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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I now officially hate mondays.

so had arranged to meet someone today for coffee and chat, spent all morning having a glorious bath and picking out what to wear.

I then get a call from my son's nursery to come collect him 20mins before I'm due to meet.

chicken pox!!

thankfully my kids ok just spotty and thankfully my meet was understanding and didn't think I had chickened (no pun intended) out at the last moment.

At least he said he did see me when he drove past so I do exist and do look like my pic. Lol!!

anyone else had such a disaster on a first meet?...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep was just about to go out for a meet when my parents decide to drop on just before I am due to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I 1st came on Fab I had a meet arranged and due to my car being in the garage decided to take the train. I literally stepped off the train at her station then got a call from her saying she had to cancel because her wee one had to come home from school because he was ill.

I did however have plenty of great meets with her at a later date so all wasn't bad.

When you or your meet has kids these things have to be expected.

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By *he nicknameMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Might seem like bad luck, but there's some good luck too, in that chicken pox in adults is worse. If they have to get it, it's better as a child, so it's out the way.

And some luck in that the guy you met didn't start to get abusive that you cancelled.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Way too many times to tell them all, the joy of being a single mum... My boy always comes first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks nice to hear it's not just me.

yeah he's been a brilliant about it and hopefully will get another chance to meet.

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Way too many times to tell them all, the joy of being a single mum... My boy always comes first "

ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good few times but kids are my world, fab is my hobby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A good few times but kids are my world, fab is my hobby "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had to cancel a couple of meets and it does make you feel bad but noal life comes first.

At leased they were understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had to cancel a couple of meets and it does make you feel bad but noal life comes first.

At leased they were understanding "

I don't have a clue who or what noal is

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

family always come first its gd the guy understood and you can always rearrange a meet , hope your wee boys ok plenty of camoline lotion should ease the itch x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have had to cancel a couple of meets and it does make you feel bad but noal life comes first.

At leased they were understanding

I don't have a clue who or what noal is "

hee hee! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats not bad luck thats called having kids,rather spend time with my kids than a meet off here any day.

mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"family always come first its gd the guy understood and you can always rearrange a meet , hope your wee boys ok plenty of camoline lotion should ease the itch x"

thanks. Yeah got potions and lotions from chemist. Sadly spots are all over his wee bits. Don't evny that I bit! !....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahha what first meet im still just trying to get somone to meet for a coffee...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for the abusive Ahole there is no excuse for him as he is what gives us gen single guys on here a bad name and i hope you blocked and reported him as for the understanding guy hats off to him as he is what gives us guys a good name and i hope all turns out good for your son and your next meet with other guy and all goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"normal"

Thanks Onny. I had a bit of a mental block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"normal

Thanks Onny. I had a bit of a mental block "

That will be an age thing Fab fem another year older he he lol

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"thats not bad luck thats called having kids,rather spend time with my kids than a meet off here any day.

mr"

True dat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahha what first meet im still just trying to get somone to meet for a coffee... "
Maybe there tea drinkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had arranged to meet a couple and when the doorbell rang I opened the door expecting them but it was my daughter with her 2 kids. I of course was dressed appropriately for the meet so started to panic. The doorbell rang about 5 minutes later with the expected couple ready to meet. I had to make a very hurried explanation to them as to what had happened and then go back in and tell my daughter it was jahovah witnesses.

Fortunately we have met on a couple of occasions since and still laugh about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As for the abusive Ahole there is no excuse for him as he is what gives us gen single guys on here a bad name and i hope you blocked and reported him as for the understanding guy hats off to him as he is what gives us guys a good name and i hope all turns out good for your son and your next meet with other guy and all goes well "

yeah he was a bit of a nutter. Delightful language and full of insults. I think it pissed him off that I didn't pander to him.

I reported him so can't see his page, either admin has suspended him or he's blocked me. Got help the next person that he tries to message.

thanks, my son's doing ok so far, can't see my work being too impressed but hey that's their problem.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had arranged to meet a couple and when the doorbell rang I opened the door expecting them but it was my daughter with her 2 kids. I of course was dressed appropriately for the meet so started to panic. The doorbell rang about 5 minutes later with the expected couple ready to meet. I had to make a very hurried explanation to them as to what had happened and then go back in and tell my daughter it was jahovah witnesses.

Fortunately we have met on a couple of occasions since and still laugh about it."

nightmare! !! Right that tops mine, feeling better now. Hee hee!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for the abusive Ahole there is no excuse for him as he is what gives us gen single guys on here a bad name and i hope you blocked and reported him as for the understanding guy hats off to him as he is what gives us guys a good name and i hope all turns out good for your son and your next meet with other guy and all goes well

yeah he was a bit of a nutter. Delightful language and full of insults. I think it pissed him off that I didn't pander to him.

I reported him so can't see his page, either admin has suspended him or he's blocked me. Got help the next person that he tries to message.

thanks, my son's doing ok so far, can't see my work being too impressed but hey that's their problem.

Xx"

I think your work will be understanding once you walk him down to your work and let him run riot there , i bet they will be the first to say take the time off and take him home quickly best off luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had to cancel a couple of meets and it does make you feel bad but noal life comes first.

At leased they were understanding

I don't have a clue who or what noal is "

Gallagher maybe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahha what first meet im still just trying to get somone to meet for a coffee... Maybe there tea drinkers "

Hmm never thought of that :p

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

When I was with my ex we had a single bi female on her way over to ours one night. She called to say she was just setting off, should have taken maybe 30 min to get to my place. . An hour later and she still wasn't here so we called her.

She had broken down on the way over and was awaiting the RAC to rescue her. . . . Apparently all she had on was a long coat, hold ups and heels!

We met her a few times afterwards and always had a laugh at the fact she struggled to act normally when the dishy recovery man arrived !

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