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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thoughts please?

And no it would not be free Guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this not the same idea as the one where lots of folk got ripped off a few weeks ago?if it involves sending lots of money beforehand id be very wary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just in thought at the minute looking at a block of Apartments tonight in center of Edinburgh and possibly a Mansion house.

Very genuine and no it would not be advertised here really just looking for thoughts before we get into it.

So no we are not out to rip anyone off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be interested for definite xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more options in Scotland the better, gives people more choice.

Suppose it depends on how "elite" it is as to if we'd get in or not lol.

Something new and different is always good.

D x

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By *ighlandballsMan
over a year ago

perth

Yes sounds good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We do know some of these elite parties can be biased on size, looks and even age we would not be.

how does that sound?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just in thought at the minute looking at a block of Apartments tonight in center of Edinburgh and possibly a Mansion house.

Very genuine and no it would not be advertised here really just looking for thoughts before we get into it.

So no we are not out to rip anyone off! "
many apologies i read that wrong and thought you had been invited to a party you were having to pay for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do know some of these elite parties can be biased on size, looks and even age we would not be.

how does that sound?"

Sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested in this a lot, sounds exactly my kind of evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I would definitely be up for this keep me posted x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Just the "elite" is enough to put me off

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

What is the difference between a sex party and an elite sex party?

This isn't a sarcastic comment, just a genuine enquiry.

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By *ar23tMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think its a great idea,i know these people and there very genuine

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

ELite :a select group that is superior in terms of ability or qualities to the rest of a group or society.

In other words not posh people i think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means NAE scum...but elite sounds better.....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Good luck with it all anyway ops as im sure there are many would love an invite

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I don't think I'd make the list of an elite party, don't you have to look like a supermodel?

Jabba the Hutt maybe, but a supermodel I ain't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Elite

Professional

Discerning

Exceptional

Select

Basically infers someone decides who does and doesn't attend based on their personal preferences or desires.

Sometimes known as a clique

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Elite

Professional

Discerning

Exceptional

Select

Basically infers someone decides who does and doesn't attend based on their personal preferences or desires.

Sometimes known as a clique

No thanks"

In fairness isn't that how a good few socials & parties are organised anyway.

Some open the doors to all but not everyone as far as I am aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really see the problem, if someone organises a party, they can invite who they want. Their party, their rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't really see the problem, if someone organises a party, they can invite who they want. Their party, their rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Elite

Professional

Discerning

Exceptional

Select

Basically infers someone decides who does and doesn't attend based on their personal preferences or desires.

Sometimes known as a clique

No thanks

In fairness isn't that how a good few socials & parties are organised anyway.

Some open the doors to all but not everyone as far as I am aware.

Dx"

I believe so. Sad

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By *igand82Man
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

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I think you need to google what elite means and not what you think it means lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

I may be big and fat but, with an attitude like yours, you're the ugly one.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

I may be big and fat but, with an attitude like yours, you're the ugly one.

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wonder if you can be fat and elite or just skinny and elite ?

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

wow! Not prejudice at all then?!

Way to win friends and make yourself popular!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it would help if the op was to explain how they would decide if someone is "elite"

Do they have any criteria in mind ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

maybe his tongue is stuck firmly in his cheek lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Eliteism is a state of mind usually the preserve of the those who feel above others

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By *igand82Man
over a year ago

Glenrothes

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By *igand82Man
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

I think you need to google what elite means and not what you think it means lol"

I know what elite means I was mearly giving my opinion and what elite would mean in the context of a sex party.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

I think you need to google what elite means and not what you think it means lol

I know what elite means I was mearly giving my opinion and what elite would mean in the context of a sex party. "
Oh right so fatties need'nt apply then

even if your elite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe the elite call it "big boned"....

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I believe the elite call it "big boned"....

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why did i think of titanic when you said that ? lol

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Go for it...there will be plenty interest....

Only natural to pick and choose for a personal party imho ...some will like that some won't. If I was having a sex party I would only choose those that are my type....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

First of all thanks for all the feed back and interest.

