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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I tend not to disclose my place of work on here but it seems others who know where people work for some reason have told people on forums places in town some singers work. I personally don't think this is acceptable just looking for thoughts??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's absolutely shocking someone can betray anyone's trust especially when people like to remain discreet when playing... Lesson learnt here is never disclose anything you don't want others knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be quite frank I'd hate for anyone on here to know where I work. It's very rare I tell someone. If I do I'm entrusting a lot of faith in them. I wouldn't expect anyone to say where anyone else works

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I agree with you both I have only told 2 people where I work and tbh one knew already as I knew him so I'm. Confused as to why they would know. My only other thought is this person is someone in a job where they would easily know and is passing info out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no benefit in passing on that sort of info. Discretion from the vanilla world is key for me

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I think it's absolutely shocking someone can betray anyone's trust especially when people like to remain discreet when playing... Lesson learnt here is never disclose anything you don't want others knowing. "
^^^^ This

After an incident regarding my own private life id say trust no one but yourself with any kind of information .

Always remember those so called friends who smile at you aint always your friends but people who would stab you in the back as quick as look at you

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Wouldn't disclose where we work but your OP is kinda specific about where singers work. Are you saying that you are a singer and someone has told people about your place of work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After past experiences and still going through issues with someone I don't tell anyone about where I work or live for that matter. I tend to meet people near where I stay so they don't know the exact address. It's pathetic how stalker like some people become especially when they've never met you..

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

A while ago a guy was chatting to me and said he recognised me and mentioned where I work. He was correct but I didn't confirm that, and I certainly didn't recognise him.

He was also using a fake couple profile and had been talking to Mr about a meet. When I told Mr the female didn't exist, he stopped replying.

A little later the couple profile posted our username and said where I worked in their status. Needless to say I reported and blocked, the couple profile was removed.

But the status was up for at least half an hour, anyone looking at local updates would have seen it.

I've never told anyone where I work or live, and never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't disclose where we work but your OP is kinda specific about where singers work. Are you saying that you are a singer and someone has told people about your place of work?"

I kinda thought that myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have really issues about there real names. Where the work etc. Personally iv nothing to hide when did enjoying sex become a crime. I understand in certain jobs been descret is important. Think there need to be a bit of trust especially if you meet someone regular. Mabe I'm to trusting ??:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in Edinburgh and work for myself...next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't disclose this kind of info because of my job. Even with guys I have regular fun with I don't disclose not because I don't trust them but to ensure that should things turn sour or someone chucks the toys out the pram and gets jel of another meet then they can't hold anything like that against me which means I can be stress free whilst being naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said.

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By *ustincase1888Man
over a year ago

everywhere


"Some people have really issues about there real names. Where the work etc. Personally iv nothing to hide when did enjoying sex become a crime. I understand in certain jobs been descret is important. Think there need to be a bit of trust especially if you meet someone regular. Mabe I'm to trusting

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I think im the opposite as i don't like people knowing anything about me as there is no need.if you were to meet someone on a night out you wouldn't know so no need to advertise it on here.you tell people what you like sexually so i might be nieve but that's what we are here for, friendships are made on meeting and then its your choice to tell then x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's mistype should say swinger not singer dam predictive thanks for opinions

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it doesn't surprise me one little bit, some people can't hold their own water...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask anyone where they work, just roughly what kind of industry do they work in, I f they wish to tell me more or nothing at all I respect their privacy.

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

I'm wondering how you manage to have conversations without disclosing any private details - nowadays given a bit of basic data most people could find out a huge amount about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of people have seen me at work from fab. But have never ever disclosed it. But respect me in the job I do & would never interupt me at work

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I'm wondering how you manage to have conversations without disclosing any private details - nowadays given a bit of basic data most people could find out a huge amount about you"

It is easy. You just stay private about your private life and don't ask any questions of anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon the person who posts below me here works in the Tunnocks Teacake factory and sneaks out some in their bra (change to pants if man)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thousands of them...it gets messy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont ask how to smuggle out caramel wafers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is the most important attribute members should share.... if not - SCUM!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is the most important attribute members should share.... if not - SCUM!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont ask how to smuggle out caramel wafers "

I think we can see Bino! You've got a ten pack in there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never give this information to someone I don't really know, you never know where it would lead, if anyone betrayed my trust I would not be a happy bunny

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