FabSwingers.com forum: Is winking creepy?

By *ibblescholar OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I quite like a wee wink, gives you that heads up " I'm not interested" or if returned " I'm digging you come chat to me". Just the other day someone said to me that they thought it was kinda creepy and I would love to hear your take on it. As I said I quite like a wink but then again I am a bit of a winker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol never thought of it being creepy I use it the same as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a woman that's winking no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink all the time...don't see how it can be creepy..lets them know your interested, simple..

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I use a wink to show I'm interested

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I wink all the time...don't see how it can be creepy..lets them know your interested, simple..

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By *ibblescholar OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

"Lol never thought of it being creepy I use it the same as you

I never thought that either , was quite shocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with winking on here,might be a different story if you were pacing the aisles of your local supermarket winking at people

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By *ibblescholar OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I didn't get it either. I love a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wink!

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lol so do we

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By *ibblescholar OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Maybe it's me. Maybe I just attract nutters lol

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't wink.... or pay any attention to winks on here.

I don't think it's creepy, it's just something I don't use on here.

Now, if people were to wander around winking at people on the street as much as they wink on here.... That would ve creepy

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By *ibblescholar OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

If people don't want to use the wink function then that's fine but to have a go at me because I choose to use it is a bit shitty! I use the wink to give someone the opportunity to wink back and say hey I'm interested too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone think it creepy?

I find it creepy if they think its creepy to wink....wonder what they think it means....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wink on occasion, but only for the ladies.

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By *ibblescholar OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Just off in my opinion! Winks for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anything applies say in profile can only meet Fri /Sat night or an advertised meet or looking for !!!

Let's be honest guys most that send winks ( us included ) it's the best , quickest and honest way of saying .. Hi were looking for fun but your profile is probably fake so Can't be arsed ,but if were wrong then happy days or your loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get so many winks I hardly check them-I'd much prefer a message saying hi.

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By *ibblescholar OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Mixed answers from everyone but no one thinking it creepy! This is good news! Cheers folks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wink all the time on here, but not sure we should wink at people in swingers club to show our interest too, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahahaha great!

"I don't wink.... or pay any attention to winks on here.

I don't think it's creepy, it's just something I don't use on here.

Now, if people were to wander around winking at people on the street as much as they wink on here.... That would ve creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking is cool I think. Though I'd love to be able to do it in person. I can't. I look like I'm having some sort of alergic reaction when I try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as creepy as looking through someone's window

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recently started winking. With some good results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use winks frequently, so I hope its not looked upon as creepy

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By *ibblescholar OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Again thank you for all joining in. I think I must just give out creepy winks!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

If its a one of no not creepy but day after day is definatly creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see how they could be considered creepy

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