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TV`s Growing In Popularity With "Str8" Men & Cpls

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By *ingleGlasgowGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Strathclyde

Noticed a BIG increase in the amount of Tv`s on site from Scotland,so are we getting more open as a society on accepting others or still scared to admit to ourselves as men or cpls we find a lot of them very sexy and will only meet them cloak n dagger style?

If the latter why?

Do you tick will meet Tv`s box on profile?

I have met with a lot of "girls" at social events as part of a cpl and find most of them to be really lovely people,so i`m never ashamed to admit to being a friend to them and also finding them attractive,so lets see how many posts we get back on this subject! lol

best not to hold my breath i think as most guys on here be it single or part of a cpl will NOT admit it openly,so i think Tv`s (the real ones not the ones who pretend they like to dress when all along its a sham to meet cpls)should be a bit more selective in who they meet as why meet someone whos ashamed to say they met you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not ashamed to "fess up" to admiring and meeting a couple of TV's. My particular interest is stockings and legs, so TV's really do it for me, and in my experience they try hard to "dress to impress". Don't knock it 'til you've tried it, I say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an eye for and an appreciation for all things beautifull and i like to think i'm, or try to be politicaly correct with most things,therefore i would never refer to people as "them".

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly get mail from guys looking to meet ,who's profile declares them straight. I also have a fair number of verifications on my own, but that is only a fraction of my meets since joining this site. I have been shagged by loads of guys here(as has my partner Kirsty at our parties) who wont admit under any circumstances they are into trannies, and wont give verification. Perhaps they worry that somehow they will be labelled perverts? Personally I dont have a problem with it, I get what I need and would never "out" anyone, but their denial does amuse me.

As for tgirls being more popular than ever? Oh yes , we certainly are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think alot of men are just scared to admit that they like TVs....like Wendy says, they will have their fun but not verify!!! In this day an age, provided its legal, noone should be ashamed of their sexual preference!!!!

TV's dont do it for me personally BUT DAMN some look HOT HOT HOT!!!!! lol

Cath xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are right Cath, it is fear , they worry what others will think of them. Maybe they worry that they wont be able to pull sexy real girls like you if they admit to mounting tgirls? .

Now, we meet all types of guys, but can say with some certainty that the average tranny shagger is middle aged and married. They often have something to hide anyway (not their age.) They have a need for discretion, and that in itself attracts them to tgirls in the first place. Tgirls tend to be non or certainly less selective than real girls. So if your a fat balding middle aged guy (yes guys I admit not in every case) feeling very horny , do you chase real girls where you possibly get rejected or do you take the easier option and shag the sexually submissive non selective tranny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL@Wendy..........

You have a fair point there! The discretion for married men is understandable....If they require that discretion I assume they have gone to trouble to hide who they are on here anyway??...So still no reason to deny and not to verify!!!

I do however believe you are spot on with them taking the "easier option"!!

And as you said, the men in question tend to be "middle aged"...so maybe admitting their sexual preference is just harder for them than it would be for younger men who have grown up in a society where being bi/gay is nothing to be ashamed of!

I have far more respect for the men on here who are open about their sexuality than those who choose to hide from it!!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never really though about tvs other than those you watch but lately my eye has bn wandering i mean u look at some profiles on here and a few look like men in drag (sori just my opinion)but hey thats not tvs im talking about either .No one should be slatted for their sexuallity years ago it was looked down on but its through choice and we all have the right to be who WE WANT TO BE xxxx

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By *ountrypairCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

the tv,s we have met on fab have been great company and got to say b4 fab we never had much involvement.

i hope as a society we are becoming more open and accepting for differing lifestyles, a mean were swingers ffs and we dont have 2 heads lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Wendy though these days Im very choosey. There is a huge range from those who just like to dress to those who are fully female in wrong body. Im in between-androygne I think-i can be m or f inside not just outside. Dont know if more accepted but I've always found folk on fab to be lovely accepting and good people-and some m and f are such fun in bed too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interestingly, tgirls find it easier to be accepted in predominately straight sites like this than in gay sites. This anomoly is mirrored off the web as well. In all the years I have gone out dressed (since my teens) any hassle has been from "in your face" gays and lesbians never from straight people . In fact most people Kirsty and I come across, go out of their way to be nice, which is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had similar experiences. few shouts from cars when out-usually sometghing like'freak' but more wolf whistles and compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a 46" TV I admire every night

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By *ingleGlasgowGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Strathclyde


"In all the years I have gone out dressed (since my teens) any hassle has been from "in your face" gays and lesbians never from straight people"

This is a very interesting point Wendy and one which fascinates me as i cant understand how folk who have suffered prejudice as a group e.g gay les etc can be so intolerant of others.

Seems to me T-girls are grudgingly allowed to frequent Gay places e.g Bennetts,Polo lounge,The Lane,Ambassadors Rainbow etc because a gay place cannot be seen to discriminate of all places.

You girls should have your own places to go as not all girls like to turn up dressed etc,so about time places in Scotland catered for just T-Girls and true admirers.

Btw Wendy you are a legend and we have met before socially when you were with Wendy and i was part of a couple,(remember i didnt have a clue who you were at breakfast in Hotel till i saw Kirsty!)so you know i`m a genuine admirer

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By *ingleGlasgowGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Strathclyde

When Wendy was with Kirsty i meant not Wendy with Wendylol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personaly myself If a guy will not admit to being with TV/TS I wont meet them cos I do not want a friend who feels ashamed to say they know me never mind being with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quote...

