fem we get upto 400 mail a day from guys to young or guys who are bi or not bi or ...... I believe all the op was saying is if its that much of a burden set your filters up accordingly also someone sends you a hi hows you msg block them if this is not what you want your volume will go down and for some females the filters will soon be back off as some do enjoy the adulation suchis life I read both his opening post here and on the other thread So what i seem to gather here is that all the females are more annoyed at the word ( MOANING ) than really seeing what the post is all about Using FILTERS. " I think you just intend to gather whatever you see fit to. You were given, i think, a perfectly reasonably explanation in the other post, but decided that wasnt enough so created a new post for further reaction. Well done, you got it. Enjoy your day. | |||
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"If us single guys never sent any mail to the females on here they would not be happy about it ."
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"I think some are not really reading what the op has written how many posts do you see a fem reply its hard for a fem we get upto 400 mail a day from guys to young or guys who are bi or not bi or ...... I believe all the op was saying is if its that much of a burden set your filters up accordingly also someone sends you a hi hows you msg block them if this is not what you want your volume will go down and for some females the filters will soon be back off as some do enjoy the adulation suchis life I read both his opening post here and on the other thread So what i seem to gather here is that all the females are more annoyed at the word ( MOANING ) than really seeing what the post is all about Using FILTERS. " Telling a woman she's moaning is like a red rag to a bull | |||
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"I think some are not really reading what the op has written how many posts do you see a fem reply its hard for a fem we get upto 400 mail a day from guys to young or guys who are bi or not bi or ...... I believe all the op was saying is if its that much of a burden set your filters up accordingly also someone sends you a hi hows you msg block them if this is not what you want your volume will go down and for some females the filters will soon be back off as some do enjoy the adulation suchis life I read both his opening post here and on the other thread So what i seem to gather here is that all the females are more annoyed at the word ( MOANING ) than really seeing what the post is all about Using FILTERS. " Then (from me) you're gathering wrong. My objection was telling other people what to do with their profiles | |||
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"I think some are not really reading what the op has written how many posts do you see a fem reply its hard for a fem we get upto 400 mail a day from guys to young or guys who are bi or not bi or ...... I believe all the op was saying is if its that much of a burden set your filters up accordingly also someone sends you a hi hows you msg block them if this is not what you want your volume will go down and for some females the filters will soon be back off as some do enjoy the adulation suchis life I read both his opening post here and on the other thread So what i seem to gather here is that all the females are more annoyed at the word ( MOANING ) than really seeing what the post is all about Using FILTERS. Then (from me) you're gathering wrong. My objection was telling other people what to do with their profiles " All i was doing was answering a post about why no replies . And explained filters are the best way as site provide them for use . | |||
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"Except that the way you worded it made it sound like you were mansplaining to a bunch of airheaded bimbos. Most people do know about filters, if they want to use them they will. I really don't care how other people use the tools they're provided with, or not, it's none of my business " Thats not the way i worded it thats the way you picked it up no-one else has complained about that barr yourself . The only other complaining came from me putting word moaning in subject . Why no refer to what Fab Fem put in her post in this thread which is closer to the answer than you like to think but that's at least from some one in the real fab world . | |||
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"I think some are not really reading what the op has written how many posts do you see a fem reply its hard for a fem we get upto 400 mail a day from guys to young or guys who are bi or not bi or ...... I believe all the op was saying is if its that much of a burden set your filters up accordingly also someone sends you a hi hows you msg block them if this is not what you want your volume will go down and for some females the filters will soon be back off as some do enjoy the adulation suchis life I read both his opening post here and on the other thread So what i seem to gather here is that all the females are more annoyed at the word ( MOANING ) than really seeing what the post is all about Using FILTERS. I think you just intend to gather whatever you see fit to. You were given, i think, a perfectly reasonably explanation in the other post, but decided that wasnt enough so created a new post for further reaction. Well done, you got it. Enjoy your day." FFS grow up it's a forum after all and people are allowed to _iew there opinions just like yourself but when people no like replies they het all shirty .  | |||
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"ladies are telling men every day on here what they should do, what they should write, how they should conduct themselves.... in rants, or advice threads or many other types of posts, single guys join in slagging off the guys to appeal to the females if a man offer the female advice, they are patronising and many other negative descriptors. and very few single guys will support in case they. earn the wrath and it is often posted that the guys has burned his boats getting meets
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"ladies are telling men every day on here what they should do, what they should write, how they should conduct themselves.... in rants, or advice threads or many other types of posts, single guys join in slagging off the guys to appeal to the females if a man offer the female advice, they are patronising and many other negative descriptors. and very few single guys will support in case they. earn the wrath and it is often posted that the guys has burned his boats getting meets
" the bit I find funny is alot of fems do get it and are just as scathing in how they feel about it or maybe thats just the females I prefer | |||
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"ladies are telling men every day on here what they should do, what they should write, how they should conduct themselves.... in rants, or advice threads or many other types of posts, single guys join in slagging off the guys to appeal to the females if a man offer the female advice, they are patronising and many other negative descriptors. and very few single guys will support in case they. earn the wrath and it is often posted that the guys has burned his boats getting meets
the bit I find funny is alot of fems do get it and are just as scathing in how they feel about it or maybe thats just the females I prefer"No your 100% correct there and thats the one's i perfer too but as i have now been told i will find it very hard to get meets ,LOL | |||
