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"Very very little offends me." Well apart from the USA | |||
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"It's a racial slur. I personally find it offensive. " Don't think it is a racial slur - it is not normally associated with anything particularly negative as far as I know. | |||
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"Is it just me or do others find the word 'jock' offensive?reference to a term used in a post in the lounge forum 'horniest town' What's your thoughts people?" SERIOUSLY????? | |||
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"Nah doesn't offend me tbh as stated tho depends on context. Just to diverge a little is it offensive to refer to a Chinese take away as a chinky or a corner shop as a p#ki shop? I must state am not trying to be offensive here but think how many times you have heard these phrases and not been offended (rightly or wrongly btw just making a point) so on that basis why should the term kick be considered more or less offensive?" Ooooh you said the term kick in public, is that a racist slur on people who play football, only joking we have auto correct too, just proving a point that if someone objects then there are some who will jump on anything you say, ... had one the other day telling me that the word actress is sexist and offensive, it's actor now non gender specific, ... really!!! rant over | |||
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"Nah doesn't offend me tbh as stated tho depends on context. Just to diverge a little is it offensive to refer to a Chinese take away as a chinky or a corner shop as a p#ki shop? I must state am not trying to be offensive here but think how many times you have heard these phrases and not been offended (rightly or wrongly btw just making a point) so on that basis why should the term kick be considered more or less offensive?" Personally I'm not offended but do groan hearing both chinky and paki. I'd much rather hear it be termed corner shop or had it's title used rather than be defined as the Paki shop. It's just a shop. | |||
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"Turning into a country that's offended by anything get a grip and grow a pair" | |||
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"Sorry but excusing Chinky, Paki or any other racial slur on a minority off the back of a majority (Scots/Jocks) being OK with such references is an absurdity. It reduces the discussion to one of the dominant powers. Blacks and other minorities on the whole tolerated such abuses for fear of further stigmatism. " But who decided that Chinky, Paki etc were racial slurs?? Too many self-opinionated people about, making rules when very often rules aren't needed. As has been said, if the terms are used in a derogatory manner, then that's different, but I take great exception to a suggestion that I'm racist! | |||
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"Is it just me or do others find the word 'jock' offensive?reference to a term used in a post in the lounge forum 'horniest town' What's your thoughts people?" Guys if you find the word "jock" offensive your obviously easily offended and maybe Fab might not be the right environment! Don't mean to offend the easily offended | |||
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"The term was used in a derogatory way in another posting the op refers to and the other op seemed to delight in trying to offend. I've looked through the ages of some of the people who seem not object and most are older than me. It's some of the younger profiles that perhaps have some reticence. The op here doesn't strike me as someone who is easily offended and if someone else asked the question it might have been a less black or white issue. Personally, I found the clown who was making the posting in another room rather funny in his attempts to wind people up, but I'm glad that some sensible pc is encouraged. " spot on A simple open question results in comments like 'get a grip and grow a pair' 'Get a life brother jock.' 'Your easily offended so maybe fab isn't the right enviroment' Aye if you say so | |||
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"The term was used in a derogatory way in another posting the op refers to and the other op seemed to delight in trying to offend. I've looked through the ages of some of the people who seem not object and most are older than me. It's some of the younger profiles that perhaps have some reticence. The op here doesn't strike me as someone who is easily offended and if someone else asked the question it might have been a less black or white issue. Personally, I found the clown who was making the posting in another room rather funny in his attempts to wind people up, but I'm glad that some sensible pc is encouraged. spot on A simple open question results in comments like 'get a grip and grow a pair' 'Get a life brother jock.' 'Your easily offended so maybe fab isn't the right enviroment' Aye if you say so " I'm flattered that you gave me a wee thumbs up - I couldn't let my mate take on any nonsense. | |||