We are not prejudice regarding Size,Shape, or Looks!

We use the word Elite as we do aim to be better and not discriminate like other venues have done in the past.

We will be getting to work on this very soon.

Unfortunately it will not be advertised on fab but if anyone wants a heads up on link to website when built that will explain it all then feel free to private message us.

Regards

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"First of all thanks for all the feed back and interest.

We are not prejudice regarding Size,Shape, or Looks!

We use the word Elite as we do aim to be better and not discriminate like other venues have done in the past.

We will be getting to work on this very soon.

Unfortunately it will not be advertised on fab but if anyone wants a heads up on link to website when built that will explain it all then feel free to private message us.

Regards"
sorry but if its not going to be run through fab why advertise it here ?

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By *illdeeCouple
over a year ago

nr Edinburgh

"Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

I may be big and fat but, with an attitude like yours, you're the ugly one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It means NAE scum...but elite sounds better.....

What about the elite scum like me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its part of life can't please everyone some will be happy others not so.

good luck with your party plans hopefully all go's well and all attending have a great night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go for it...there will be plenty interest....

Only natural to pick and choose for a personal party imho ...some will like that some won't. If I was having a sex party I would only choose those that are my type...."

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Been done before in Scotland and they were a success. Photos had to be sent to become a member or recommendations.

Good luck

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Beats going to pub n trying to pull but no doubt it'll be miles away in the big smoke

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"The more options in Scotland the better, gives people more choice.

Suppose it depends on how "elite" it is as to if we'd get in or not lol.

Something new and different is always good.

D x"

Would be defo good for people to have more options in Scotland.

Never quite sure when the word Elite is used though.

Might put some people off from contacting you and find out more about your events!

It would make me think twice before contacting you as am defo no Elite model.

But I totally understand that you have to choose who you party with

Good luck with that and keep us posted

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Thoughts please?

And no it would not be free Guys! "

Think it sounds like a fantastic idea and hope you are able to make it work. We would love more details when you get your site up abd running.

Mr & Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a great idea good luck hopefully get a look at your site once up & running.

Loving the variety at moment

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Can see the benefit of running these off site....

Especially as there's been a spate of vendettas and outing...think about it...it makes sence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to belong to one I those Elite parties a number of years ago.

Had some some good times met a few influential people

However, depends in your definition of elite as some take the hump when rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a vetting process to become one of the elite?

Who decides? Shall we have a big brother voting in system? Who gets to join the Big Brother ELITE Swinging House.

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate

"Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

Oh well.....i won't be getting invited then xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts please?

And no it would not be free Guys! "

I would certainly be interested. Keep me posted?

David.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if people are going to the bother of organising an apartment or mansion, they can invite/allow whoever they choose...

and if people gets their knckers in a twist over it, easily resolved: organise your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if people are going to the bother of organising an apartment or mansion, they can invite/allow whoever they choose...

and if people gets their knckers in a twist over it, easily resolved: organise your own

There speaks the voice of reason

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

It's the same every time people want to organise something for a select group others take the hump....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think any private party it's up to the host who they invite.

Why invite people who you don't get on with?

Social settings if different they are of a larger scale,it's a case of don't like them don't speak to them. Meaning everybody can enjoy themselves.

there's probably some people on organiser's block list so folks won't be welcome to them for whatever reason it maybe,it's entirely up to the organisers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this is something for the Platinum members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't really see the problem, if someone organises a party, they can invite who they want. Their party, their rules

Totally agree with ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts please?

And no it would not be free Guys! "

If u struggle with venue; PM me! Gav

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Elite to me would mean people in shape and not the big fat ugly fattys.

I may be big and fat but, with an attitude like yours, you're the ugly one.

