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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many people identify themselves here as submissive and what is ur definition of submissive?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Not me know some who claim to be sub but only if they tell you what to do pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a Dom sub couple I think every sub would have their own specific ideas of what makes a sub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very sub I think but don't know till you tell me for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me submissive is all about the mind and not how hard you can beat someone lol. I think you need to build up a relationship as a sub/dom

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By *cotsteveMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Unfortunately the whole Dom/sub thing has been skewed by the 50 shades effect. Anyone with a belt now thinks they're a Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately the whole Dom/sub thing has been skewed by the 50 shades effect. Anyone with a belt now thinks they're a Dom"

I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately the whole Dom/sub thing has been skewed by the 50 shades effect. Anyone with a belt now thinks they're a Dom"

I think there's many different types of submission. It's much more about the mind than physical acts when I'm in charge .my pleasure comes from their responses. I've never hit anyone and I'm not keen to start.

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Because of all the free press dom/sub and BDSM kinks have been getting its getting dare I say it fashionable? It now covers a vast spectrum from do what I say to I own your soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately the whole Dom/sub thing has been skewed by the 50 shades effect. Anyone with a belt now thinks they're a Dom"

Unfortunately broke my belt leathering my last sub for not giving my washing a vigorous shake to get the creases out before hanging it up......

Having to make do with a riding crop,black mask and horns in the mean time......

Need to find another willing volunteer soon as I'm getting a lot of funny looks when hanging my washing up.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sub to me is all about trust. You trust the dom to trigger emotion and feeling. I like to be a sub. For the man to be in control. How ever only meet a few men who can carry through as doms. As I usually end up taking over. Love to experience a true submissive for a night. All about trust and limits .

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I'm definitely not submissive.

For me, it's about putting the idea in the mind, then carrying it out. That doesn't necessarily mean pain, sometimes it can be the simple act of pinning the lady to the bed. Or denying her something she desperately wants until I say she can have it.

But I always like to reward before I'm done, it's only fair after all

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton

No, I mean yes, OK, at times, "ah heck Jim" just tell me what to do will you?

-Judy [Rebel without a Cause]

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'm equal and if my Husband or the person I meet tells me I'm not then I will just need to put them in their place

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I'm equal and if my Husband or the person I meet tells me I'm not then I will just need to put them in their place "

Spoken like a true lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be, dependant on the circumstances/situation and the guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately the whole Dom/sub thing has been skewed by the 50 shades effect. Anyone with a belt now thinks they're a Dom"

You are so right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a submissive and have known I am a submissive for a long long time (actually from my first ever boyfriend putting his hands over my mouth to quiet me down as a teenager).

I'm not into pain in any shape or form. My love is subservience. I love to provide pleasure. I love pleasing and servicing someone.

Over the years I have had a few doms in my life and even switch with a few of them. I'm not a 24/7 lifestyle sub and neither would I ever want to be.

My hope is that one day I will be able to find a long term partner who is also dom. My fear is I never will and that I keep having to compromise who I am between love and sex. I hope not.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Sabrina def submissive so love having my mistress take control from buying my clothes for me to wear serving her around her housebto accepting punishment & providing her with the pleasure she requires

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"I am a submissive and have known I am a submissive for a long long time (actually from my first ever boyfriend putting his hands over my mouth to quiet me down as a teenager).

I'm not into pain in any shape or form. My love is subservience. I love to provide pleasure. I love pleasing and servicing someone.

Over the years I have had a few doms in my life and even switch with a few of them. I'm not a 24/7 lifestyle sub and neither would I ever want to be.

My hope is that one day I will be able to find a long term partner who is also dom. My fear is I never will and that I keep having to compromise who I am between love and sex. I hope not."
there is natural dominance ans subserviance when people meet they just know its part of the reason I dont get the whole bdsm thing have read alot about it but it is no clearer in my head and for the most part only see it as dangerous on a site like this as others have said so many on here believe its about pain and to an extent persecution when you actually research it its about love and implicit trust which sorry in my head you wont get from tam 42 from paisley (dick pic attached)

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton

Most Intriguing miss Blue... Its amazing how our early experiences shape our sexual desires in later life, you prompted a thought/experience I had at age 6, I was caught cutting through someone's back yard (very posh area) to get home, I was bodily caught by an older girl (16/17 yrs 80s perm and make up and quite voluptuous) dragged back to her garage then locked in, scared but exited at the same time, she gave me a stern warning (posh twang of course) eventually (about 3 mins later) she let me out intimately stroked my face then let me go.

(After that I never went near that garden) forbidden fruit eh

I guess what I'm saying is I still adore/submit to the voluptuous brunette in an annauthoritive role

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton


"I am a submissive and have known I am a submissive for a long long time (actually from my first ever boyfriend putting his hands over my mouth to quiet me down as a teenager).

I'm not into pain in any shape or form. My love is subservience. I love to provide pleasure. I love pleasing and servicing someone.

Over the years I have had a few doms in my life and even switch with a few of them. I'm not a 24/7 lifestyle sub and neither would I ever want to be.

My hope is that one day I will be able to find a long term partner who is also dom. My fear is I never will and that I keep having to compromise who I am between love and sex. I hope not.there is natural dominance ans subserviance when people meet they just know its part of the reason I dont get the whole bdsm thing have read alot about it but it is no clearer in my head and for the most part only see it as dangerous on a site like this as others have said so many on here believe its about pain and to an extent persecution when you actually research it its about love and implicit trust which sorry in my head you wont get from tam 42 from paisley (dick pic attached)"

Lol @ Tam from Paisley

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Most Intriguing miss Blue... Its amazing how our early experiences shape our sexual desires in later life, you prompted a thought/experience I had at age 6, I was caught cutting through someone's back yard (very posh area) to get home, I was bodily caught by an older girl (16/17 yrs 80s perm and make up and quite voluptuous) dragged back to her garage then locked in, scared but exited at the same time, she gave me a stern warning (posh twang of course) eventually (about 3 mins later) she let me out intimately stroked my face then let me go.

(After that I never went near that garden) forbidden fruit eh

I guess what I'm saying is I still adore/submit to the voluptuous brunette in an annauthoritive role "

Sounds lush

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By *erudenottoMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton


"

Most Intriguing miss Blue... Its amazing how our early experiences shape our sexual desires in later life, you prompted a thought/experience I had at age 6, I was caught cutting through someone's back yard (very posh area) to get home, I was bodily caught by an older girl (16/17 yrs 80s perm and make up and quite voluptuous) dragged back to her garage then locked in, scared but exited at the same time, she gave me a stern warning (posh twang of course) eventually (about 3 mins later) she let me out intimately stroked my face then let me go.

(After that I never went near that garden) forbidden fruit eh

I guess what I'm saying is I still adore/submit to the voluptuous brunette in an annauthoritive role

Sounds lush"

Thank you Blue

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