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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been thinking lately that we need to find a new polite way to say no to people we don't want to meet, we normally go with "Thanks for the message but it's a no." but people take it badly, is it polite enough and straight to the point or could there be a better way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not really..if they take it badly..delete/block.

simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not really..if they take it badly..delete/block.

simple"

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I usually thank them for their message too and say not looking too met anyone new at the moment and wish them good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually thank them for their message too and say not looking too met anyone new at the moment and wish them good luck "

doesnt that give the impression they have a chance in the future???

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"not really..if they take it badly..delete/block. simple"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i say ' no thanks ' most say nothing some say ok but you always get the ones who question or get nasty so i dont think wat you say on here matters at times polite or not some will always take offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually thank them for their message too and say not looking too met anyone new at the moment and wish them good luck "
and if that doesnt work,just tell them to get to fuck then block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been thinking lately that we need to find a new polite way to say no to people we don't want to meet, we normally go with "Thanks for the message but it's a no." but people take it badly, is it polite enough and straight to the point or could there be a better way?"

Maybe soften it slightly:

"Thanks for the message, but you're not what we're looking for, good luck and happy swinging"

But as has already been said some will react badly no matter what your reply is, in which case go with DLT's advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't reply. Saves a lot of hassle. Yes some might consider it rude but to be honest that's up to them.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We have been thinking lately that we need to find a new polite way to say no to people we don't want to meet, we normally go with "Thanks for the message but it's a no." but people take it badly, is it polite enough and straight to the point or could there be a better way?"

I think you're usual reply to requests is polite as it is.

If others take it the wrong way or get upset then it's their problem.

I personally admire people that take the time to respond to my requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple not interested works for us

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I usually thank them for their message too and say not looking too met anyone new at the moment and wish them good luck

doesnt that give the impression they have a chance in the future???"
yes it does those I'm not interested in I don't reply too

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I usually thank them for their message too and say not looking too met anyone new at the moment and wish them good luck and if that doesnt work,just tell them to get to fuck then block them "
would never be so rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually thank them for their message too and say not looking too met anyone new at the moment and wish them good luck and if that doesnt work,just tell them to get to fuck then block them would never be so rude "
never suggested anyone uses it,and id never be rude like that after one or two messages after that id use that message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a polite reply saying "no thanks" is much better than the ignorance and message deletion and blocking that I've found to be the norm on here so far...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'd say a polite reply saying "no thanks" is much better than the ignorance and message deletion and blocking that I've found to be the norm on here so far... "
Its not ignorance it just so much easier ....do you reply to every bit of junk mail that comes through your door at home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say a polite reply saying "no thanks" is much better than the ignorance and message deletion and blocking that I've found to be the norm on here so far... Its not ignorance it just so much easier ....do you reply to every bit of junk mail that comes through your door at home?"

I wouldn't call a message on here junk mail...

but, I guess it's just the way some people are.

But, thank you for taking the time to reply to my post...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'd say a polite reply saying "no thanks" is much better than the ignorance and message deletion and blocking that I've found to be the norm on here so far... Its not ignorance it just so much easier ....do you reply to every bit of junk mail that comes through your door at home?

I wouldn't call a message on here junk mail...

but, I guess it's just the way some people are.

But, thank you for taking the time to reply to my post... "
your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say a polite reply saying "no thanks" is much better than the ignorance and message deletion and blocking that I've found to be the norm on here so far... Its not ignorance it just so much easier ....do you reply to every bit of junk mail that comes through your door at home?"

So now your saying your messages are junk mail, that's not very nice is it,

I put a thank you for you message but it's no thanks,

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I'd say a polite reply saying "no thanks" is much better than the ignorance and message deletion and blocking that I've found to be the norm on here so far... Its not ignorance it just so much easier ....do you reply to every bit of junk mail that comes through your door at home?

So now your saying your messages are junk mail, that's not very nice is it,

I put a thank you for you message but it's no thanks, "
I dont ask people to message me and yes most of it is junk in my opinion so whether you think its nice or not is pretty irrelevant to be honest .

My profile so i guess it upto me how I run it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want messages why u here?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If you don't want messages why u here?"
Im sorry where have I said I dont want messages ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer to the question, seems a descent enough answer

I have seen other forums about the same subject & there's one thing this 1 has in common with those, there are people commenting on it saying they reply a certain way but I know for a fact they do not reply that way or they don't reply at all or just delete.

I get 10 mails from males a day minimum asking to meet them & I say cheers but it's not for me thanks for the offer though! There are a few who don't seem to get the message & mail me 2/3 times a week & I just delete their messages, I don't block them becuase they won't learn if I do

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Most of the time I try to reply with a thanks but no thanks. However, I get a lot of mail from guys who don't fit with my preferences. I get fed up with this as my profile is clear. I will delete these messages, same as I would get rid of junk mail. Besides, Fab rules themselves say no reply is not deemed to be rude, it should be taken as a not interested. At the end of the day I'm here for my benefit so I'll do what suits me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the time I try to reply with a thanks but no thanks. However, I get a lot of mail from guys who don't fit with my preferences. I get fed up with this as my profile is clear. I will delete these messages, same as I would get rid of junk mail. Besides, Fab rules themselves say no reply is not deemed to be rude, it should be taken as a not interested. At the end of the day I'm here for my benefit so I'll do what suits me."

fancy a fuck..I'll read profile after I ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the time I try to reply with a thanks but no thanks. However, I get a lot of mail from guys who don't fit with my preferences. I get fed up with this as my profile is clear. I will delete these messages, same as I would get rid of junk mail. Besides, Fab rules themselves say no reply is not deemed to be rude, it should be taken as a not interested. At the end of the day I'm here for my benefit so I'll do what suits me."

This is exactly what we do too

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been thinking lately that we need to find a new polite way to say no to people we don't want to meet, we normally go with "Thanks for the message but it's a no." but people take it badly, is it polite enough and straight to the point or could there be a better way?"

I'm sure there's a vagina out there wet for you but it's just not mine. Good luck in your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been thinking lately that we need to find a new polite way to say no to people we don't want to meet, we normally go with "Thanks for the message but it's a no." but people take it badly, is it polite enough and straight to the point or could there be a better way?

I'm sure there's a vagina out there wet for you but it's just not mine. Good luck in your search "

Hahahahahahahaha!!!! Gonna use this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahahahahahahaha!!!! Gonna use this one "

Every time you use its 10p to me. I'll be loaded considering amount of unwanted messages women get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahahahahahahaha!!!! Gonna use this one

Every time you use its 10p to me. I'll be loaded considering amount of unwanted messages women get "

10p?? I'll just plagiarise it. You'll never know x

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Most of the time I try to reply with a thanks but no thanks. However, I get a lot of mail from guys who don't fit with my preferences. I get fed up with this as my profile is clear. I will delete these messages, same as I would get rid of junk mail. Besides, Fab rules themselves say no reply is not deemed to be rude, it should be taken as a not interested. At the end of the day I'm here for my benefit so I'll do what suits me.

fancy a fuck..I'll read profile after I ask"

Lol silly man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the time I try to reply with a thanks but no thanks. However, I get a lot of mail from guys who don't fit with my preferences. I get fed up with this as my profile is clear. I will delete these messages, same as I would get rid of junk mail. Besides, Fab rules themselves say no reply is not deemed to be rude, it should be taken as a not interested. At the end of the day I'm here for my benefit so I'll do what suits me.

fancy a fuck..I'll read profile after I ask

Lol silly man."

oooh thats a nice yes..though I never read the post..just assumed xxx

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