FabSwingers.com forum: the Voyuerism part of FAB

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In this recent week I have been rather annoyed at some peoples _iews on "playing" on cam, that there is something wrong in doing it and its "just not right" or "who the fuck wants to watch that!", sometimes I do play most times I dont, I like being watched in both manners and do not feel that playing for a voyuer(amazing some people actually like it!!!!!omg!!!)makes me a sad lone wanker with no intention of actually meeting up with people! taking care to respect what people want or dont want I believe is the key to some successful swinging- BUT I wish some people would have more of an open _iew on what a few of us enjoy, after all people who dont swing would probably say that we are all weird for enjoying no-strings fun with little or no emotional attachments with who we fuck!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Your cam Paddy, do what makes you happy.

All they have to do is click off your cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im with you there paddy, not my thing personally but certainly nothing wrong or offensive in it. live n let live i say and so long as you not harming anybody then have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i dont want to see a cam ,i dont put it on simple,if u want to play ,u not breaking any rules, have fun xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with _iew.

If I dont like a cam I just click off. Why take the effort to complain about it? It's just wasting time to get to the cams I want to see

One other thing I never understand is when people complain about somebody playing on cam in a room that isnt the directing room because they say it "encourages people to direct". I feel that if a person wants to play on cam that is up to them. The rules state no directing so its up to the veiwer to respect the rules. We are all given the same oppertunities to enjoy the site so people should read the rules and know not to direct. It smacks of a victim getting the blame for an offence

Anyway, this will probably open a can of worms but I hope not.

People should learn to use the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes play on cam too, mainly in the directing room if it takes my fancy, and i don't mind others playing on cam either. If you don't want to watch then click off the cam simples!!!! As for peeps playing on cam in the scotland room well why the hell not, i quite like it myself too - does that mean i'm a perv - well maybe but who cares i certainly don't i enjoy watching at times as much as playing, its all in the moment!!!

So paddy go for it if you fancy it, why the hell not, enjoy it for what its for

L from gandl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to agree paddy - i will click on cams and if i dont like what i see i move on - i would never complain about it. I've debated this before and dont see why people moan about it when they can just easily click off the cam. As for directing people when your not suppose to in normal rules then thats up to the people who break the rules and get blocked, not the person on cam's fault. sad times if the person on cam is getting hassell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i am not into playing on cam but will very occasionally watch , but i think each to their own, if nobody is getting hurt whats the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play on Cam play of cam whats the diffrence if you don't want to watch don't watch if someone complains that is their problem no yours enjoy yourself Paddy with what YOU want to do you are in your own home FFS

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