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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is FAB turning into facebook for adult's as there seem's to be an increase in those who just want to chat and not meet ? Or is it just people playing silly games , who say they want to meet but never do ? If they never want to meet why don't they just be honest and say so ? Life is too short for this childish carry on , we are grown ups and don't need to be fake . We can say or do what we think with like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And ………..breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is FAB turning into facebook for adult's as there seem's to be an increase in those who just want to chat and not meet ? Or is it just people playing silly games , who say they want to meet but never do ? If they never want to meet why don't they just be honest and say so ? Life is too short for this childish carry on , we are grown ups and don't need to be fake . We can say or do what we think with like minded people "

have a hunt around John, you will find other sites where people do actually meet, this is a good site but there are others related more to meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get why ppl refer to fab as facebook just coz some chose to chat only they are worlds apart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's people's choice to use this site how they deem fit. Meet or not that's there perogative to do so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it's a good site , I have been on it long it enough to see this creeping into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am breathing , it's an observation , I have nothing against people who want to chat , just be up front about these things , we all have times when we cant meet and happy to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just chatting... not meeting and I state that clearly. Is that a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just chatting... not meeting and I state that clearly. Is that a problem? "

Me too and for specific reasons which I choose not to state.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can use this site like Facebook can we?

Having deactivated my fb account I've found I'm really missing sharing all the boring details of my hum drum life like how many peas I had with my dinner n all that crap.

Soooooo.....I really need to use the crapper n wouldn't want anyone to miss anything so I'll take a tape measure n a set of scales with me so I can let you all know how it went

Aye,I'm being sarcastic....fb is a load of crap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be on a swinging ( swapping) site but not want to meet anyone?

Maybe the people running Fab should start a Fab social chat site. They already have a bi sexual site so they are expanding. Would save messaging people who just get off on looking at pictures and talking about it. Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be on a swinging ( swapping) site but not want to meet anyone?

Maybe the people running Fab should start a Fab social chat site. They already have a bi sexual site so they are expanding. Would save messaging people who just get off on looking at pictures and talking about it. Just a thought. "

The have a flirt one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed that a number of regulars on here are no longer on the site. Most intimated before they left that they were fed up with timewasters who seemed to think the site was here to chat but not meet. Anyone else noticed this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be on a swinging ( swapping) site but not want to meet anyone?

Maybe the people running Fab should start a Fab social chat site. They already have a bi sexual site so they are expanding. Would save messaging people who just get off on looking at pictures and talking about it. Just a thought.

The have a flirt one too "

*they*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip

Said this for ages

Just have to look at the statuses or the forum topics

I have no interest on what's your fav colour or what you had for yer dinner

I'd say the majority on this site only wanna chat or meet for socials now

Shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat and meet..i just take it all as fun...if people just want to chat fine..if they want more even better..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here to meet....sorry if that's going against the grain but that's what I'm here for...i have both male and female friends I can talk to anytime I like, without going on a swinging site to do so.. If I'm on here it's with the hope of arranging a meet..i thought that was the whole point to this site

Don't get me wrong,I have made friends with ppl on the site..but that has come after meeting them...i have no problem with ppl who clearly state that they are not meeting,I won't mail them,therefor not wasting my time or their's..

I think the big clue is in the site name..swingers....swinging definitely isn't about chatting on the Internet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said that man ^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More to swinging than meeting for me, everyone's different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's up to each individual what they use their profile for..

Life can get in the way,making it difficult to meet or have found someone they meet up with & don't want to meet anyone else.

people need to realise fab is virtual real life comes first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think its meets only either if that was the case the site wouldnt have chat rooms or forums ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont think its meets only either if that was the case the site wouldnt have chat rooms or forums ?? "

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I like to chat a fair bit before I meet, my free time is very limited so I like to be pretty sure about the person when I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's up to each individual what they use their profile for..

Life can get in the way,making it difficult to meet or have found someone they meet up with & don't want to meet anyone else.

people need to realise fab is virtual real life comes first

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Absolutely this. It changes and evolves. I've done the meets and the whole swinging lark but now I'm winding that down. I still enjoy, most of the time, the involvement I retain. If others don't like that, then that's a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's up to each individual what they use their profile for..

Life can get in the way,making it difficult to meet or have found someone they meet up with & don't want to meet anyone else.

people need to realise fab is virtual real life comes first

Absolutely this. It changes and evolves. I've done the meets and the whole swinging lark but now I'm winding that down. I still enjoy, most of the time, the involvement I retain. If others don't like that, then that's a shame. "

Absolutely jinty if people don't agree they can move on x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

No.......I only use facebook for games none on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I share this thread? And what's with all the Farmville and Candy Crush invites? Who just poked me? Unlike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I share this thread? And what's with all the Farmville and Candy Crush invites? Who just poked me? Unlike "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is FAB turning into facebook for adult's as there seem's to be an increase in those who just want to chat and not meet ? Or is it just people playing silly games , who say they want to meet but never do ? If they never want to meet why don't they just be honest and say so ? Life is too short for this childish carry on , we are grown ups and don't need to be fake . We can say or do what we think with like minded people

have a hunt around John, you will find other sites where people do actually meet, this is a good site but there are others related more to meeting"
which ones??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am breathing , it's an observation , I have nothing against people who want to chat , just be up front about these things , we all have times when we cant meet and happy to talk "

I don't understand your point, your op was a good old rant about people chatting and not meeting (childish I think it was) and now you're saying you've nothing against people who want to chat and you understand that it can't all be chat?

Is this a reaction to chatting with someone and you're expecting meet and then they turn round and tell you you they don't want to?

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"How do I share this thread? And what's with all the Farmville and Candy Crush invites? Who just poked me? Unlike "

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