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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people think you want to just accept friends invites from someone you've never even exchanged a message to ?

I'd never send an invite to someone without chatting and even then it's rare I do . If I was to I'd most definitely ask first of all .

Never ceases to amaze me how many random ones I get in a day and it's a bug bearer for me as stated on my profile !!!

Sorry , rant over !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your sexy profile, gets guys tails wagging , we are only dumb animals after all

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Why do people think you want to just accept friends invites from someone you've never even exchanged a message to ?

I'd never send an invite to someone without chatting and even then it's rare I do . If I was to I'd most definitely ask first of all .

Never ceases to amaze me how many random ones I get in a day and it's a bug bearer for me as stated on my profile !!!

Sorry , rant over !!! "

Drives me nuts too Shelley. I do sometimes accept to peek at the pics though lol.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Wait till offline ....take a peek then delete haha ....

Even more weird when they send you a friends request when you have no private pics lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Had a wink and a friends request from a couple last week, never heard of them before.

But.........on their profile? Words to the effect, " people who send a friend request without first chatting, will be blocked"!!! They also had on their profile that they weren't interested in straight guys. Ehhhhhh.........I'm very straight!

You couldn't make it up!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Had a wink and a friends request from a couple last week, never heard of them before.

But.........on their profile? Words to the effect, " people who send a friend request without first chatting, will be blocked"!!! They also had on their profile that they weren't interested in straight guys. Ehhhhhh.........I'm very straight!

You couldn't make it up! "

Lol!

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"Why do people think you want to just accept friends invites from someone you've never even exchanged a message to ?

I'd never send an invite to someone without chatting and even then it's rare I do . If I was to I'd most definitely ask first of all .

Never ceases to amaze me how many random ones I get in a day and it's a bug bearer for me as stated on my profile !!!

Sorry , rant over !!!

Drives me nuts too Shelley. I do sometimes accept to peek at the pics though lol. "

Snap!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just think to myself " yeah because I've never met you or spoke to you ,why wouldn't I be happy to let you _iew my 150 pics "

I might start doing that though and having a peek when they are offline then delete them lol .

And bothy that's another one isn't it when they say don't add us unless we've chatted . The mind boggles tbh

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Never sent an off the cuff request, always msg first n usually chat for a few days before ASKING if I can send a friends request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never send random friend requests and if we get them just delete straight away!

We generally only have ppl on our friends list we have already met privately or socially!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to be worse atm. Getting a few every day from people that don't even message to say hello. I just don't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads too. I'm not sure why. I do the wait and look then delete thing though lol. They're clearly adding so they can have a peek so why shouldn't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be a nightmare for the females on here.

I have one friend (aww!) and only sent the request after days of chatting.

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Had a wink and a friends request from a couple last week, never heard of them before.

But.........on their profile? Words to the effect, " people who send a friend request without first chatting, will be blocked"!!! They also had on their profile that they weren't interested in straight guys. Ehhhhhh.........I'm very straight!

You couldn't make it up! "

Same happened to me, some men are rude. Some couples think that single men are desperate and have all rights. That must be annoying I can understand. Click delete button is an easy fix people get over it no harm done...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I save mine up for when I'm bored and want to perv. I have 24 new requests in the past few days I haven't even looked to see who they. It's kinda annoying though cos I might miss a request from someone I've actually been chatting to, then again I'd expect them to mention if they'd sent one.

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By *rmagiteMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I tend to only send a request after chatting or meeting at a social. And then only after I send a message saying hi again and the requesting one.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Wait till offline ....take a peek then delete haha ....

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this lol not that i get many friends requests but if i do i do this all the time ...unless she is a hottie

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"And bothy that's another one isn't it when they say don't add us unless we've chatted . The mind boggles tbh

"

Does make you wonder Shelley, but all part of the rich panoply of Fab!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think you want to just accept friends invites from someone you've never even exchanged a message to ?

I'd never send an invite to someone without chatting and even then it's rare I do . If I was to I'd most definitely ask first of all .

Never ceases to amaze me how many random ones I get in a day and it's a bug bearer for me as stated on my profile !!!

Sorry , rant over !!! "

Can I send you a friends request Shelley

lol I'm in my mischief mode

Parsley Gent x

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By *rShinyKnickersMan
over a year ago

BARRY

I'd LOVE random friend requests..lol...*whistles*

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

All my random friends requests are from straight males lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez there a lot of grunters on here.

I'd be chuffed if someone asked to be friends. All u have to is ignore it. Omg I'm a grunter now. I know it's ment to be a forum for anything . But happy thoughts guys. Smile.

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC

Don't think I've added someone without asking them yet had a few random but mostly off males haha

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't send or accept any...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just leave them and see how many I can get. I'm at 57 just now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just leave them and see how many I can get. I'm at 57 just now.

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make it 58

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just leave them and see how many I can get. I'm at 57 just now.

make it 58"

Thanks. It's all going to a good cause

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people think you want to just accept friends invites from someone you've never even exchanged a message to ?

I'd never send an invite to someone without chatting and even then it's rare I do . If I was to I'd most definitely ask first of all .

Never ceases to amaze me how many random ones I get in a day and it's a bug bearer for me as stated on my profile !!!

Sorry , rant over !!!

Can I send you a friends request Shelley

lol I'm in my mischief mode

Parsley Gent x"
haha we're already friends Mr lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jeez there a lot of grunters on here.

I'd be chuffed if someone asked to be friends. All u have to is ignore it. Omg I'm a grunter now. I know it's ment to be a forum for anything . But happy thoughts guys. Smile. "

I'm more of a moaner than a grunter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I save mine up for when I'm bored and want to perv. I have 24 new requests in the past few days I haven't even looked to see who they. It's kinda annoying though cos I might miss a request from someone I've actually been chatting to, then again I'd expect them to mention if they'd sent one. "
haha I've deleted them all so might try that next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I save mine up for when I'm bored and want to perv. I have 24 new requests in the past few days I haven't even looked to see who they. It's kinda annoying though cos I might miss a request from someone I've actually been chatting to, then again I'd expect them to mention if they'd sent one. "

Just seen your post. I find it annoying when you have to accept a friends request and have to start from zero again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just leave them and see how many I can get. I'm at 57 just now.

make it 58

Thanks. It's all going to a good cause "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jeez there a lot of grunters on here.

I'd be chuffed if someone asked to be friends. All u have to is ignore it. Omg I'm a grunter now. I know it's ment to be a forum for anything . But happy thoughts guys. Smile.

I'm more of a moaner than a grunter "
lol I was being polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it from couples that look quite good, accepted and messaged, left plenty of time for a reply to come- just to be ignored, believe it or not us guys have the delete and block option too

I'd describe you more as a moaner verging on screamer Shelley

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I can't decide between deleting the random invites or just leaving them there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had it from couples that look quite good, accepted and messaged, left plenty of time for a reply to come- just to be ignored, believe it or not us guys have the delete and block option too

I'd describe you more as a moaner verging on screamer Shelley "

Dunno what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive a fair few random requests sitting there . but if you leave them and dont delete then they cant resend for 30 days .

so leave them where they are saves them sending them.every day

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"ive a fair few random requests sitting there . but if you leave them and dont delete then they cant resend for 30 days .

so leave them where they are saves them sending them.every day "

^^^ this

Apart from when I'm bored and sometimes I'll accept while they're offline, have a look at their friends pics and delete them again.

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I tend to only send a request after chatting or meeting at a social. And then only after I send a message saying hi again and the requesting one."

there aren't that many of us polite ones around lol!

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