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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you class naked pic swapping and sex text as cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class naked pic swapping and sex text as cheating.

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Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any thoughts that would hurt ur partner or that u wouldn't want ur partner to know about is cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks my thoughts exactly.

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Would you class naked pic swapping and sex text as cheating.

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Yes. It's sexual intent. If your attached or married in my eyes the only sexual anything should be with your partner. If your having having that with someone else then love and respect your partner enough to end it first.

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By *00per7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

As long as it doesn't go further is it really cheating. Bit of sex text doesn't harm any one any more that reading 50 shades surely. Naked pics bit of titilation no worse than some of the high street glossy mags or tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ask bella?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is cheating doesn't matter how you sugarcoat it....

I cheated on my husband for a year before leaving him.

so I'm the first to admit I sugarcoated the bullshit to make me feel better &think it was ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And if he did it I'd rip his balls off. Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as it doesn't go further is it really cheating. Bit of sex text doesn't harm any one any more that reading 50 shades surely. Naked pics bit of titilation no worse than some of the high street glossy mags or tv"

It harms the person that doesn't know it's going on.

If you have to hide something from your partner then it's cheating and can hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is their any need to cheat on someone any way it never ends well just be honest and if you don't want to be with someone tell them it's best for both of you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

very long and seedy story but basically peace of mind.

Thanks all who have commented

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have to sneak about to do it , lie about it , or delete it to avoid it being seen then you probably should be doing it .

This was a Facebook quote I read and think it's apt

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If it's been done in openness and honesty for all to see then fair enough that can work for both parties . But if it's something you've had to learn about I agree with most of the others the intent was there and it's betrayal to me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It harms the person that doesn't know it's going on.

If you have to hide something from your partner then it's cheating and can hurt "

As above!

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

yep... cheating, if your partner is unaware, that's being dishonest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes defo

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By *cottybhoyMan
over a year ago

falkirk


"Would you class naked pic swapping and sex text as cheating.

Yes. It's sexual intent. If your attached or married in my eyes the only sexual anything should be with your partner. If your having having that with someone else then love and respect your partner enough to end it first."

Eh????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class naked pic swapping and sex text as cheating.

Yes. It's sexual intent. If your attached or married in my eyes the only sexual anything should be with your partner. If your having having that with someone else then love and respect your partner enough to end it first.

Eh???? "

Absolutely, if you're sending nude pix or sext messages to someone other than your partner then you're thinking about someone else so have the nuts to end it if you want to have fun elsewhere. If not, man (or woman) up and concentrate your efforts on your partner.

The people that think it's harmless are the ones who think they won't get caught but flip the situation round, what if you found out your missus or mister was sending dick or tits pix to a stranger, probably wouldn't feel so good then!

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

If your partner is blissfully unaware of the pics and text then I suggest this is far from bliss. Definitely a cheat. Love N Lust xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any thoughts that would hurt ur partner or that u wouldn't want ur partner to know about is cheating."

So it's the deception that makes it cheating... If you happen to be in a relationship where the concept is open but the details are kept private is that cheating..?

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By *cottybhoyMan
over a year ago

falkirk


"If your attached or married in my eyes the only sexual anything should be with your partner!"

Kinda makes the site redundant does it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you class naked pic swapping and sex text as cheating.

Yes. It's sexual intent. If your attached or married in my eyes the only sexual anything should be with your partner. If your having having that with someone else then love and respect your partner enough to end it first."
unless your partners on here and knows about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the sex that's the problem it's the lies and the trust that's the problem,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some cases cheating is justified

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

A lie is never better than the truth.

You can have a million reasons for having any type of sexual interaction with a person other than your partner. Hide it or lie about it and it becomes a problem.

If your partner knows you are on here and you both choose not to share details - that is fine.

If they don't then regardless of your reasons you are veing disrespectful to them - that is selfish.

Mrs S

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If your attached or married in my eyes the only sexual anything should be with your partner!

Kinda makes the site redundant does it not?"

What makes you say that? This is a swinging site. By definition it involves couples and sex. Any sexual contact I have with another ultimately involves my partner because we do it all together.

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what if both partners are on here as singles agree to tell each other everything. Then 1 starts as the op suggests.

Is this still technically cheating.

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"And what if both partners are on here as singles agree to tell each other everything. Then 1 starts as the op suggests.

Is this still technically cheating."

There is certainly a lack of honesty. If you agree not to hide anything then don't.

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what if both partners are on here as singles agree to tell each other everything. Then 1 starts as the op suggests.

Is this still technically cheating."

I would say no as long as each partner is open & honest with each other. The deceit is the cheating part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So both partners agree to chit chat nothing more. Pic swapping is therefore cheating

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Deco,if yr in a rship.no time for cheats!!!!

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife


"Would you class naked pic swapping and sex text as cheating.

Yes. It's sexual intent. If your attached or married in my eyes the only sexual anything should be with your partner. If your having having that with someone else then love and respect your partner enough to end it first."

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Lol@deco,I ment defo, daft auto spell... Yes I'm a horny dirty gene hunt but very moralistic

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