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By *eckyWithTheGoodHairWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

This has went a bit tits up lol... So who decides who is 'elite' and who isn't ? And how does that even work given the 'fattie' comment ? If the guy who sed it sent a pic and he was in shape n hot wud he be granted 'eliteness' even tho i think we all agree his comment was ever so twat-ish and oh so not elite ? Id b v disappointed to meet such a person at an 'elite' event, as im sure many others would. Hmmm..., cant we all just all be elite ? Im sure most of us are anyways, and knowing what i know and who i know, il stick to cjs. Elite all the way. For me anyway. Least u know whats what and can decide on the level of eliteness all for urself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Elite

Professional

Discerning

Exceptional

Select

Basically infers someone decides who does and doesn't attend based on their personal preferences or desires.

Sometimes known as a clique

No thanks"

Well said Mr. Mac.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"This has went a bit tits up lol... So who decides who is 'elite' and who isn't ? And how does that even work given the 'fattie' comment ? If the guy who sed it sent a pic and he was in shape n hot wud he be granted 'eliteness' even tho i think we all agree his comment was ever so twat-ish and oh so not elite ? Id b v disappointed to meet such a person at an 'elite' event, as im sure many others would. Hmmm..., cant we all just all be elite ? Im sure most of us are anyways, and knowing what i know and who i know, il stick to cjs. Elite all the way. For me anyway. Least u know whats what and can decide on the level of eliteness all for urself

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to be honest it sounds like the venture is the same as cjs a money making buisness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll go anywhere that sounds like fun. After all isn't that what it's all about?

Good luck anyway.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I don't think it's gone tits up....just a few negative comments from a minuscule population of swingers...which is inevitably going to happen on these forums haha....I certainly wouldn't let it put me off ....

Yes it will send a few people into a grump because the word elite is mentioned ....a few will feel out out etc...but I am sure the OP will get over that hurdle and work out plans and strategies of what they are looking for whether it suits them...it's their venture good luck to them I say...if it works great stuff for them...if it doesn't hey at least they tried something new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is an ELITE party i am sure i would not fullfil the criteria as i am pretty avarvage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The negativity in Scotland Forum at times is enough to make you want avoid it altogether.

No wonder fewer and fewer people are posting in the forum.

Ego's and 'chips on the shoulder' aren't an attractive trait.

I certainly don't come on the forum to be judged and wouldnt expect other people's choices/opinions/tastes to be either

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"The negativity in Scotland Forum at times is enough to make you want avoid it altogether.

No wonder fewer and fewer people are posting in the forum.

Ego's and 'chips on the shoulder' aren't an attractive trait.

I certainly don't come on the forum to be judged and wouldnt expect other people's choices/opinions/tastes to be either

I would certainly put many of trying new things ...it's happened time n time again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Elite sex party! Sounds like a great idea. My husband and I would be up for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to be honest it sounds like the venture is the same as cjs a money making buisness"

my instincts were telling me the same thing kola.

somewhere inbetween swingers clubs and killing kittens.

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Does anybody really think anyone is gonna go to the enormous amount of work and financial risk involved in running such clubs or events without some payback, or perhaps some seek an altruistic Swinging version of Jesus Christ who's gonna run things for free?

Hats off to them for trying, Surely an increase in venues is something to be applauded not frowned on, purely my opinion

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"Does anybody really think anyone is gonna go to the enormous amount of work and financial risk involved in running such clubs or events without some payback, or perhaps some seek an altruistic Swinging version of Jesus Christ who's gonna run things for free?

Hats off to them for trying, Surely an increase in venues is something to be applauded not frowned on, purely my opinion"

Well said

even if there's a financial gain or if they break even who cares....good on them for filling a gap in the Scottish scene

Fink we are behind on the times as it is up here lol...

More the merrier...more choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The negativity in Scotland Forum at times is enough to make you want avoid it altogether.

No wonder fewer and fewer people are posting in the forum.

Ego's and 'chips on the shoulder' aren't an attractive trait.

