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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering with me doing a few drinks nights and socials now, what people expect from it and why do you they attend them ?

I've posted this as recently there's been a lot of people taking the plunge for the first time to attend a drinks night or social and obviously they are really nervous .

So thought a wee post might be a good idea .

Shelley xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i ever got the chance to go to any it would be to meet new pple chat few drinks bit of a laugh put faces to names as in a normal night out but with full discrection

As iv never been to any im no sure if thats why others attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd expect the social rules to be adhered to by all!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

The socials for me are what fab should be all about.

People coming together for a drink maybe some food, dancing and lots of flirting and hopefully new friendships made as well as a chance to catch up with old friends too.

And perhaps for newbies to finally get that first verification which might help to get them some fun meets in the future.

I love doing the socials and I love watching the many friendships which have blossomed from them.

Your doing a great job Shelled so keep it up and enjoy

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Shelley*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This us a great subject Shelly esp for people like us that have never attended a social x

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By *parks2020Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Just a good time by all find new friends and put a proper face to the name

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow

Errm I'd say that i expect the premises sell diet red bull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meet new people and have good banter with like minded people........and obviously meet people for future meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a laugh, get known & meet new people. Have fun. Only been to a few & always had a brilliant time xx

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By *ourglasgowguyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Attending my first social tonight and hoping for all of the above (even though I'm no fan of diet red bull )

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Errm I'd say that i expect the premises sell diet red bull "

Red bull - oh no..... If it's for a voddy try it with lucozade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To go & have a great time meet new folk & friends I've made

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow


"Attending my first social tonight and hoping for all of the above (even though I'm no fan of diet red bull )

x"
ohhh you dont no what your missing Mr lol

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By *ourglasgowguyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Attending my first social tonight and hoping for all of the above (even though I'm no fan of diet red bull )

x ohhh you dont no what your missing Mr lol "

Maybe you can let me sip from yours?

You could let me try your red bull too lol xx

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By *cooby and FloydCouple
over a year ago

Ayr

Same as above for us, few drinks and a laugh, meet new people and catch up with ones we have met before. We have been to some really good social nights over the years and always had a great time.

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By *ee-YinWoman
over a year ago

nr bathgate


"To go & have a great time meet new folk & friends I've made "

This ^^^^^^

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By *ouncingBiscuitsWoman
over a year ago

toy town, Glasgow


"Attending my first social tonight and hoping for all of the above (even though I'm no fan of diet red bull )

x ohhh you dont no what your missing Mr lol

Maybe you can let me sip from yours?

You could let me try your red bull too lol xx"

ohhh errr now theres an offer .... should I ,shan't i ,will I ,wont i ,is my thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A birthday blowjob

Geek

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think it is fair to say we are regulars at socials. We keep coming back because of the banter, the dancing, the opportunity to catch up with old friends and hopefully make new ones. Oh, and lets not forget the smooching

Mrs S xx

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By *ourglasgowguyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Attending my first social tonight and hoping for all of the above (even though I'm no fan of diet red bull )

x ohhh you dont no what your missing Mr lol

Maybe you can let me sip from yours?

You could let me try your red bull too lol xx

ohhh errr now theres an offer .... should I ,shan't i ,will I ,wont i ,is my thinking "

You definitely should - I'd love to try red bull lol xx

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Have a laugh, get known & meet new people. Have fun"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A birthday blowjob

Geek "

There's always one !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A birthday blowjob

Geek

There's always one !!!! "

Hehe you know me, I'm always well behaved

Geek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a works night out on a grand scale.

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

I'd expect a drink lol

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By *oe bloggs69Man
over a year ago

fife

Been on this site for 4yrs n never been to a social,maybe I'm a sociopath

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of great replies. when attending I expect a relaxed friendly atmosphere good music and to be able to chat freely to others . Not to be expected that anything will happen at end of night as socials are for simply this socializing

When organising I expect respect to be given to all people attending. If people have issues with others going, either don't attend or leave your issues at home .

Just like a big works night out only we are a maybe all a bit naughtier minded . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the social side always good to meet old friends and make new ones can honestly say that every social and drinks nite we have been to has been great and once mrs is better we will be back enjoying all you lovely pps company again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I make it to one, it'll be to put faces and voices to people, meet new people and have a laugh

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By *ighlandballsMan
over a year ago

perth

Yes social outings are the way ahead.

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Lots of great replies. when attending I expect a relaxed friendly atmosphere good music and to be able to chat freely to others . Not to be expected that anything will happen at end of night as socials are for simply this socializing

When organising I expect respect to be given to all people attending. If people have issues with others going, either don't attend or leave your issues at home .

Just like a big works night out only we are a maybe all a bit naughtier minded . Xx"

We've really enjoyed the ones we've attended (either organised by Jacs or Shelley), met some new people who are now great friends too and been lucky enough to have the opportunity to play afterwards as we've been booked into the same hotels. Very happy with the "no play and best behaviour" rules at the venues. We're also very much looking forward to the next 2 social events in our diary . The music for the Stirlng one will take me back to a great time in my life, roll on. Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A birthday blowjob

Geek

There's always one !!!! "
make that 2

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

A relaxed envitent where you can flirt with like minded people without worrying about vanillaness too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make a raving cunt of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To make a raving cunt of myself."

