FabSwingers.com forum: Stronger or weaker

By *ason999 OP Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Does swinging, in fact, make for happier marriages, does it do so by allowing people to ignore problems in their marriage. It takes the work out of keeping a long-term relationship exciting, and I’m not just talking about sex. Anything you do over and over again for a long time can become dull. Since being married is more or less exactly that, does it take work to keep romance alive. For the sake of argument, however, let’s assume that swinging makes marriages better. You get the opportunity to act on sexual fantasies instead of repressing them, and then go back to the business of working on a healthy relationship. That sounds great on paper .But does it work in real life , what do couples think on here ?????Are use stronger swinging

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Long term relationships aint exciting your there because you love each other sex can be something enjoyed with more than one person troubles are troubles its how as a cpl you deal with them nothing to do with swinging imo

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

On the surface many seem happy but the vast majority of couples we have played with have had some issues and it's been very awkward ....

Also seen many split over the years.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Does swinging, in fact, make for happier marriages, does it do so by allowing people to ignore problems in their marriage. It takes the work out of keeping a long-term relationship exciting, and I’m not just talking about sex. Anything you do over and over again for a long time can become dull. Since being married is more or less exactly that, does it take work to keep romance alive. For the sake of argument, however, let’s assume that swinging makes marriages better. You get the opportunity to act on sexual fantasies instead of repressing them, and then go back to the business of working on a healthy relationship. That sounds great on paper .But does it work in real life , what do couples think on here ?????Are use stronger swinging

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Like everything in life you need to work at it.

communication is the main key to make things work .

If you break your leg you go to hospital and have it fixed .

If you have a broken marriage you dont just give up on it you try your damndest to make it work .

Does swinging help that situation ?yes sometimes it does and for others it completely destroys what was already fractured by masking the pretence of happiness .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have problems

Swinging is the last thing you should do

Being together a very long time of course you have to work at keeping things fresh

Unfortunately a lot don't

Unfortunately a lot are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are fairly certain that if your marriage is struggling then swinging is not for you. You have to be very strong in your marriage. But also you have to think if your partner or you start to enjoy it too much! Or that you start to enjoy one person too much, not sure how we would deal with that. Not happened to us as only done it once but lots of things have been discussed before we joined this life style. We are hopefully that this will just add a little extra to what we already have.

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