I certainly don't come on the forum to be judged and wouldnt expect other people's choices/opinions/tastes to be either

The thing is, if this is as it appears a market researching exercise I would say its been very positive. The op has found there is a keen market for their business and also that perhaps use of the word "elite" doesn't wholly indicate the inclusivity they are endeavouring to offer. As has been pointed out previously they are at liberty to offer invitations so can use the information gathered in whichever way they wish. One man's negativity is another man's opinion.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"... Surely an increase in venues is something to be applauded not frowned on, purely my opinion"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you try something new , there's always going to be someone who's not happy about it . Sadly there's a lot of people who see it about being the best and post popular or outdoing someone else .

This is and should be a big enough scene to cater for many likes and preferences.

Some people would love to try new things to offer Scotlands swinging scene . Why knock them for that ?

If it's not your thing then is it necessary to try and make it look like they are doing wrong .

They used the word elite, but they also said it wasn't based on age shape and size . If someone doesn't think they measure up to that term then surely that's their own self esteem or self worth that's creating those thoughts not the people looking to host these events .

The time and effort that's required to organise a simple drinks night isn't just a 5 minute job . People will criticise organisers no matter what they try to organise either because they see it as money making , as said popularity competition, jealously and many more reasons .

I'm in agreement with a few of the above comments where if you aren't happy then organise your own .

If you aren't interested for whatever reason then don't attend .

But I believe anyone who attempts to make things better for Scotlands swinging scene then they deserve support , positivity and encouragement while so many sit and do nothing, attend nothing but judge and complain !!!!

We aren't living in the dark ages so if you want things to progess in this lifestyle, people's attitude needs to be be a little more enthusiastic rather than trashing their ideas and efforts.

As always just my opinion

Shelley x

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"If you try something new , there's always going to be someone who's not happy about it . Sadly there's a lot of people who see it about being the best and post popular or outdoing someone else .

This is and should be a big enough scene to cater for many likes and preferences.

Some people would love to try new things to offer Scotlands swinging scene . Why knock them for that ?

If it's not your thing then is it necessary to try and make it look like they are doing wrong .

I'm in agreement with a few of the above comments where if you aren't happy then organise your own .

If you aren't interested for whatever reason then don't attend .

We aren't living in the dark ages so if you want things to progess in this lifestyle, people's attitude needs to be be a little more enthusiastic rather than trashing their ideas and efforts.

As always just my opinion

Shelley x"

Very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny thing if you look at your verification,

no need for that what so ever .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you try something new , there's always going to be someone who's not happy about it . Sadly there's a lot of people who see it about being the best and post popular or outdoing someone else .

This is and should be a big enough scene to cater for many likes and preferences.

Some people would love to try new things to offer Scotlands swinging scene . Why knock them for that ?

If it's not your thing then is it necessary to try and make it look like they are doing wrong .

I'm in agreement with a few of the above comments where if you aren't happy then organise your own .

If you aren't interested for whatever reason then don't attend .

We aren't living in the dark ages so if you want things to progess in this lifestyle, people's attitude needs to be be a little more enthusiastic rather than trashing their ideas and efforts.

As always just my opinion

Shelley x"

Couldn't agree more, very well put

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"If you try something new , there's always going to be someone who's not happy about it . Sadly there's a lot of people who see it about being the best and post popular or outdoing someone else .

This is and should be a big enough scene to cater for many likes and preferences.

Some people would love to try new things to offer Scotlands swinging scene . Why knock them for that ?

If it's not your thing then is it necessary to try and make it look like they are doing wrong .

I'm in agreement with a few of the above comments where if you aren't happy then organise your own .

If you aren't interested for whatever reason then don't attend .

We aren't living in the dark ages so if you want things to progess in this lifestyle, people's attitude needs to be be a little more enthusiastic rather than trashing their ideas and efforts.

As always just my opinion

Shelley x"

They have made it clear it's not about age, size or whatever so I took it that it just meant an elite or classy type venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is the venue that is Elite or a superior venue then we would be interested.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"If you try something new , there's always going to be someone who's not happy about it . Sadly there's a lot of people who see it about being the best and post popular or outdoing someone else .

This is and should be a big enough scene to cater for many likes and preferences.

Some people would love to try new things to offer Scotlands swinging scene . Why knock them for that ?

