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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could you live with a sexless marriage if you were both very much in love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would. if we were very much in love then yip I'd be devoted it's not all about sex

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By *he Mad ChatterMan
over a year ago

Wonderland

If I can abstain from chocolate for lent, then sex would be easy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have a sexless marriage than a relationship built around sex

John

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would survive (I think ) with a happy but sexless marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you live with a sexless marriage if you were both very much in love? "

Having already been in a loveless sexless marriage in the last 4/5 years of a 21 yr marriage, ...... If I ever got married again and for whatever reason it became sexless and we were very much in love - yeah I could happily live without nookie!

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

Nope I'm greedy I'd want both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love isn't just about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think they go hand in hand

If you no longer love someone it's very difficult to have sex with them unless you just see it as a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly like to think I'd be happy in a sexless marriage if we were very much in love with each other, need to find the right woman to marry first though.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"i think they go hand in hand

If you no longer love someone it's very difficult to have sex with them unless you just see it as a shag"
I think the opposite sex is a tiny part of life you could live without .......love on the otherhand you couldnt sexless marriage easy id guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could but I'd prefer not too . If there was a reason for not having sex due to health etc then I could.

If it was other reasons and I stopped turning my partner on or vice versa then no . To me its a huge part of a relationship /marriage and the act of sex when you love someone is very different to just having a fuck because you're horny . It's as close as you can become for me . It's where you do let everything else go from your mind for that time . Passion tenderness, desire, being vulnerable to that person. Trust and pleasure .

Chocolate. . Erm no I love that too

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Love...and chocolate

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

... tried it, really did and after a year the strain got too much for me, felt un-wanted and ugly. yes I'm a guy but sometimes it's nice to be wanted.

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By *imbo57Man
over a year ago

kilmarnock ish

Yes agree totally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"... tried it, really did and after a year the strain got too much for me, felt un-wanted and ugly. yes I'm a guy but sometimes it's nice to be wanted. "

It sure is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... tried it, really did and after a year the strain got too much for me, felt un-wanted and ugly. yes I'm a guy but sometimes it's nice to be wanted. "

I lasted a bit longer than a year. It does nothing for your self esteem. Wouldn't like to go through it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't stay with someone if it turned sexless. I've done it before and it was horrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't stay with someone if it turned sexless. I've done it before and it was horrible. "

same here and its not a good thing to be in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we could.

When I wasn't well we had to behave, and it was all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take love. True love where you know you'll never have to face the big stuff alone. when there is someone to hole your hand or give you a hug after a hard day. Yup all that worth so much more than sex. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd take love. True love where you know you'll never have to face the big stuff alone. when there is someone to hole your hand or give you a hug after a hard day. Yup all that worth so much more than sex. X"

I could easily live without sex. Without love and companionship is way harder.

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