I do that at every social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To make a raving cunt of myself.

I do that at every social "

That and not get invited back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To make a raving cunt of myself.

I do that at every social

That and not get invited back. "

oh i always get invited back lol

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By *illdeeCouple
over a year ago

St Andrews this week

Tbh, we've only been to one, in Edinburgh. Spoiled by one extremely d*unk woman sat beside the door of the "private function room" being fingered and groping a guy. Unfortunately, the pub usually had a disco on the night it was held so lots of vanilla folks were in and out very quickly when they saw what was going on. We left after a chat with some nice folks but those organisers won't see us again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a bit of banter be polite and if anything happens then it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, we've only been to one, in Edinburgh. Spoiled by one extremely d*unk woman sat beside the door of the "private function room" being fingered and groping a guy. Unfortunately, the pub usually had a disco on the night it was held so lots of vanilla folks were in and out very quickly when they saw what was going on. We left after a chat with some nice folks but those organisers won't see us again.

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it's hard to monitor every single person who attends a social night but I think it's important that people respect the rule of a non playing venue . The amount of messages I receive when hosting nights asking "so how strict is the no play policy "

And there's sadly always someone willing to take that chance on the night . If the rules aren't stated then people might think it will go unnoticed or a blind eye will be turned . Thankfully I've never had to ask anyone to leave an event due to this and hope I never have to . It's respect to the other people around you . We all night have a laugh joke flirt and yeah a smooch with others but there has to be boundaries I feel .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh, we've only been to one, in Edinburgh. Spoiled by one extremely d*unk woman sat beside the door of the "private function room" being fingered and groping a guy. Unfortunately, the pub usually had a disco on the night it was held so lots of vanilla folks were in and out very quickly when they saw what was going on. We left after a chat with some nice folks but those organisers won't see us again.

it's hard to monitor every single person who attends a social night but I think it's important that people respect the rule of a non playing venue . The amount of messages I receive when hosting nights asking "so how strict is the no play policy "

And there's sadly always someone willing to take that chance on the night . If the rules aren't stated then people might think it will go unnoticed or a blind eye will be turned . Thankfully I've never had to ask anyone to leave an event due to this and hope I never have to . It's respect to the other people around you . We all night have a laugh joke flirt and yeah a smooch with others but there has to be boundaries I feel . "

Oh definitely, I've only seen the odd smooch on any social nights out we have attended. I'd be mortified if anyone did anything more in a public place when we were there. Even in the throws of a damn good social night out there's got to be some standards & respect for others.

On a social big or small I like:

A laugh, nice venue, good blethers, dancing is a plus but optional, a wee drink and good company

Dx

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Tbh, we've only been to one, in Edinburgh. Spoiled by one extremely d*unk woman sat beside the door of the "private function room" being fingered and groping a guy. Unfortunately, the pub usually had a disco on the night it was held so lots of vanilla folks were in and out very quickly when they saw what was going on. We left after a chat with some nice folks but those organisers won't see us again.

it's hard to monitor every single person who attends a social night but I think it's important that people respect the rule of a non playing venue . The amount of messages I receive when hosting nights asking "so how strict is the no play policy "

And there's sadly always someone willing to take that chance on the night . If the rules aren't stated then people might think it will go unnoticed or a blind eye will be turned . Thankfully I've never had to ask anyone to leave an event due to this and hope I never have to . It's respect to the other people around you . We all night have a laugh joke flirt and yeah a smooch with others but there has to be boundaries I feel .

Oh definitely, I've only seen the odd smooch on any social nights out we have attended. I'd be mortified if anyone did anything more in a public place when we were there. Even in the throws of a damn good social night out there's got to be some standards & respect for others.

On a social big or small I like:

A laugh, nice venue, good blethers, dancing is a plus but optional, a wee drink and good company

Dx"

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"Tbh, we've only been to one, in Edinburgh. Spoiled by one extremely d*unk woman sat beside the door of the "private function room" being fingered and groping a guy. Unfortunately, the pub usually had a disco on the night it was held so lots of vanilla folks were in and out very quickly when they saw what was going on. We left after a chat with some nice folks but those organisers won't see us again.

it's hard to monitor every single person who attends a social night but I think it's important that people respect the rule of a non playing venue . The amount of messages I receive when hosting nights asking "so how strict is the no play policy "

And there's sadly always someone willing to take that chance on the night . If the rules aren't stated then people might think it will go unnoticed or a blind eye will be turned . Thankfully I've never had to ask anyone to leave an event due to this and hope I never have to . It's respect to the other people around you . We all night have a laugh joke flirt and yeah a smooch with others but there has to be boundaries I feel .

Oh definitely, I've only seen the odd smooch on any social nights out we have attended. I'd be mortified if anyone did anything more in a public place when we were there. Even in the throws of a damn good social night out there's got to be some standards & respect for others.

On a social big or small I like:

A laugh, nice venue, good blethers, dancing is a plus but optional, a wee drink and good company

Dx"

Sadly it happens....discretion seems a lost art to a small majority....seen a few things happen and was less than amused...

In saying that been to many a social and people have been well behaved.

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