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Loads of vervications !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would u meet or sleep with someone who had hundreds of vervications ???

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Why not? I've got loads from different socials so it's easy for them to mount up!

Plus you can hide them so someone might have hundreds and only show 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would,loads of people have verifications for socials,parties etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a magic number people shouldn't go over?

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth

If they had loads and loads id prefer that to none, at least it shows theyll turn up....as long as their playing safe, yeah, why not...

If they had that many veris, id more than likely know a few people that had verified them, id ask them if the person wanted to bareback etc, if so i wouldnt meet.if not and i liked what i saw then id meet....

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS
over a year ago

Perth


"Is there a magic number people shouldn't go over?"

Having 32 id say its 33

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its safe sex all the way then it shouldn't be an issue. Plus a lot of verifications come from socials.

I do look at the verification trail though and admit to being put off by certain connections. I guess that's just human nature though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would meet anyone regardless of verifications if we got on with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its safe sex all the way then it shouldn't be an issue. Plus a lot of verifications come from socials.

I do look at the verification trail though and admit to being put off by certain connections. I guess that's just human nature though. "

I agree... It's more the connections that would put me off K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My verifications are all social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually finding the time for a meet is a huge logistic task for us. Work, kids, childminders etc.

Having gone to all the trouble & expense of freeing up an evening for a meet it is really infuriating if it falls through.

Rightly or wrongly we feel that someone with lots of verifications is likely to be more reliable than the one who has for instance only 1 webcam verification from years ago.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

My god if everyone on here than knew me or met me at the vast amount of socials ive attended over the years verified me youd think i was some kind of sex god or tart lol far far from it in reality ...so no there is no such thing as too many ...again the judgmental police can go feck themselves if they think different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Ive a few but most of them are social meets.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would be able to determine if they are social or play so if i am totally honest, it MAY. I would be more likely to avoid people because they associate with or have played with. That does not say anything negative about the person, they may very well be truly lovely people but I am careful to avoid people I link with drama, needyness or in a clique I would rather avoid.

That is a learned approach from years of being in the scene.

I respect others play differently and that is cool.

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

yeah veris can come from socials as said myself have been known to attend an odd social or drinks meet and get veris on the back of that

Likewise I took some time out came back and got veris from those who knew me before

in summary no veris don't put me off and I hope they don't put others off

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"I would be able to determine if they are social or play so if i am totally honest, it MAY. I would be more likely to avoid people because they associate with or have played with. That does not say anything negative about the person, they may very well be truly lovely people but I am careful to avoid people I link with drama, needyness or in a clique I would rather avoid.

That is a learned approach from years of being in the scene.

I respect others play differently and that is cool."

Snap

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Our verification is all social it's good to meet ones with lots of them then u now there genuine and will turn up when they say they will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are the obsession on this site. None and you are a no hoper. Too many and you are a total sleazebag......

Everyone's got to start somewhere and getting that first one is the hardest part. After that I feel it is an over rated ratings system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of our veris are from parties where like a social you get to meet lots of others in one go & play if you wish & had plenty of one one meets from meeting at a party. Have to say though people have been put off by us having a large list of veris.bring on Gran Caneria for some more veris

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

That depends what they say..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we aren't put off xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we aren't put off xx"
We know lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to start off on fabs if you are a new member x

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why is it so hard to start off on fabs if you are a new member x"

That's a complete different thread you are starting!!!

The original post, which is a year old was .... Would u meet or sleep with someone who had hundreds of verifications?...

And you are from London, posting on the Scottish forum.

So may be try starting a new thread of your own to ask people in 'your' area why it is difficult.

My advice anyway

Good luck

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not all verifications are a "slept with".

I've hosted a few house parties for couples and singles, the vast majority of the lovely peep's I met were a social only meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to start off on fabs if you are a new member x

That's a complete different thread you are starting!!!

The original post, which is a year old was .... Would u meet or sleep with someone who had hundreds of verifications?...

And you are from London, posting on the Scottish forum.

So may be try starting a new thread of your own to ask people in 'your' area why it is difficult.

My advice anyway

Good luck "

Hello max ma belle dame française. Bien dit et puis-je avoir un baiser énorme pour s'entendre avec house

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By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I'd meet someone with loads, as at least you know they are likely to turn up.

Also some people get at lot from socials or clubs.

Not going to judge someone based on who and how many people they have met. Would rather judge them in person and see what they are like and if we click great if not oh well. Would still give them a veri to say that they are genuine and we met up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *argaidMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Not all veris are real, anyway. The scammers who ran the fake parties last year had loads of verifications and friends. It's why so many people fell for it.

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By *ittle DancerWoman
over a year ago

Leslie, Glenrothes

Doesn't put me off - in fact I love reading verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto, maybe I'm just a horny pest though lol.

I don't understand why verifications would effect someones influence on a meeting. Would a person what to know anothers sexual history before having sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be able to determine if they are social or play so if i am totally honest, it MAY. I would be more likely to avoid people because they associate with or have played with. That does not say anything negative about the person, they may very well be truly lovely people but I am careful to avoid people I link with drama, needyness or in a clique I would rather avoid.

That is a learned approach from years of being in the scene.

I respect others play differently and that is cool."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would I play safe or no.play and I get checked regularly so can't see a problem

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