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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So looking for some help. Wife had meet set up but guy didn't turn up. He gave the excuse he couldn't see her, Bull!!

So our question is how do we avoid this in future. He is verified, had chatted on Kik sent pics etc but still no show??

Any help appreciated.

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've all been there guys.

The trick is getting to know people first.

Get to know people before you trust them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't. I've had that happen as well. Guy was verified, had been on a while. We spoke for a while and arranged to meet then he never turned up and blocked me lol. Was very bizarre but it happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thought we had got to know them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And its those guys that spoil it for us genuine guys if you are still on the hunt have a look at my profile and send a message lol

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've lost count of the number of people who haven't turned up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are indeed some weird people on here who are hot and cold one minute to the next and can't be relied upon. When I make a commitment to someone I certainly make every effort to keep it and if I did have to cancel then I would inform as soon as possible about the change of plans.

I don't know what advice to offer apart from keep your wits about you and use your gut instinct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand any guy not turning up, as it's almost impossible for a single guy to get a meet. I hope this experience doesn't deter you from trying again - there's lots of good guys, honest!

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

How rude to not turn up and even say sorry but i am to scared to take it further This attitude spoils it for every one not just the struggling single guys .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very rude, especially when tinkerbell had went to a lot of effort!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many of us who have had "no shows" Unfort in this the name of the game..

Please don't tar all of us single guys with the same brush. Anyway I looked atyour profile and the guy must be totally insane!!!

Have fun.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Kik totally anonymous spend time getting to know the person get an actual phone no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, kik is exactly that but yep live and learn!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might sound like a bit of a hypocrit saying this but dont always trust verification because people can set up fake accounts and verify themselves and theres weird people out there who get a kick out you getting all ready to meet thn they dont turn up probably gives them a sense of power

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Kik totally anonymous spend time getting to know the person get an actual phone no "

As a single female, I very rarely give out my number. I chat a lot on here for a long time (as most of my veris say... hopefully its worth the wait)

I'm sorry you were stood up. Its never something I have experienced on here, but sadly know it happens.

If its a one off, chalk it up to bad luck, if it becomes more frequent, then perhaps look at your selection criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess many on here fantasise over a meet and just chicken out x I for one always turn up as its only matters.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Kik totally anonymous spend time getting to know the person get an actual phone no

As a single female, I very rarely give out my number. I chat a lot on here for a long time (as most of my veris say... hopefully its worth the wait)

I'm sorry you were stood up. Its never something I have experienced on here, but sadly know it happens.

If its a one off, chalk it up to bad luck, if it becomes more frequent, then perhaps look at your selection criteria."
lol ive never been stood up guessing that was for the op your right time is your best safeguard I can take months even yrs to meet and an actual phone no is something that happens naturally with time or maybe just one of my safeguards but I wouldnt meet without it

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"There are so many of us who have had "no shows" Unfort in this the name of the game..

Please don't tar all of us single guys with the same brush. Anyway I looked atyour profile and the guy must be totally insane!!!

Have fun. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had met lots of lovely people on here and never been let down by a no show equally I have never not turned up to a meet however if a genuine reason crops up that stops a meet thenni always let the person know as far in advance as possible it's only fair and common politeness and most people are genuine and understand but there's always the exception to basic courtesay on sites like this sad to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just been let do again. ,

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By *arkerTheDriverMan
over a year ago

Dundee

I genuinely don't understand the effort 'fakes' make in setting up meets; to then simply not show up...

Unless, it's one of their kinks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it happens

chin up, can never really tell who's a timewasters until it happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I genuinely don't understand the effort 'fakes' make in setting up meets; to then simply not show up...

Unless, it's one of their kinks?

My new kink is kicking timewasters in the baws

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats sounds fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So looking for some help. Wife had meet set up but guy didn't turn up. He gave the excuse he couldn't see her, Bull!!

So our question is how do we avoid this in future. He is verified, had chatted on Kik sent pics etc but still no show??

Any help appreciated. "

bar meeting at a social or private party before hand there's not a lot you can do unfortunately.

If you get personal recommendations of guys from friends you might get s better chance but bar that keep trying to have fun like the rest of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I don't even turn up to meet myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sucks when that happens! Just pick up your sexys and move on

nothing you can change about this sorta people. We had a guy mail us up til time he was sposed to leave and two hours later he blocked us no emails or texts or calls.

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