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By *gowguy89 OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

So ladies, What must a single guy do to stand out from the crowd on here?

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

1st rule of FAB; Be patient!

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Respect

Spence if humour

Good banter

Decent conversation

Tact

Discretion

Most of all individuality for me ..that makes people stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is you are going to get tips & advice from people on here & you will do what these people say & none of it will help,

The only way your going to get a meet is either a social Or you'll get lucky 1 day/night & you'll get a meet from a woman on here that actually wants to have fun.

I've been lucky enough to meet a few women who were amazing & like me didn't want a social & didn't even want to talk they just wanted fun, they are now no longer on this site & don't think they're are or will ever be again women like them on here.

But good luck to you & hope you get what your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may find a crock of gold at the end of the rainbow first but patience, a thick skin and good humour may see you through.

If its a single female you seek there are easier routes definitely....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take it slow mate and be yourself. I haven't had a meet since re joining but enjoy chatting to the ladies and cpls on the forums and in the chat rooms.

I was part if a cpl before so it's a massive difference in trying to meet but as been mentioned , patience is also very important

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Jump through hoops and do as told simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wee hint of a profile pic would be good ... Doesnt need to be face but probs not a cock either

If i have a few messages then the ones that are just anonymous silhouette are the first to go as i have no idea if there will be an attraction ... If other ladies do similar then chances are your messages are not even being read atm

I quite often start chatting to people in s scotland room too ... The free flowing chat lets more of your personality come through than just a message

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some photos would help and pad out that profile it looks lazy and needs more info and get along to some socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pic would help but just be yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone says, patience. After lots of time getting nowhere - despite being as frendly / respectful as possible - I've had one meet and another two possibles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners respect patience xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect nothing and in reality you have more chance of success on your facebook page or at the pub

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Conduct yourself as an equal to the other people on here. Stand firm with your standards and self respect.

If it happens great, but don't rely on this site as your main opportunity for sex.

Good luck

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I've been lucky enough to meet a few women who were amazing & like me didn't want a social & didn't even want to talk they just wanted fun"

Urgh, I can't think of anything worse. If they don't mentally stimulate me I'm not interested. I need more of a conversation than 'hi' and 'bye'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a peek at your profile although you would never know as we are ninjas. We're sorry to say we probably wouldn't give you a second glance if you were to message us.

Well, we would actually block you as you don't meet smokers. It happens alot, message from people who don't meet smokers yet our profile clearly states we both smoke. We used send a polite message back infoming said messengers that we smoke but got a bit board of it + we got a few back saying "oh, don't be silly, of corse we meet smokers"...lol.

Sorry, rant over....attention to detail goes a long way.

Anyhoo...... your profile.

It is very very run of the mill, like hundreds (Maybe even thousands) of other single guys on here. As are your pics.

Try vamping it up, a little wit and humour makes us look twice with both profiles and messages.

We know people on here say there is no point as no one reads profiles but the people who are serious about meeting do, and everyone we have met most definitely read ours before making contact.

Pics.... The cock pics do nothing for us or most of the people we talk to on here, try a full or half body shot with and without your cock in it. If cock pics are what people want you can always keep a few and send them as an attachment. Wait for them to ask would be our advice on that one though.

You've probably seen some people some people saying put "this word" as your message heading so we know you have read our profile, probably do that . We like it when people reference something in our profile text but can tell about 95% of the time the messenger hasn't read it anyway.

Lastly, "discretion is a must" sets alarm bells ringing right away for us. We don't think anyone goes shouting from the roof tops about being swingers. Yes people do like to keep it quiet and undoubtedly there are people who's careers might be at risk should they be rumbled but we guess that would be very few on here. It tends to mean " I don't want my husband/wife/partner to find out I'm cheating "

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Well OP, you posted 16 hours ago looking for advice, you've been given advice and it's well documented that cock pics don't go down well with most women here, but 2 out of 3 profile pics still show your cock!

Also, you've only been here 3 weeks, which is no time at all on here, so if you're not going to take advice, nor be patient, I think you should maybe try 'instashag.com'.

Sorry if that's a bit harsh, but..........

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By *ranCanaria69Man
over a year ago

AYRSHiRE (+)GLASGOW(+) xx

need help here ,fall off the couch laughing ha ha ha ,instashag.com can't stop myself laughing .... Good one m8 ,I haven't seen a good joke in a while ) ) isn't harsh at all ,is funny as fuck and truly educational ,pmsl ....))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Lastly, "discretion is a must" sets alarm bells ringing right away for us. We don't think anyone goes shouting from the roof tops about being swingers. Yes people do like to keep it quiet and undoubtedly there are people who's careers might be at risk should they be rumbled but we guess that would be very few on here. It tends to mean " I don't want my husband/wife/partner to find out I'm cheating ""

Yep we're the same I mean as much as we don't want public knowing our naughty secret any man with discretion is a must or need to be discreet and can't accommodation sets off Mrs' attached men bells. We've even caught a couple men out with that! Look at more successful mens profiles and see why they get so many meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expect nothing and in reality you have more chance of success on your facebook page or at the pub "

and if your this impatient just do as he done......

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

If im going to be honest ...all of the above comments are sound advice ..if i was to add anything ..id also say look at your name ..how long did it take for you to come up with that ...be unique ...name and profile just screams im here for my hole ...just my opinion mind other opinions are available

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By *ranCanaria69Man
over a year ago

AYRSHiRE (+)GLASGOW(+) xx

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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Trying again without typos!

When you do message folks, something more than "hows yous " type messages would be advisable, we just delete them.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"So ladies, What must a single guy do to stand out from the crowd on here? "

Make a decent profile

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Oh and not be a whinger

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Oh and not be a whinger "

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

The OP was on earlier, and the latest he was on 9 minutes ago, but still 2 of his 3 profile pics are of his cock.

So not for the first time, it would appear that guys who come on here supposedly looking for help and assistance, just ignore what is given.

So Rugby might as well close this thread as folk are simply wasting their time trying to help!

Of course, maybe he's been away putting a profile on 'instashag.com'!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there so many men on here you just have to accept that cpls and fems have a big choice.

So i just hope might get lucky rather than expecting it.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Simple! Have a bloody profile of interest and some decent pics that do not involve your cock! Unless of course you are a cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple! Have a bloody profile of interest and some decent pics that do not involve your cock! Unless of course you are a cock? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience, humour and a decent profile usually gets results.

If not, try vodka.

B&C x

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