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"Except that the way you worded it made it sound like you were mansplaining to a bunch of airheaded bimbos. Most people do know about filters, if they want to use them they will. I really don't care how other people use the tools they're provided with, or not, it's none of my business Thats not the way i worded it thats the way you picked it up no-one else has complained about that barr yourself . The only other complaining came from me putting word moaning in subject . Why no refer to what Fab Fem put in her post in this thread which is closer to the answer than you like to think but that's at least from some one in the real fab world . " 'Real fab world'? What does that mean? | |||
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"I the OP knows what fems on here are like ....and to be fair comments like you will get no meets because a forum post makes me laugh.....so very few read the forums it doesn't count for the whole site......also his original point is valid in so many cases and some might not of used filters ....not everyone knows it all about the site." I did say most people, not all. And it's not that I don't think he has a point to an extent. It was the way he said it, as if people should be told how to use their accounts. He'd already commented on the other thread so why start another one? Everybody can fab whatever way they like and use whatever tools they wish. Or not, as the case may be. | |||
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"I the OP knows what fems on here are like ....and to be fair comments like you will get no meets because a forum post makes me laugh.....so very few read the forums it doesn't count for the whole site......also his original point is valid in so many cases and some might not of used filters ....not everyone knows it all about the site. I did say most people, not all. And it's not that I don't think he has a point to an extent. It was the way he said it, as if people should be told how to use their accounts. He'd already commented on the other thread so why start another one? Everybody can fab whatever way they like and use whatever tools they wish. Or not, as the case may be. " To be fair the written word is often interpreted wrongly on here....and he maybe started a new one as not everyone read the other post....and it may help others.....there is many who don't know how to use filters especially new people ....I am sure it will help couples and females equily......I don't think he was telling people how to use thier accounts I think it was a suggestion.......I do think his post was blown out of proportion slightly lol....even if it was condescending etc it may help some..... | |||
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"When a woman EXPLAINS to a man how hard it is to reply to mails it is called an Explianation. But when a Man Explains away around getting all the said mails it is classed as CONDESCENDING. Lol" Is that your explanation for 'real fab world'? Just to clarify | |||
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"When a woman EXPLAINS to a man how hard it is to reply to mails it is called an Explianation. But when a Man Explains away around getting all the said mails it is classed as CONDESCENDING. Lol"
The old story, when women are involved, you can't win.
Women complain about getting too much mail, a guy suggests a solution, one which plenty women admit they didn't initially know about, but the guy's in the wrong???
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"When a woman EXPLAINS to a man how hard it is to reply to mails it is called an Explianation. But when a Man Explains away around getting all the said mails it is classed as CONDESCENDING. Lol
The old story, when women are involved, you can't win.
Women complain about getting too much mail, a guy suggests a solution, one which plenty women admit they didn't initially know about, but the guy's in the wrong???
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"If you'd read what I said, it wasn't the content of what he was saying, rather the way it was put across. But you fill your boots. " So i gather asking you out for a Coffee when ur in Aberdeen is out off the question , . | |||
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"If you'd read what I said, it wasn't the content of what he was saying, rather the way it was put across. But you fill your boots. So i gather asking you out for a Coffee when ur in Aberdeen is out off the question , . "Mr might take you up on that. He does love coffee but you're not really his type | |||
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"If you'd read what I said, it wasn't the content of what he was saying, rather the way it was put across. But you fill your boots. So i gather asking you out for a Coffee when ur in Aberdeen is out off the question , .
Mr might take you up on that. He does love coffee but you're not really his type "I gather your the balls then and not the boobs as i seen in meets that's the 1 looking for a meet for coffee . Lol | |||
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"if instead of complaining, how about helping these women and not send so many
If us single guys never sent any mail to the females on here they would not be happy about it ."
They would die without the ego boost. Hence why they don't use filters.
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"When a woman EXPLAINS to a man how hard it is to reply to mails it is called an Explianation. But when a Man Explains away around getting all the said mails it is classed as CONDESCENDING. Lol" | |||
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"if instead of complaining, how about helping these women and not send so many
If us single guys never sent any mail to the females on here they would not be happy about it .
They would die without the ego boost. Hence why they don't use filters.
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"When a woman EXPLAINS to a man how hard it is to reply to mails it is called an Explianation. But when a Man Explains away around getting all the said mails it is classed as CONDESCENDING. Lol
The old story, when women are involved, you can't win.
Women complain about getting too much mail, a guy suggests a solution, one which plenty women admit they didn't initially know about, but the guy's in the wrong???
A classic, 'you couldn't make it up'! "Actually, this meandering thread came out of another where some guy was complaining about not getting replies, NOT because women were complaining of too much mail. Worthwhile reading the earlier posts before jumping to conclusions. | |||
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"When a woman EXPLAINS to a man how hard it is to reply to mails it is called an Explianation. But when a Man Explains away around getting all the said mails it is classed as CONDESCENDING. Lol
The old story, when women are involved, you can't win.
Women complain about getting too much mail, a guy suggests a solution, one which plenty women admit they didn't initially know about, but the guy's in the wrong???
A classic, 'you couldn't make it up'!
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came out of another where some guy was
complaining about not getting replies, NOT because women were complaining of too much mail. Worthwhile reading the earlier posts before jumping to conclusions. "This post did come out off the post ( no replies) but it"s intention was about the females complaining in my eyes about all mail received . | |||
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"the OP has a very good point, i think to many of the ugly women on here revel in the attention they get, guys would shag anything remember
so they wont block guys"Jesus hold onto your seat your in for a bumpy ride haha  | |||
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" Jesus hold onto your seat your in for a bumpy ride haha
when i say anything, i really mean anything, how many pics do you see on profiles and there is a handsome fit guy shagging some obese 65 year old lol
im teflon, the mud never sticks ha ha " | |||
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