FabSwingers.com forum: How long can you hold a grudge ?

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Aries~24hrs tops

Taurus~until they die maybe not even then

Gemini~Give it 30 seconds

Cancer~years

Leo~until the end of time

Virgo~couple of months

Libra~2seconds

Scorpio~All of eternity

Sagittarius~Two days

Capricorn~dont even bother apologising

Aquarius~A year

Pisces~2 months

Im a Gemini and have a heart of marshmallow too soft for my own good lol .

so whats your sign and it this true of you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gemini and defo not true for me. I give people the benefit of the doubt all the time but when i eventually snap i can keep the grudge going ages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still hold grudges tbh not healthy way but I do hard to let go sometimes hopefully I will learn to let go at some point

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Libra here .....and mostly that is true ..however if its bad ....thats it !!!! there is NO going back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year for an aquarius? I'm sure I have held longer than that.

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By *pisMan
over a year ago

Larkhall

I'm Taurus and most definitely true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A goat can only hold a grudge for a few hours. We are allowed three lifetime grudges however. So be careful!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Virgo, and that's at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gemini but normally overnight and dont hold real grudges full stop......mind ye which of my two personalities is speaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup so true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 2 seconder

well unless they have really crossed me

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

scorpio - nah I don't hold grudges can think of much better things to hold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Libra. 2 seconds.

Better re-evaluate some things. .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aries~24hrs tops

Taurus~until they die maybe not even then

Gemini~Give it 30 seconds

Cancer~years

Leo~until the end of time

Virgo~couple of months

Libra~2seconds

Scorpio~All of eternity

Sagittarius~Two days

Capricorn~dont even bother apologising

Aquarius~A year

Pisces~2 months

Im a Gemini and have a heart of marshmallow too soft for my own good lol .

so whats your sign and it this true of you ?"

Gemini sounds about right for me life's too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leo for me . In general I don't hold grudges . Don't like bad feeling . There are certain occasions I have now lifelong grudges that I won't ever let go . But for most part I'm a softie

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By *ockandhishenCouple
over a year ago

West Dunbartonshire

Im a Leo

i tend not to hold grudges but if u step on my toes the wrong way you will know about it!!

Deep down im a softie x

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By *dicplCouple
over a year ago

Fife

Gemini here and it's mostly right but when I'm done I'm done!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leo, too much gone on and its taken a while but now , i realize its a complete drain on your life force to hold a serious grudge ,better to move on even though you never forget whats been done or said , but no longer hold that draining grudge .must be a sign that i am finally maturing

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I dont hold grudges..I just have a VERY long memory

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

Sagittarius - 2 days my arse

lol I fogive but I never ever forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont hold grudges some people no worth it. But I dont get Mad even, I JUST GET EVEN could take years but out of the blue oops they in trouble, best way

but they would have had to do something really bad to me or mine otherwise I dont waste energy thinking about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cancer don't hold grudges life's to short. so remove people from my life & leave them there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aries and very true, don't hold grudges, but also never forgotten.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am Cancer and No, I don't carry the angst of any issue for years.

I just couldn't be arsed with that..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

So this grid isn't very accurate for some lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scorpion here so i guess that say it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Libra here. Not sure if 2 seconds is true for me. If you do me wrong i'll never forget it!

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

As a aries... I think I have 1 grudge right now... but that person blew it big time.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Thought about this answer forever unless the person understands the why and can take responsibility for it why forgive kinda blows aquarius thing out the water

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have cut negative influeneces from my life with surgical precision, I don't think of them in a bad way... just my life is richer without them in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pisces here, I hold grudges for life depending on the situation tbh and certain folk I'll hold them beyond and into the afterlife but that's because they are arseholes! Thankfully I don't see them anymore but I'm sure one day I'll run into them.... I'll try not to laugh when that day comes

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must go against type for cancer then as i know i am way to nice for my own good and forgive and forget way to easily x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must go against type for cancer then as i know i am way to nice for my own good and forgive and forget way to easily x"

Since when?

hehe x

John

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Takes a hell of a lot to make me hold a grudge ....I rarely if ever use the word hate......but when I use it I mean it....I only actually hate 2 people ...others I feel sorry for/pity rather than hate ....

So mine is true to an extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Capricorn for me and it depends what they have done,

Daughter also a Capricorn and 15 yrs on she still moans about me dropping her slice of bacon,

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Takes a hell of a lot to make me hold a grudge ....I rarely if ever use the word hate......but when I use it I mean it....I only actually hate 2 people ...others I feel sorry for/pity rather than hate ....

So mine is true to an extent "
Now wondering which one you are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Taurus and think this is complete bullshit and I shall detest anyone who says otherwise until I die.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

So mine is true to an extent Now wondering which one you are lol

Capricorn

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

So mine is true to an extent Now wondering which one you are lol

Capricorn

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dunno why but I thought Capricorn lol

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Taurus~until they die maybe not even then "

Yup

Thats if it's something really bad... I don't care about petty little things

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

So mine is true to an extent Now wondering which one you are lol

Capricorn

dunno why but I thought Capricorn lol "

Perhaps because I am a stubborn cow haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never hold them

Life is to short.

