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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That theres a profile that state's will only do bareback. Even more shocked at the amount of verifications this person has. Each to there own. However massive risk so many people unprotected sex.

Are people really that stupid ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word? Yes.

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Think he mailed me as well lol got told to bolt!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 14/03/15 10:37:39]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be the same person I put a sarcastic post up about the other day and got criticised for "going by other people's opinions" when it was the same as you,through my own eyes.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

at least they are honest...... to them.

it's the people who aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather they were honest so I know who not to play with because I chose not to take the risk.

If we vilify those who bareback they won't openly state that they do and then I run the risk of meeting them.

They're grown adults that can make their own decisions

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"at least they are honest...... to them.

it's the people who aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter if your not going to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather they were honest so I know who not to play with because I chose not to take the risk.

If we vilify those who bareback they won't openly state that they do and then I run the risk of meeting them.

They're grown adults that can make their own decisions "

Your first point is the point we were making in our post about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather they were honest so I know who not to play with because I chose not to take the risk.

If we vilify those who bareback they won't openly state that they do and then I run the risk of meeting them.

They're grown adults that can make their own decisions

Your first point is the point we were making in our post about it."

The point in making though is. All these threads about bareback push it further underground and I personally would rather it wasn't.

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By *cottish_couple321Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Can't imagine they would get many meets but I would prefer they did state it rather than turn up for meet to be let down as safety cums first

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

You would be surprised the amount who bareback and don't admit it....regulars and others.

They are honest ....more need to be

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"I would rather they were honest so I know who not to play with because I chose not to take the risk.

If we vilify those who bareback they won't openly state that they do and then I run the risk of meeting them.

They're grown adults that can make their own decisions

Your first point is the point we were making in our post about it.

The point in making though is. All these threads about bareback push it further underground and I personally would rather it wasn't. "

Exactly my thoughts

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Our profile clearly states that we only play safe. If anyone turned up expecting to go bareback it's their own damn fault for not reading the profile properly.

And I'd be pissed off at having our time wasted and they'd be reported as such.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally admire there honesty. Very true loads don't tell the truth . Just abit shocked at the massive gamble they are all taken.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Another forum post about what someone else does/uses their profile for.

Least they are been honest. Well done to them.

I'm sure they are all adults and know the risks and for whatever reason known to them, they are OK taking that risk.

For the one profile on here that you mention (and the verifications on that profile) that are having bareback sex, there are millions of people out there having one night stands or flings with out protection after a night out etc. Do we stand outside the nightclubs and berate them?

(Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own maybe you don't know the full story as to why the person likes bare back poss a medical condition?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another forum post about what someone else does/uses their profile for.

Least they are been honest. Well done to them.

I'm sure they are all adults and know the risks and for whatever reason known to them, they are OK taking that risk.

For the one profile on here that you mention (and the verifications on that profile) that are having bareback sex, there are millions of people out there having one night stands or flings with out protection after a night out etc. Do we stand outside the nightclubs and berate them?

(Mr)"
think your missing the point this is a swingers site you know what your getting into. Sexual health should be a priority ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the guy gets tested and he's clean ?

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Swingers sight, sex site, dating site whatever people use it for or call it....it's a choice they have made and the people they have met have made....They have made it public by putting it on thier profile....don't think they would want it put in the forums thou

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Swingers sight, sex site, dating site whatever people use it for or call it....it's a choice they have made and the people they have met have made....They have made it public by putting it on thier profile....don't think they would want it put in the forums thou "

And this is the Mrs haha just incase

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love how most think its a man . ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's usually the single guys who are het for it anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not a guy!

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By *requent VisitorMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Has she led a sheltered life ffs, who in their right minds honestly will go bareback with someone don't know from Adam on a night out never mind here on Fab!

Seriously Jo bags are not that much to even buy a 3pk to be on the safe side. I've even went with a girl to a 24hr shop once at 6 in morn having not went out with the intention of pulling nor her.

Would like to see how many so called safe sex couples, singles etc on that list as if she openly states such shows how honest they were. If were jooped then if were them would not be a happy camper. Silly girl but then plenty about!

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By *he nicknameMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't why some people are bothered what other people do.

It's always safe with me but I know some friends who prefer bare.

If anyone is 'horrified', it's simple: just don't do bare yourself or meet them.

If people go bare it's no one else's business.

I don't think a swingers site is the place to cast the first stone, or openly judge.

For me, I'd much prefer to be in the company of genuine swingers who play bare than other people who are bothered or making judgements.

Hardly anyone uses condoms for oral but even that has dangers such as throat cancer.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Another forum post about what someone else does/uses their profile for.

Least they are been honest. Well done to them.

I'm sure they are all adults and know the risks and for whatever reason known to them, they are OK taking that risk.

For the one profile on here that you mention (and the verifications on that profile) that are having bareback sex, there are millions of people out there having one night stands or flings with out protection after a night out etc. Do we stand outside the nightclubs and berate them?

(Mr) think your missing the point this is a swingers site you know what your getting into. Sexual health should be a priority ?? "

Don't think that Im missing the point at all. I think that you are.

They are adults and have made that decision themselves, I'm sure that they know the true facts about sexual health and the risks involved.

Its their profile, not yours. They are been open and honest and letting those that meet them to decide on meeting them.

Different strokes for different folks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everybody is entitled to the options. Double standards saying I shouldnt judge is that not those that are criticising me doing judging me ??

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I cert wouldnt b going bareback with anyone on here or someone iv just met in ""real life"" either !!

But theyre choice just not for me

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Everybody is entitled to the options. Double standards saying I shouldnt judge is that not those that are criticising me doing judging me ??"

Stating what we think as are you ...it's what the forums are for we put your opinions you put yours

Simples

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

It is best to think that everyone barebacks, from that starting block..... you can protect yourself accordingly.

there are many more bare backers than there are declaring they are.

Look in an open room in a club, either no condoms or moving from female to female with the same condom.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"It is best to think that everyone barebacks, from that starting block..... you can protect yourself accordingly.

there are many more bare backers than there are declaring they are.

Look in an open room in a club, either no condoms or moving from female to female with the same condom."

Far more than would like to admit bareback and don't say as I said earlier

Totally agree with above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer them to say they bareback so i can avoid them. I often check the verifications of people i would like to meet to see if any previous partners are into bareback .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are also guys that think you will bareback because they have had the snip!

Last I knew, that only prevented pregnancy, not an std.

R

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Cant remember the name of the woody allen film but safe sex was pacticed in a machine was hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It amazes me if you look at the pics and something catches your eye , you look at the profile and there are loads of bareback pics with obviously different guys !!!!

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