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"Why is if you send a message and they read it and don't reply.at least say thanks or no thanks" To say thanks or no thanks for what? | |||
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"Why is if you send a message and they read it and don't reply.at least say thanks or no thanks ![]() Lol @ "let my kids run feral" #clever | |||
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"Also if someone hasn't done me the courtesy of reading my profile I don't feel I owe them the courtesy of a reply. " Hey Sarah, cool profile \o/ ![]() | |||
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"Also if someone hasn't done me the courtesy of reading my profile I don't feel I owe them the courtesy of a reply. Hey Sarah, cool profile \o/ ![]() Aye, my point is that I'm clearly not interested in "getting fucked 2nite", or whatever else. So why should I reply? | |||
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"Also if someone hasn't done me the courtesy of reading my profile I don't feel I owe them the courtesy of a reply. Hey Sarah, cool profile \o/ ![]() I agreed entirely, messages as such are simply a shortcut to thinking ![]() | |||
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"Also if someone hasn't done me the courtesy of reading my profile I don't feel I owe them the courtesy of a reply. " This. If you're too far away (and by that i mean over half an hr away- if i wont travel that far for shopping, i wont travel that far for a meet!) and you expectme to jump in your car or me to let you in my house?! Get real. Friends dont even get to see my house most of the time!! | |||
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"Remember ladies there is a way around getting all that mail you all seem to get in your inbox and it's very Simple to do just block all single males from messaging you and go look for them yourselfs . But alas i don't see that happening so please stop moaning about all the mail you get as there is a way to stop it and again Simples ." It was more of an explanation to the OP than a moan, thank you. A lot of the nice guys i chat to regularily started from a single mail from them. So although its very difficult to keep up with them all, sometimes it pays off when you get to chat to really nice, interesting people. | |||
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"Remember ladies there is a way around getting all that mail you all seem to get in your inbox and it's very Simple to do just block all single males from messaging you and go look for them yourselfs . But alas i don't see that happening so please stop moaning about all the mail you get as there is a way to stop it and again Simples ." Have you read the OP? The posts about mail volume are simply an explanation as to why it is not feasible to reply to every message. It is not 'moaning'.....a term bandied about by men who don't like what they hear from a woman. ![]() | |||
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"Remember ladies there is a way around getting all that mail you all seem to get in your inbox and it's very Simple to do just block all single males from messaging you and go look for them yourselfs . But alas i don't see that happening so please stop moaning about all the mail you get as there is a way to stop it and again Simples . It was more of an explanation to the OP than a moan, thank you. A lot of the nice guys i chat to regularily started from a single mail from them. So although its very difficult to keep up with them all, sometimes it pays off when you get to chat to really nice, interesting people. " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Have you read the OP? The posts about mail volume are simply an explanation as to why it is not feasible to reply to every message. It is not 'moaning'.....a term bandied about by men who don't like what they hear from a woman. ![]() Got to love a bit of mansplaining ![]() | |||
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"Why is if you send a message and they read it and don't reply.at least say thanks or no thanks" No reply IS no thanks.... ![]() | |||
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"Why is if you send a message and they read it and don't reply.at least say thanks or no thanks No reply IS no thanks.... ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Have you read the OP? The posts about mail volume are simply an explanation as to why it is not feasible to reply to every message. It is not 'moaning'.....a term bandied about by men who don't like what they hear from a woman. ![]() ![]() Lol don't know the term but think I'll stick to a well-worn expletive the next time a man tells me I'm 'moaning'. Unless I'm moaning in a good way, of course ![]() | |||
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"Have you read the OP? The posts about mail volume are simply an explanation as to why it is not feasible to reply to every message. It is not 'moaning'.....a term bandied about by men who don't like what they hear from a woman. ![]() ![]() ![]() It's when men tell women what they should be thinking or doing, usually in a patronising tone | |||
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"I wouldn't take it personally I took my profile out of hiding last night and within less than 5 minutes I had over 20 messages. I used to be polite replying thanks but no thanks but then received insults and abuse so now I just delete the ones that I know i wouldn't play with. There's a lot more men than women on the site which just gives women the the option to really pick and choose from. ![]() Same here. Came out of hiding the other night and have been trying to reply to them all. A lot of men obviously don't realise we're not only conversing with them and some get stroppy if we don't reply immediately. It gets to the stage that it's better to just delete | |||
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"Is it soo hard to get your head around ....no reply normally equals not interested ...move on ..why let it bother you ..grow up its not a school play ground here ..tho sometimes i wonder ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"if you send a few words, it deserves being deleted without a reply. if the person is actively seeking others to mail then, you have read their profile and you match everything that person is looking for, you sell yourself in a well crafted message, that may improve your chances of a reply... In those cases, it is bad mannered not to acknowledge it, but as others mention, a no reply is a reply in sort... good luck " The problem is sadly there are many folk out there who don't read profiles, don't respect preferences and then take to the forums because surprise surprise they aren't getting any replies. | |||
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"if you send a few words, it deserves being deleted without a reply. if the person is actively seeking others to mail then, you have read their profile and you match everything that person is looking for, you sell yourself in a well crafted message, that may improve your chances of a reply... In those cases, it is bad mannered not to acknowledge it, but as others mention, a no reply is a reply in sort... good luck The problem is sadly there are many folk out there who don't read profiles, don't respect preferences and then take to the forums because surprise surprise they aren't getting any replies. " but my point is to those that do.., not those that don't | |||
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"Is it soo hard to get your head around ....no reply normally equals not interested ...move on ..why let it bother you ..grow up its not a school play ground here ..tho sometimes i wonder ![]() You tell em ![]() | |||
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"It all depends how you want to take it. . Hit the whiskey and slit your wrists" Oh my!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It all depends how you want to take it. . Hit the whiskey and slit your wrists Oh my!! ![]() ![]() Lol a tad OTT maybe? End of the day it's everyones choice who they reply to | |||
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