As for star signs in the same book as fairies, witches, old wife's tails and big foot. Lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

So mine is true to an extent Now wondering which one you are lol

Capricorn

dunno why but I thought Capricorn lol

Perhaps because I am a stubborn cow haha

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aries~24hrs tops

Taurus~until they die maybe not even then

Gemini~Give it 30 seconds

Cancer~years

Leo~until the end of time

Virgo~couple of months

Libra~2seconds

Scorpio~All of eternity

Sagittarius~Two days

Capricorn~dont even bother apologising

Aquarius~A year

Pisces~2 months

Im a Gemini and have a heart of marshmallow too soft for my own good lol .

so whats your sign and it this true of you ?"

Aries untrue i could hold a grudge forever lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a cancer don't hold grudges life's to short. so remove people from my life & leave them there

Hi dee x

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By *uck knows41Man
over a year ago

Arbroath

Im a Gemini and so far 27 years and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Virgo and I can hold a grudge a lot longer than that.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I'm Pisces and don't hold grudges at all. I do, however, have a long memory lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm Pisces and don't hold grudges at all. I do, however, have a long memory lol"

Same with me, not worth my time to hold a grudge but won't be forgetting your transgression anytime soon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Star signs... what a crock of sh1t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Star signs... what a crock of sh1t."

Almost sounds like someone has a grudge against astrology lol

But yes it is a bit pants to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a cancer I'm normally Mrs nice and forgiving. However there are some people who fall in to the category of never to be forgiven

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Oh I'm defo a Scorpio lolol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Star signs... what a crock of sh1t.

Almost sounds like someone has a grudge against astrology lol

But yes it is a bit pants to be honest"
Of coures it is was just for a bit of fun thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Star signs... what a crock of sh1t.

Almost sounds like someone has a grudge against astrology lol

But yes it is a bit pants to be honest"
no grudge would have to care for a fudge to be held. just morons that believe it's written in the star's to cater to everyone born within that month oh this and that is going to happen, only selective people have the gift blah blah blah bit like the Clairvoyants and

religions hypocrisy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pisces & really depends on the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a virgo i dont forget if ive been wronged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine and his are definately true. I'm on nearly 2 years not speaking to my sister - and then well let's see? Maybe 16 years not speaking to my dad. If he's still alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a Scorpio and I'm very like my star sign but not in this case... John n I must have ours mixed up

K x

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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Stirlingshire

"Aries~24hrs tops

Taurus~until they die maybe not even then

Gemini~Give it 30 seconds

Cancer~years

Leo~until the end of time

Virgo~couple of months

Libra~2seconds

Scorpio~All of eternity

Sagittarius~Two days

Capricorn~dont even bother apologising

Aquarius~A year

Pisces~2 months

Im a Gemini and have a heart of marshmallow too soft for my own good lol .

so whats your sign and it this true of you ?"

hehe mine sounds about right

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Hmm I'm libra. Not sure about 2 seconds....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taurus here....enough said!!!!

Although, if I love you then I love you no matter what. I'm fiercely loyal and you get away with murder. But those on the edges of my life aren't so lucky. Once let down, that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cancer...I can hold a grudge forall of eternity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taurus here, motto is "Don't get mad get even", I suppose that says it all really.

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

We both Capricorns ... so best not piss each other off LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Libra here. Don't believe in negative energy. Say exactly what I think at the time and that's an end to it as far as I'm concerned, if the other person can't handle it. Not my problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines pish. Can hold one for years me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as i want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap! Gemini n can be as stubborn as a mule.....with certain folk lol

Others I can never hold a grudge for any seconds at all

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By *he Mad ChatterMan
over a year ago

Wonderland

"Libra here. Don't believe in negative energy. Say exactly what I think at the time and that's an end to it as far as I'm concerned, if the other person can't handle it. Not my problem. "

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Aries and very true, don't hold grudges, but also never forgotten."

honestly don't have the energy to hold grudges for petty things!

But if you REALLY fuck me over i will NEVER forget or forgive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aquarian: I can NEVER forgive someone at work for how they treated me after an accident in which I was the victim.

What goes around.....

And thankfully have moved on job wise

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

Aries here but i have held a grudge for 43 yrs now and never likly to back down. Its just that one tho never normally do but this one was series .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Capricorn !!! what is a grudge !!!!! life's too short !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aries~24hrs tops

Taurus~until they die maybe not even then

Gemini~Give it 30 seconds

Cancer~years

Leo~until the end of time

Virgo~couple of months

Libra~2seconds

Scorpio~All of eternity

Sagittarius~Two days

Capricorn~dont even bother apologising

Aquarius~A year

Pisces~2 months

Im a Gemini and have a heart of marshmallow too soft for my own good lol .

so whats your sign and it this true of you ?"

I'm aires and once crossed/let down I'm done for good. Unless there's a valid reason if not "your dead to me". But it has been said that I'm dead inside and fiercely loyal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Libra here .....and mostly that is true ..however if its bad ....thats it !!!! there is NO going back

im with _unkie babe .. some i let slide others who have really crossed the line will never let it go ... but i wont let it eat away at me as time is far too short and the time i spend on them and it i would never get back .

so less time i spend thinking about them the more time i have for those i do care and think about .

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By *eather47Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I agree entirely with sioux im slow to anger but when i blow i blow do not like being taken a loan of and treated like a idiot

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Taurus here. . . I must be a soft hearted one though. A couple of days grudge time max for me. Then I think "ah f*ck it, kiss and make up"

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