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"The term was used in a derogatory way in another posting the op refers to and the other op seemed to delight in trying to offend. I've looked through the ages of some of the people who seem not object and most are older than me. It's some of the younger profiles that perhaps have some reticence. The op here doesn't strike me as someone who is easily offended and if someone else asked the question it might have been a less black or white issue. Personally, I found the clown who was making the posting in another room rather funny in his attempts to wind people up, but I'm glad that some sensible pc is encouraged. spot on A simple open question results in comments like 'get a grip and grow a pair' 'Get a life brother jock.' 'Your easily offended so maybe fab isn't the right enviroment' Aye if you say so " The simple question also resulted in comments, "Offensive" And "It's a racial slur. I personally find it offensive" You've only chosen selectively but it's a forum and wouldn't be interesting if everyone agreed with you. | |||
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"What a lot of politically correct crap. Scots have been known as Jocks for years. I look on it as a sort of term of endearment and am proud to be a Jock." Working in an industry with multi national personnel it's not a problem.Jocks ,Micks,Taffs, Yanks,Chinks etc.Nobody takes offence at the referral. | |||
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"I'm pleased that the likes of Jim Davidson Bernard manning Alf garnett Golliwogs And their ilk no longer dominate british tv (and at the licence fee expense). Admittedly though, some dinosaurs are still around. I imagine that those with racist _iews would not be empathetic to other forms of issues: gays, immigration, capital punishment." | |||
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"The term was used in a derogatory way in another posting the op refers to and the other op seemed to delight in trying to offend. I've looked through the ages of some of the people who seem not object and most are older than me. It's some of the younger profiles that perhaps have some reticence. The op here doesn't strike me as someone who is easily offended and if someone else asked the question it might have been a less black or white issue. Personally, I found the clown who was making the posting in another room rather funny in his attempts to wind people up, but I'm glad that some sensible pc is encouraged. spot on A simple open question results in comments like 'get a grip and grow a pair' 'Get a life brother jock.' 'Your easily offended so maybe fab isn't the right enviroment' Aye if you say so The simple question also resulted in comments, "Offensive" And "It's a racial slur. I personally find it offensive" You've only chosen selectively but it's a forum and wouldn't be interesting if everyone agreed with you." I never asked anyone to agree with me and it was an open question and not a statement asking if others found the word Jock offensive when blatantly used in a derogatory way as shown in the forum post I stated in my original opening post. Those who have found it offensive haven't then questioned the character of those who don't. The comments I have selected are those that question and cast judgement on those who do find it offensive. Yes it is a forum, and posts that encourage opinions and interests for all to contribute to is what makes a good forum. But what is constructive and positive in a some of the comments posted? Comments like that put off others from having their say/opinion. | |||
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"What a lot of politically correct crap. Scots have been known as Jocks for years. I look on it as a sort of term of endearment and am proud to be a Jock. Working in an industry with multi national personnel it's not a problem.Jocks ,Micks,Taffs, Yanks,Chinks etc.Nobody takes offence at the referral. " Many a year in the army, involved in rugby and plenty of Taff,Paddy,Mick,Scouses etc on my phone contacts list so certainly not nieve to the friendly/banter use of the word jock, however I do find it offensive when said in a derogatory way/tone/context . | |||
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"What a lot of politically correct crap. Scots have been known as Jocks for years. I look on it as a sort of term of endearment and am proud to be a Jock. Working in an industry with multi national personnel it's not a problem.Jocks ,Micks,Taffs, Yanks,Chinks etc.Nobody takes offence at the referral. Many a year in the army, involved in rugby and plenty of Taff,Paddy,Mick,Scouses etc on my phone contacts list so certainly not nieve to the friendly/banter use of the word jock, however I do find it offensive when said in a derogatory way/tone/context ." This. Its the context it's said in. A job in used to have years ago meant me dealing with an Asian driver.... Every say I would greet him with hello ya black bastard, was he offended, no, cos at the same time I would shake his hand. Its not what's said it's the intention and meaning behind it. | |||
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