"You girls should have your own places to go as not all girls like to turn up dressed etc,so about time places in Scotland catered for just T-Girls and true admirers."

I am not sure there are enough tvs who go out in Scotland to make a place like that commercially viable. It is different south of the border, in London, Manchester even Leeds where all types of "tranny clubs" have sprung up. Some are complete knocking shops with side room where guys take tvs for sex on the premises . Most though are much more genteel. For the less experienced tgirls Manchester is the safest Mecca with streets of tv friendly clubs and pubs. Although Kirsty and I go out to all types of places we are as likely to be found doing our own thing in straight or gay clubs rather than always hang out with other trannies. Maybe we are a tranny snobs?

As for a place where tgirls and admirers hang out , well there is a well known one with no cover charge and admirers are always gauranteed to pull. It is just outside Perth....my house, where Kirsty and I do our best to satisfy as many admirers as possible at our regular parties. A fair number of this sites members have shagged us there recently though most have kept quiet about it. We dont complain, just lie back and enjoy it.

Hardly a legend, just notorious in tranny circles. Yes, I remember exactly who you are now. Despite the fact we all had raging hangovers that morning!

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By *ingleGlasgowGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Strathclyde


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Yes, I remember exactly who you are now. Despite the fact we all had raging hangovers that morning! "

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By *inkyCJWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

TV's are always welcome at CJ's parties and many attend regularly. I also hold TV & admirer nights once a month for those who do not wish to attend regular nights. For many years tv's only met in private and very rarely went out in public but over the last year I have found that this is changing and more are willing to come out the closet and I am regularly seen around town with quite a few. xx javascript:doSmilie('%20')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooops CJ that kind off reads as if only the shy retiring type of closet tranny attends your functions

Kirsty and I have been keen to get along to one of your parties for ages, just timing has not been right, but will make one of them soon I promise.

That is if you will let us back over your door step?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my penarth worth - I agree that T-girls (ie crossdressers/transvestite/pre-op transexuals and post-op transexuals) find it easier and safer in straight circles.

I think its because - for me at least - when I'm Craig (male) I'm as straight as a yardstick and would only meet ladies or perhaps couplesa lthough I will admit to bi-curisity. However, when I'm Cara, I'm a sub-bi girl. Only way I can explain is that each of us (Craig & Cara) had different persons.

As to gus saying they are straight, I often joke that half the guys are bi and the other half are in denial. Please dont take offence. Seriously though, I've noticed far more bi-fems than bi-males on FAB. Why is that?

I think its down to social conditioning and perhaps attitudes to anal.

I mean girl-on-girl or MFF would be every straight guy's dream and is widely accepted. Why? Well the girl is only doing to the other girl what the guy already does - so thats ok. Saucer for the gander is ok as sauce for the goose.

But guy on guy/TV? Or MMF? Or MTVF? Well its only girls that suck cock so I'm not doing it. And well guys can only fuck analy - no way any cock is going up my dirtpipe. Hence the denial.

Sexual preference is on a scale - there will always be 100% straight and 100% gay/lesbian - and the straight and gay/lesbian community see it that way - black or white. The bi is of course in the middle - say from 30% - 70% and I think a lot of straights are actually in the bi range but would deny that for the fear of being outed or called a poof or some other derogatory term.

And I think that bi range of 30% - 70% is where many married guys are which is possible why many on this site say they are straight but as time passes bi & tv becomes more acceptable in the community.

Finally to pick up on the drag queen comment, I do agree. I dont like labels but crossdressers are guys who simply wear the clothing whereas transvestites tend to make the effort with makeup wigs etc.

hope this all makes sense

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By *manda_EdinTVTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Hi all...interesting postings here..in my experience ive had loads of lads from this and mainly they define themselves as " straight" and love us

" girls"...i just play along with this charade lol...

these guys obviously are struggling to accept their bi sexuality or even gay sexuality..it can be a lifetime struggle.. i dont mind if they still maintain they are straight etc but i dont like guys who have homophobic stuff on their profiles or no " guys" please but ill do tvs lol...

sad really...glad to see other tv gals are geting as much as i do...yeah i can see me gettn shagged till im in my grave at 90 plus at this rate ..

take care amanda

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By *manda_EdinTVTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

sorry have to say that not all us tvs like middle aged married men wendy ! lol..im more into the fit younger lads..but to each his own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a TV?

Kirsty

xxx xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TV...Big thing that sits in corner of living room...I never touch it...I just stare at it with glazed look in my eye!

Tranny....Little thing that sits on top of my microwave....I fiddle with the knob now and then until it sings to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I actually said was and I quote...

"Now, we meet all types of guys, but can say with some certainty that the average tranny shagger is middle aged and married"

I therefore did not say that was our preference.

I am of course being pedantic but I prefer people to understand what I am saying.

Of course perhaps Kirsty and I dont have your pulling power in attracting anything other than the norm.

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow


"sorry have to say that not all us tvs like middle aged married men wendy ! lol..im more into the fit younger lads..but to each his own "

Isn't your last verification from a 48 year old guy???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He he , well spotted x

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