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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there people who prefer soft play to full swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, the "chase" is better than the catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my hubby and I prefer it

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By *inkyHnSCouple
over a year ago

The Council of Elrond

We prefer it as we arent gonna rush into full swing until we feel ready and has to be with a couple we have got to know well and trust over time

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my hubby and I prefer it "

Sometimes it's a lot more fun I will agree

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was me expecting a post about foam filled play and climbing frames!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft is ok to a point, but personally we prefer full swap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my hubby and I prefer it

Sometimes it's a lot more fun I will agree

John "

It can be a huge turn on when you know you can't go further and there is more foreplay

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Soft is ok to a point, but personally we prefer full swap! "

Us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my hubby and I prefer it

Sometimes it's a lot more fun I will agree

John

It can be a huge turn on when you know you can't go further and there is more foreplay "

Yup and then having your wicked way with your own partner it can be more thrilling then full swap but again depends who the other couple is

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there people who prefer soft play to full swap"

Love soft play scenarios, used to see a lady and thats all we ever did. No penetration, just touching and teasing and playing to orgasm.....sooo erotic

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By *dicplCouple
over a year ago

Fife

We like both tbh xx

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By *hickensCouple
over a year ago

Inverness-ish

It generally means loads more foreplay, flirting which we both enjoy, than knowing you're going to be having full sex and simply rushing to that moment.

Hands exploring, watching, being watched, arousing others and being aroused... All such wonderful feeling.

Yes please to soft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soft is ok to a point, but personally we prefer full swap! "

nothing wrong if all parties are in agreement and there's the chemistry.

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I love the anticipation leading up to a meet or a party. Choosing the naughty underwear, the dress, the shoes, the make-up and the fragrance. The first glance that sets the scene. The flirt, the chase, the hook. The languid foreplay, slow sensual seduction, watching my husband take another woman to a state of erotic pleasure. Being driven to the edge of reason at the hands of another ---- and stop there !!!!!!!!!! Not a ghost of a chance. I am just a wee bit greedy. As the song says " I want it all" Love N Lust xxx

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By *oftfocusMan
over a year ago

EDINBURGH

I prefer softswing:more sensual and far less "performance " anxiety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found the build up to be far more exciting than the deed. In fact, I've only orgasmed a few times on meets where we've had full sex. Feel more and more drawn to soft swing.

Mrs H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was me expecting a post about foam filled play and climbing frames! "

Lol! Me too!

I want a ball pit!

To be serious we do both but prefer full swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was me expecting a post about foam filled play and climbing frames! "
hahahaha brill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to tease.

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By *un be happyCouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I love the anticipation leading up to a meet or a party. Choosing the naughty underwear, the dress, the shoes, the make-up and the fragrance. The first glance that sets the scene. The flirt, the chase, the hook. The languid foreplay, slow sensual seduction, watching my husband take another woman to a state of erotic pleasure. Being driven to the edge of reason at the hands of another ---- and stop there !!!!!!!!!! Not a ghost of a chance. I am just a wee bit greedy. As the song says " I want it all" Love N Lust xxx "
................just as you have said doooo really prefare full swap . .mmmm. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer it. It's good to keep something back in reserve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the anticipation leading up to a meet or a party. Choosing the naughty underwear, the dress, the shoes, the make-up and the fragrance. The first glance that sets the scene. The flirt, the chase, the hook. The languid foreplay, slow sensual seduction, watching my husband take another woman to a state of erotic pleasure. Being driven to the edge of reason at the hands of another ---- and stop there !!!!!!!!!! Not a ghost of a chance. I am just a wee bit greedy. As the song says " I want it all" Love N Lust xxx "

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

ah, the chase and anticipation is most fun

the build up and sexual tension can be mind-blowing

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

We much prefer soft swap too.

Makes for a hot night when we get home

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By *llyandjimCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

soft swing is our thing. I am very bi and love to play with the girls. Lots and lots ov oral and lots and lots ov foreplay. Really turns me on Then sex with my man mmm yes thats defo for me he he

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Think my problem would be once the play begins, I'd always want it to lead to more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"soft swing is our thing. I am very bi and love to play with the girls. Lots and lots ov oral and lots and lots ov foreplay. Really turns me on Then sex with my man mmm yes thats defo for me he he"

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By *wisted and kinkyCouple
over a year ago

Livingston

We prefer soft play for a first meet , then full after that , we think it reduces the nerves and everyone relaxes more xx

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By *cotsmacCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

mmmmmmmmmjust reading those msgs is making me sooooo horned lol, love the soft play and all the way but got to be the right ppl

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Cant be doing with the soft play ...its like taking a kiddie to toys r us for their birthday getting them to pick their fave toys then saying no you cant have anything just look

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Have also noticed that the definitionn of soft swing seems to differ for individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own. But soft skin and a tease never hurt anyone it can get me going every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done, and enjoyed both.

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By *e_frenchMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Could someone define soft play, I believe there are limits compare to full swap.

I m french, some explanations would be appreciated, cheers

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Never tried soft ....just never happened

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By *llyandjimCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Could someone define soft play, I believe there are limits compare to full swap.

I m french, some explanations would be appreciated, cheers "

For us soft swing is oral touching all play between the cpls just no cocks up fannys of the opposite party lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind either. Just depends on who you with but sometimes it cant be helped and it turns out for the best. Ginger doll

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