FabSwingers.com forum: How do you get yours?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry if this has already been done

Another thread got me thinking...

How do you get your meets on here?

Do you browse profiles then wink or message?

Do you wait until someone messages you?

Do you just put meet today up and see what happens or another way?

Do you meet folk from the forum that catches your eye or socials or chat room?

Auds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if this has already been done

Another thread got me thinking...

How do you get your meets on here?

Do you browse profiles then wink or message?

Do you wait until someone messages you?

Do you just put meet today up and see what happens or another way?

Do you meet folk from the forum that catches your eye or socials or chat room?

Auds x"

If a profile catches our eye we will wink. If they wink back we will message. Things usually progress from there. Normally a social meet will follow from chatting & then if we all click we'll meet again for some fun!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Sorry if this has already been done

Another thread got me thinking...

How do you get your meets on here?

Do you browse profiles then wink or message?

Do you wait until someone messages you?

Do you just put meet today up and see what happens or another way?

Do you meet folk from the forum that catches your eye or socials or chat room?

Auds x"
If I like the look of someone il wink or message .

I have also put a meet add up but never met through that way yet .

I have also had fun from meeting people at socials .

Ive never met anyone yet from the forums usually its been from seeing them on forums then meeting at socials then on to meets, however id never rule out chatting to someone on the forums then meeting them .

so a pretty mixed bag for me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When we 1st started we used to do social meets before a play meet

Now we have not alot of free time together so we do all our chatting on here then meet for a play meet lol

Plus been on social meets that cpls are just looking for a night out lol

We have real mates for that lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"When we 1st started we used to do social meets before a play meet

Now we have not alot of free time together so we do all our chatting on here then meet for a play meet lol

Plus been on social meets that cpls are just looking for a night out lol

We have real mates for that lol "
I used to always do a social meet then a play meet at later date too but more recently with time against us if there is a connection at a social

meet and we're both up for it we just do the whole social/play meet on the same day xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We have met a few guys for MFM by putting a last minute meet up.

I've met a few guys alone by chatting a while and then having a social, then a play meet.

Couples wise, it usually a wink and if they wink back we send a message and get chatting. Then a social, if we all get on and want to play then we will, or we organise a later date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly wait on someone mailing me

I've learned that meeting

socially first is better profile pics can very deceiving sometimes on both parts

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have only ever met through clubs, forums, chatroom & socials, I have never sent a message for a meet the whole time I have been on here.

nor would I.

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By *ason999Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Don't do meets

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Either by sending someone a message or them messaging us. Then we take things on from there and if it all goes well we arrange a meet. Haven't met any other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never post for a meet,generally meet someone for a social after chatting for a wee while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I browse and read profile...and decide whether or not to contact by message...no winks. Then chat get a feel for them and there after , if there is an attraction, usually arrange a social meet,

Have also been to socials where new people are befriended through face to face chats...then there are sometime good things that come out of that...

Never use the meeting today function...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance my mitt and send a message and be cheeky as hell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a winker usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually do a combination of all your above suggestions Janda, but usually if someone has taken the time to read my profile and message me coherently that's the favoured method. If someone understands me enough to want to message then that's a huge hurdle overcome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think we have done everything lol

Used the meet today

Have met folk at socials or chatted with folk in the chat room or winked

Now... Not so much lol

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've been known to wink, but usually it's someone I've got talking to via the forum or at a social. It's nice to get to know someone before anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been known to wink, but usually it's someone I've got talking to via the forum or at a social. It's nice to get to know someone before anything else

Furry you winker! Lol!

We have used the meet today system, we go to socials to see if anyone catches our eye there too. This is usually a good gauge as people are relaxed and you can see them at their best and worst. Then once we have looked we send a wink if we would like to meet them.

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

I've tried all of those n nowt,guess I'm just bog ugly,fat n goofy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if this has already been done

Another thread got me thinking...

How do you get your meets on here?

Do you browse profiles then wink or message?

Do you wait until someone messages you?

Do you just put meet today up and see what happens or another way?

Do you meet folk from the forum that catches your eye or socials or chat room?

Auds x"

We've tried a few things, it's mostly down to (or restricted by) the amount of time we have together and having no warning of when that will be due to work.

If we def know we have time together & babysitters sorted prefer either social, club or play meet (with someone we already know or have spoken to for a bit).

For a few of the last minute nights together we've had we have put up meets.

Planning ahead isn't always a luxury we have these days it's more of a fly by the seat of your pants & see what happens type approach these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if this has already been done

Another thread got me thinking...

How do you get your meets on here?

Do you browse profiles then wink or message?

Do you wait until someone messages you?

Do you just put meet today up and see what happens or another way?

Do you meet folk from the forum that catches your eye or socials or chat room?

Auds x

We've tried a few things, it's mostly down to (or restricted by) the amount of time we have together and having no warning of when that will be due to work.

If we def know we have time together & babysitters sorted prefer either social, club or play meet (with someone we already know or have spoken to for a bit).

For a few of the last minute nights together we've had we have put up meets.

Planning ahead isn't always a luxury we have these days it's more of a fly by the seat of your pants & see what happens type approach these days!

Dx"

Sorry waffled but didn't answer the question:

We sometimes wink, message, browse, reply to messages we get, meet people at parties/large socials or put meets up, all seem to have worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these "meets" of which you speak?

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv got a lot to learn. Or I'm just pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95% probably through socials now. Occasionally via forums , cjs or a party. Couldn't tell you last time I met anyone that initiated from a message or meet on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Going by the comments

It looks like the majority organise their meets through socials now and very few with starting off with a random message

So maybe if any newbies should take note and really do get along to a social

Auds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going by the comments

It looks like the majority organise their meets through socials now and very few with starting off with a random message

So maybe if any newbies should take note and really do get along to a social

Auds x"

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