If it's not your thing then is it necessary to try and make it look like they are doing wrong .

I'm in agreement with a few of the above comments where if you aren't happy then organise your own .

If you aren't interested for whatever reason then don't attend .

We aren't living in the dark ages so if you want things to progess in this lifestyle, people's attitude needs to be be a little more enthusiastic rather than trashing their ideas and efforts.

As always just my opinion

Shelley x"

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By *otEdinburghmaleMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I would be interested as long as its pay on the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you try something new , there's always going to be someone who's not happy about it . Sadly there's a lot of people who see it about being the best and post popular or outdoing someone else .

This is and should be a big enough scene to cater for many likes and preferences.

Some people would love to try new things to offer Scotlands swinging scene . Why knock them for that ?

If it's not your thing then is it necessary to try and make it look like they are doing wrong .

I'm in agreement with a few of the above comments where if you aren't happy then organise your own .

If you aren't interested for whatever reason then don't attend .

We aren't living in the dark ages so if you want things to progess in this lifestyle, people's attitude needs to be be a little more enthusiastic rather than trashing their ideas and efforts.

As always just my opinion

Shelley x"

Totally agree, the More choice the better. Means Bo & I might actually find a date where we can both make it along to something.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Scotland really does need more venues, we're at least an hour away from anything!

I wouldn't say people are complaining, merely pointing out that the word 'elite' has negative connotations.

It makes me think of slim, attractive, wealthy people, and I'm none of those things, lol.

If the word is being used in relation to the venue, then I would also be very interested in finding out more

Good luck with your venture!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Again we are not interested in size looks etc! yes we are looking to give more choice yes there will be a fee. A lot of time etc is going to go into this venture.

Not Looking to step on toes as said there is a lot os swingers in Scotland.

Someone mentioned Kittens yes we have been in there and yes we think it is shocking the way they pick so we wont be anything like this IF we can pull this off that is.Again thanks for all the feed back on this.

Regards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simple

Your idea

Your ball

Your game

Your rules

What I or any of the non elite think is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't really be arsed reading everyone raging about the word 'elite'. Ridiculous.

But yes, this sounds great and I would be up for it.

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By *ighlandballsMan
over a year ago

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Thats good Dildo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh go on then....since its an elite one...

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By *ethodManMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

CJs will do me,don't like the sound of "elite",we're all equal, good luck though if you can make it happen

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over a year ago

"If you try something new , there's always going to be someone who's not happy about it . Sadly there's a lot of people who see it about being the best and post popular or outdoing someone else .

This is and should be a big enough scene to cater for many likes and preferences.

Some people would love to try new things to offer Scotlands swinging scene . Why knock them for that ?

If it's not your thing then is it necessary to try and make it look like they are doing wrong .

I'm in agreement with a few of the above comments where if you aren't happy then organise your own .

If you aren't interested for whatever reason then don't attend .

We aren't living in the dark ages so if you want things to progess in this lifestyle, people's attitude needs to be be a little more enthusiastic rather than trashing their ideas and efforts.

As always just my opinion

Shelley x"

Shelley makes a good argument here.

What I would point out though regarding clubs, functions etc is be very careful on the venue you select and how you market it.

I am to believe this is not a drinks only social gathering of like minded people that can be done in any function suite across the country.

Swinging parties/ clubs like anything in the sex industry ie lap dancing clubs, private sex clubs etc need special licensing and this country is still in the Dark Ages when it comes to issuing such licenses.

If you have a large house and market it as private party and not for profit then you get round the licensing laws.

However, private parties are limited in size and clubs tend to have private membership. It's the Private Membership and they're costs that make it "Elite"

Like I said the Governing Bodies in this country are still in the Victorian times and the general vanilla populace don't want private sex parties happening in their street. Remember SEX is still a dirty word in this country.

I used to belong to a Private Elite Club back in the 80's. Membership was costly to keep out those on here that treat the place as dial a shag and

Not as a swinging site. Venue was also a top secret to all except members

Clubs like Violate were specifically themed and managed to succeed.

