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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you feel comfortable meeting with a guy for fun etc if he hasn't been verified by an actual meet?

I did once and it didn't end particularly nice so now I dont meet anyone whos not already met. I seem to get a bit of shit because of my choice. Anyone else the same? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as a single female you should always feel safe & secure at a meet. if meeting someone who's unverified is not for you no one should make you feel bad.

Saying that I don't think anyone should do anything that makes them uncomfortable or not feel safe.

Just do what suits you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done once or twice but only turned out for social I never met them for fun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think as a single female you should always feel safe & secure at a meet. if meeting someone who's unverified is not for you no one should make you feel bad.

Saying that I don't think anyone should do anything that makes them uncomfortable or not feel safe.

Just do what suits you

Dx"

Yeah that's what I thought. Not being a bitch just wanna enjoy feel safe x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have done once or twice but only turned out for social I never met them for fun xx

Aye but they wouldn't argue with you mad woman lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done once or twice but only turned out for social I never met them for fun xx

Aye but they wouldn't argue with you mad woman lol xx"

You taught me well

lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have done once or twice but only turned out for social I never met them for fun xx

Aye but they wouldn't argue with you mad woman lol xx

You taught me well

lol xx"

Aye very good missy. Im the quiet one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in the past...everyone has to start somewhere and its tough for guys. I never had a problem. Some of the verified ones weren't so great actually. Everyone has a different perspective I guess. Its all in the getting to know....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have in the past...everyone has to start somewhere and its tough for guys. I never had a problem. Some of the verified ones weren't so great actually. Everyone has a different perspective I guess. Its all in the getting to know....

Thats where I feel bad because everyone does need to start somewhere x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Would you feel comfortable meeting with a guy for fun etc if he hasn't been verified by an actual meet?

I did once and it didn't end particularly nice so now I dont meet anyone whos not already met. I seem to get a bit of shit because of my choice. Anyone else the same? X"
woudlnt hesitate to meet someone whos unverified we all had to start somewhere .

id just take maybe a bit more time getting to know them before arranging a meet .

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire, Glasgow

Surely having a social meet first would sort most of any potential future problems?

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire, Glasgow

Oops sorry, I'm not a female, but then, us men can help you women with so many of your problems!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oops sorry, I'm not a female, but then, us men can help you women with so many of your problems!

Nah make more of them but hey thats my opinion

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

If it's both of us meeting a guy for MMF, then we're not too bothered if they're unverified as we all have to start somewhere.

But myself alone, I will always meet guys for a social first, verified or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd never meet anyone who hadn't been verified by a meet. Just a rule we have!

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