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Possibility of an Aberdeen Social?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

was wondering if anyone from Aberdeen would be interested in a large scale social meet? Would need deffinate responses, more than 10 to make it worth while before we actually start organising anything with any certainty.

While I'm at it, help with venues/possibility of accomodation would be of use?

Unlikely as it is to happen, would be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would suggest to anyone responding with suggestions over a venue, to PM the OP rather than openly in the forum

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By *unrigMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

.put me down for sure .wil pm you with a poss venue.

run

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

me as well but as theres a few socials on the go how about early next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very possibly depending on the date and in some respect the venue ....

That is if my kind are welcome ...

Kirsty

xxx xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

all are welcome... except single males.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"all are welcome... except single males."

why no single guys? if it's a social ?

just curious

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By *lay_N_cum2Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere in Scotland

For any social to be run fairly...they should be open to all members of the site...we have run many a happy social down here in fife...for upto 150 people...couples and singles...remember just because you may not play with single guys..other couples and single girls do...so the more of a mix the better the night...

just my pennies worth..

Play_N_cum2 xx

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By *at n michaelCouple
over a year ago

AYRSHIRE

george,it used to be your 10 bobs worth,pennies noo ya cheapskate :-

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why no single guys? if it's a social ?

just curious"

There'll end up being a huge bias in numbers if a number of single guys were to turn up...

Ok, maybe some, but limited to a certain ratio else it'll be a sausagefest.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"why no single guys? if it's a social ?

just curious

There'll end up being a huge bias in numbers if a number of single guys were to turn up...

Ok, maybe some, but limited to a certain ratio else it'll be a sausagefest."

sausagefest?thought ut was a social?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"why no single guys? if it's a social ?

just curious

There'll end up being a huge bias in numbers if a number of single guys were to turn up...

Ok, maybe some, but limited to a certain ratio else it'll be a sausagefest."

thanks for clarifying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sausagefest?thought ut was a social?"

'tis a social, but would rather a healthy mix rather than having a heavy bias to one group. Some single guys would be better than none, but too many single guys might deter others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmmm.... Think you need to go and have a re-think of your social TBH.

Like many couples, we dont meet single guys, but are friendly with many in the chat rooms, and will have a good laugh with them at the social. Socials are not socials without a good and natural mix of all. Couples, fems, guys and TV's (and Fugys too)

You will probably find that, although the site has thousands of single guys on it, very few turn up to any of the socials.... generally through fear of been ignored and been alone.

What about the couples that do meet single guys...if they aint going to meet any at the social, may well put them off from attending too.

For a social to be a good, memorable event, you need at least 100 folk there... and TBH, Aberdeen aint the easiest place for folk to get to and as most the Scots membership is central belt, you will need all the support from all the membership you can get.

S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can see the mad surge for people to get their names down for this one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

'twas just an idea, I can't see it going ahead at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'twas just an idea, I can't see it going ahead at all."

advertise for numbers then saying it prob wont go ahead totally nuts we say

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By *ames Bond and Miss MoneypennyCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

We would be up for that!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would be up for that!! X"

But it doesn't look like it's going to happen!!!!

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

welll 2 tickets id its on and he date suitable

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"'twas just an idea, I can't see it going ahead at all."

is there a reason why it wont go ahead ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would love to have a local social. and believe that a lot of the locals would as well. let us know what we can do to help make it happen.

Thank you for the effort.

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By *unrigMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

i am wiling to help as wel

l

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put our name down if it goes ahead ..could be good fun ...

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"why no single guys? if it's a social ?

just curious

There'll end up being a huge bias in numbers if a number of single guys were to turn up...

Ok, maybe some, but limited to a certain ratio else it'll be a sausagefest."

so why not set up a couples social or are single women aloud or is this bias acceptable!!!!!

as a single bloke i turn up to socials with the intention of having a good time and meeting peeps not trying to get about all the married or paired couples and somtimes feel that all single blokes are tarred with the same brush not meaning to sound bitter but this kill single guys thing is getting more n more common and there is some lovely peeps out there i am sure would agree

only my tuppence worth no offence meant hope you enjoy yourselfs as always

party on n happy swinging to all

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

let me know if its on and 2 tickets please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I helped organise a social in Aberdeen a while back, we had a great time and then we packed out the swingers club to capacity afterwards.

Even though it was a bit out of the way for everyone in the central belt, many still made the effort to attend.

I think perhaps people are feeling a little bit 'social fatigue' as there are still so many already organised plus the festive time of year will be on us before we know it (won't say the X word!)

Money for travel, sitters, hotels and outfits all come into the equation too.

Don't be disheartened but do appreciate people have a lot of expense coming up soon.

Plus, no social ever ever says no single guys, it's up to you as an organiser to perhaps balance the single guys/girls/couples. A social is a social is a social, open to all and fun for all.... the guys don't sleaze round the venue in a dirty mac hitting on every female... they are there to meet and greet too, which is what it's all about in every ones eyes.

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

yes laines social was great and i never did find the soap in the jacussi had great fun feeling about for it .Why dont u make it in the new year but remember theres the HFH social and country pair are organising one as well .why dont get in touch with country pair and make sure your dates dont clash The HFH on has been organised for some time so its definate .hope u dont mind this post to you

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By *unrigMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

Yes i know all about the soap;-) but thats another story!

Run

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By *unrigMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh if you want to know a friendly venue too I know of one, separate function lounge and bar and entrance. xxx

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

YES U SURE DO RUNRIG HOPE THIS SOCIAL GOES AHEAD AND HAS THE CLUB REOPENED WOULD BE GREAT TO GO THERE AFTEWARDS TO TRY AND FIND THAT SOAP AGAIN

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well since there's quite a bit of interest, might just see about getting round to sorting one out... Now... Venue?

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

what about the place laine had hers in it was a great venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heather, I'd be happy to put them in touch with the venue I used, as I mentioned above.

It's own entrance, bar, disco etc. The rest is up to them.

Countrypair have claimed me for help with theirs lol! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, as a 'single' guy I have been to socials and feel it is unjust to set requirements with regards to single males. on the socials I have attended I have gone with the intention of having a laugh, a wee bit of flirt and tbh nothing else.. as my sexual life is my and the other person/s business. I do not wish everyone to know who I am with (if anyone) that night. Surely successful swinging is about making friends and the socials give everyone that environment, to exclude 'single' males sends out an unfair message that "single men are predatory idiots"... just my opinion and not a criticism. :D

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By *eatherWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

hey laine keep u busy and out of trouble not that u ever get into trouble.Ive put my name down for the 2 socials[no like me] Keep me in trouble of the nicest kind of course.Hope hope both are on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be very interested please keep us in mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thinking sometime in January, gives plenty of time for people to arrange specifics such as transport for those out of town, possible babysitting, hotel booking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking sometime in January, gives plenty of time for people to arrange specifics such as transport for those out of town, possible babysitting, hotel booking..."

Just bear in mind there is a social already arranged for january.. plus 1 in february... which is not to say u still cant hold it then... just letting you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

January prob not a good time apart from the social that is already on you have to keep in mind the weather at that time of year, if anything like last winter folk won't travel even the locals. Having said that we would be interested in attending whenever you have it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have went. For being social and having a good laugh more than anything. Although this sounds like it wont happen.

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By *unrigMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

There is a bit in todays sun about the Aberdeen Swinging club today..sadly it does not look like it is going to open as the swingers club.Does any one know of anything similar in Aberdeen?

Runp

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By *unrigMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

There is a bit in todays sun about the Aberdeen Swinging club today..sadly it does not look like it is going to open as the swingers club.Does any one know of anything similar in Aberdeen?

Run

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