CJ's stays open because it's run from a

Private house and claims to be not for profit.

Whoever takes this on board will have regular visits from the local Constabulary as you will get problems from the Vanilla community who see it as nothing more than a legal brothel.

My tuppence worth.

Try organising a non sexual social night on here first and see how much organisation that goes into that first before trying to open a Swingers Club.

Remember the laws up here differ from England, guarantee Charms or places like it don't get half the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am interested in this ....please keep me posted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mansions do not come free of charge Nor do Apartments! Dont confuse this with Kittens Again people should Learn to read instead of just jumping in! yes its going to cost were not a charity after all! Looks age and size we are not interested how plain is that!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mansions do not come free of charge Nor do Apartments! Dont confuse this with Kittens Again people should Learn to read instead of just jumping in! yes its going to cost were not a charity after all! Looks age and size we are not interested how plain is that!!!!!!!!!!! "

You called it "Elite" no one else, surely you expected some reaction

Fear not, there will be enough on here clamouring to be thought of as "Elite" to keep you in business of all sizes, ages and levels of attractiveness

Redefines "Elite" though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should read what the OP has posted. It's clearly stated it's an Elite party, in laymans terms a fancy party not Elite looks i.e supermodel types.

If your not interested in going why bother posting with your tuppence worth over the choice of words the op has chosen to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could we be considered if this goes ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't beleive the negativity is still continuing on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*believe

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

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As ive said above these folk appear to be doing nothing diffrent from cjs so whats the problem seems almost everyone is fine with what cjs the buisness does why shouldnt there be competition

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

This thread is funny

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"This thread is funny

I was just thinking that

Am getting dizzy, it's going in circles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the thought of a mansion house, I get visions of the ball scene from Van Helsing lol.

Anything that means there's more choice is good, don't see the point in getting hung up on the name or individual words used.

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over a year ago

"I love the thought of a mansion house, I get visions of the ball scene from Van Helsing lol.

Anything that means there's more choice is good, don't see the point in getting hung up on the name or individual words used.

Dx"

Totally agree! That said, there are always those who look to stir up trouble no matter what whenever they feel they or someone else have been slighted or singled out for preferential treatment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been to something a little similar to this although not in a mansion house but we'd definitely be interested in finding out more when you have more info.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I love the thought of a mansion house, I get visions of the ball scene from Van Helsing lol."

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Blue Velvet used to run such parties run over a weekend in various settings, even a Castle on occasion, so it can be done. just so long as people realize the sort of organisation skills required to successfully pull this off. especially if venues are hired,making sure things go back in place, no damage as such. Plus catering for the numbers attending.

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By *ilth_mistressWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Good luck would love details if it goes ahead ,Scotland is defo needing something different from the same old

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

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"Blue Velvet used to run such parties run over a weekend in various settings, even a Castle on occasion, so it can be done. just so long as people realize the sort of organisation skills required to successfully pull this off. especially if venues are hired,making sure things go back in place, no damage as such. Plus catering for the numbers attending."

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The castle they hired was lovely, it was a very good night

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By *eliciouslySalaciousCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sounds like it could be fun, so potentially interested in such an event. Variety is the spice and all that!

Would be good to know when the website is up and running so that we can check it out and get more information.

Erin xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

A mansion house sounds lovely

I've heard of Blue Velvet but I think they called it quits just as we joined. I know they had done events in Dundee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have attended such events down South and clubs also. The good thing here is there is a screening process and not just a money making one. I would be very interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We def. would love to put our names in the hat for this elite party, if this goes ahead pretty please mmmm xxx lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Again thanks for all the feed back. We have taken note of the negative one and the Positive ones so know who to invite and who not to now as we would not like to offend anyone lol.

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By *llyandjimCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

we enjoy a good party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Again thanks for all the feed back. We have taken note of the negative one and the Positive ones so know who to invite and who not to now as we would not like to offend anyone lol. "

Blimey, give them something else to moan about lol (mr,)

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