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By *etItSwing1991 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

So .... How do i stop myself being a paranoid wreck thinking that someone is going to cheat on me ? its tearing my relationship apart cause i cant stop thinking shes cheating on me ?

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Did you just re write your profile?

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Wow well do you trust her to come home to you?

Is this a relationship from here or real world lol

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By *etItSwing1991 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I changed the 2 line because i noticed a stupid spelling mistake lol that okay ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So .... How do i stop myself being a paranoid wreck thinking that someone is going to cheat on me ? its tearing my relationship apart cause i cant stop thinking shes cheating on me ? "

has she done anything to reduce your trust? I'm guessing she receives a lot of make attention that makes you wary?

It's normal to want to keep her to yourself. .. After all you want to marry her. But if you try to place her in a bubble your relationship will pop very quickly

if she's always open and honest I really doubt you have anything to worry about. plus with the wash board abs I don't think she's looking anywhere else mate

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I changed the 2 line because i noticed a stupid spelling mistake lol that okay ?"

I must have read someone else's profile then.

That's ok with me

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By *etItSwing1991 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Wow well do you trust her to come home to you?

Is this a relationship from here or real world lol"

Its a real life one haha . Its just i know she gets alot of attention because shes hot and shes away on holiday with a friend just now . I feel she may be getting alot of attention and with alcohol you just never know

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By *etItSwing1991 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So .... How do i stop myself being a paranoid wreck thinking that someone is going to cheat on me ? its tearing my relationship apart cause i cant stop thinking shes cheating on me ?

has she done anything to reduce your trust? I'm guessing she receives a lot of make attention that makes you wary?

It's normal to want to keep her to yourself. .. After all you want to marry her. But if you try to place her in a bubble your relationship will pop very quickly

if she's always open and honest I really doubt you have anything to worry about. plus with the wash board abs I don't think she's looking anywhere else mate"

You have got it down to a tee mate . She gets alot of attention and is a very friendly person so i know how guys are and will take that as flirting . she has done a few things that have irritated me but probs just me being paranoid . Wish i could just switch the paranoia off in my head .

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Well does she trust you on here ?

Only you can answer why you feel you can't trust her

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By *etItSwing1991 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah she does . I dont meet and only chat and swap pics.

I feel that im not good enough for her to be honest and she does always give the impression when shes d*unk that im the last thing that counts . I am a firm believer in that if someone acts a certain way when they are d*unk then thats the truth coming out

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

you dont meet ? ...your veri tells a different story

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By *etItSwing1991 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

That was before i met her and didnt meet the person through fab ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So .... How do i stop myself being a paranoid wreck thinking that someone is going to cheat on me ? its tearing my relationship apart cause i cant stop thinking shes cheating on me ?

has she done anything to reduce your trust? I'm guessing she receives a lot of make attention that makes you wary?

It's normal to want to keep her to yourself. .. After all you want to marry her. But if you try to place her in a bubble your relationship will pop very quickly

if she's always open and honest I really doubt you have anything to worry about. plus with the wash board abs I don't think she's looking anywhere else mate

You have got it down to a tee mate . She gets alot of attention and is a very friendly person so i know how guys are and will take that as flirting . she has done a few things that have irritated me but probs just me being paranoid . Wish i could just switch the paranoia off in my head ."

depends on your rule book buddy. I'm not one for stopping flirting and to quite a degree I would let any man see that while she is an attractive woman. . She's with you and she's happy. You don't have to stare down every guy, you don't have to fight anyone. .. Just hold her hand...says it all Really.

If she was open and honest about it I would give her a second chance if something happened. After all none of us are perfect and life isn't always Black and White

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

so you've known your gf only 2/3 months and want to marry her?

why not close this profile down and concentrate on the relationship first ?

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"so you've known your gf only 2/3 months and want to marry her?

why not close this profile down and concentrate on the relationship first ?"

I would concentrate on your new relationship

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By *etItSwing1991 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"so you've known your gf only 2/3 months and want to marry her?

why not close this profile down and concentrate on the relationship first ?"

Yeah im not that much of an idiot wanting to marry after 3 months lol veri can be put on after they happen .....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"so you've known your gf only 2/3 months and want to marry her?

why not close this profile down and concentrate on the relationship first ?

Yeah im not that much of an idiot wanting to marry after 3 months lol veri can be put on after they happen ....."
I ment your only with your gf 2/3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so you've known your gf only 2/3 months and want to marry her?

why not close this profile down and concentrate on the relationship first ?

Yeah im not that much of an idiot wanting to marry after 3 months lol veri can be put on after they happen .....I ment your only with your gf 2/3 months "

I think he's hinting that he helped another person with a verification after they renewed their profile

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"so you've known your gf only 2/3 months and want to marry her?

why not close this profile down and concentrate on the relationship first ?

Yeah im not that much of an idiot wanting to marry after 3 months lol veri can be put on after they happen .....I ment your only with your gf 2/3 months

I think he's hinting that he helped another person with a verification after they renewed their profile"
Both are on over a year so who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So .... How do i stop myself being a paranoid wreck thinking that someone is going to cheat on me ? its tearing my relationship apart cause i cant stop thinking shes cheating on me ? "

Eh pot kettle? She is going to cheat on you but you are on this site meeting others for fun. I think you need too ask yourself who is doing the cheating.

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