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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so difficult to arrange mf sex on this site? Hints and tips most welcome! Thanks

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Maybe work on your profile, if you mailed me I would take one look and delete without reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to a social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks...started to work on text.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks...not eady to get out at night due to care issues (not mine!).

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Thanks...started to work on text."

Not sure many will meet without face pics.... But good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put a bit effort in it's not that hard. I find you get out of this site what you put in.

Sometimes it isn't always about sex either, you should look to meet socialy first and that will help you get to know people as most on here don't meet with a guarantee of sex. Why should they? They need to make sure their is a mutual attraction first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks...makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks...do you think that cock shots help or hinder?

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By *ornyguy9120Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's a buyer's market for females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only cock pics on display and you state you can't send face pics?? Do you really think people are gonna meet you with out seeing what you look like??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's what I'm asking. Thanks...my hopes are diminishing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think how it us for us married guys , im always up front about this when chatting to people so im in a vanilla marriage and do like to meet like minded kinky people married or single if they wish to meet the choice is always with them . be patient .

Slightly off topic sorry but should we have a section for married m and f that want to meet for some extra marital fun not strictly swinging i suppose but there a core of genuine swinger cpls that meet within their own circles . Most poeple are looking for that extra thrill of meeting a new person persons. Will probably get the labelled a dirty cheat but who gives a fck lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Marriage ain't the issue, but thanks anyway. Patience...aye, just have to hang in there! Women seemed a bit more willing to have fun when I was younger...age a factor...mind you, I thought the internet might have helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is just a number doesnt and never will stop me playing in any way lol just be normal most of us are normal nice kind poeple away from our fantasy fab side after all its just fun or should be good luck get some face pics up that you can send in pm to prospects

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By *ornyguy9120Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"think how it us for us married guys , im always up front about this when chatting to people so im in a vanilla marriage and do like to meet like minded kinky people married or single if they wish to meet the choice is always with them . be patient .

Slightly off topic sorry but should we have a section for married m and f that want to meet for some extra marital fun not strictly swinging i suppose but there a core of genuine swinger cpls that meet within their own circles . Most poeple are looking for that extra thrill of meeting a new person persons. Will probably get the labelled a dirty cheat but who gives a fck lol "

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get rid of the cock pictures mate. Women aren't gonna meet you based on your cock alone. They are more likely to be put off if it's only cock pictures on show.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers pal...I did thonk it would be easier to find recreational sex! Hey ho...thanks anyway and advice taken.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Cheers pal...I did thonk it would be easier to find recreational sex! Hey ho...thanks anyway and advice taken."

Lack of pics, can't accom, no swapping face pics and only meeting during day will make it a lot harder for you to get meets , maybe not impossible but a lot harder

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Duh just noticed I'd already posted on this..... Need more coffee this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never meet straight from the site. usually meet people at socials, exchange numbers, then take it from there.maybe im more choosy than most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol cutie your forgiven it is Monday xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

It shouldn't be that difficult many are the same as you and can only meet daytime.

Only hurdle that might be putting people off is not being able to see who they might potentially be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a face pic as my profile has a menu of kinks that probably deters 99.9% of ppl lol but I'm a really nice guy honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks MissD....I'll persevere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Playhard...great list btw!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Cutie...I'll persevere...better to have tried and failed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest straight to the point profile just the no face pics to exchange would put me off x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Naughty...nothing's easy. I thought internet would increase chances, but not so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers pal...I did thonk it would be easier to find recreational sex! Hey ho...thanks anyway and advice taken.

Lack of pics, can't accom, no swapping face pics and only meeting during day will make it a lot harder for you to get meets , maybe not impossible but a lot harder "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is your shop front. Look at your profile and think 'would I meet me?' If the answer is no, then why not? There's a lot of single guys out there - make your profile stand out from the rest. You are unique - just as everyone else is. Make your profile as unique as you.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

OP, you need to understand that this isn't 'instashag.com'. And although I'm sure there are some women on here who just want sex, most like there to be a social aspect to it too.

Also, most women here will expect to see a face pic before agreeing to meet, even just for an initial coffee/drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the chance of someone meeting, without seeing a face pic is remote to say the least (Mr)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't think it is difficult....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all for hints and tips. I have concluded that whilst I'll persevere on the site there is little prospect of the the recreational sex I seek.

Cheers.

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

The no face pics I think is the biggest reason plus most people work so day meets can be tricky. The socials are defo the best way in. Iv met so many lovely people with potentials of meets a lot easier than I have trying to get one on here. It's defo the way to go.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"Thanks to all for hints and tips. I have concluded that whilst I'll persevere on the site there is little prospect of the the recreational sex I seek.

Cheers."

That's a nice positive attitude OP, I'm sure you'll go far!

But if it was intended as hoping for a sympathy shag, then I'm afraid that doesn't usually work either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never had one these...oh dear, auspicious minds!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Tina.

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