FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *ustcantgetenuf50 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Would you ever not meet with someone that you are interested in, if you saw they had met a particular person by their verifications ?

Would you tell them the reason why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would never not meet with anyone just because of who they have met on other meets life is such that not everyone will like everyone.

we take people as we find them not on what others say about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take each meet as their own rather than who they met x

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By *ckleticklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes. Be it shallow or not, the truth is it would put me off. Nothing against the individual themselves, but it would bother me that they had been with someone i genuinely disliked or had some other issue with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you ever not meet with someone that you are interested in, if you saw they had met a particular person by their verifications ?

Would you tell them the reason why ? "

Absolutely; for my own health if nothing else, if the person you are interested in had met a "particular person" and that particular person shows verifications of sex where it is obvious they had unsafe sex then im sorry but I would not go near them.

Its actually alarming on here by how many who don't know what safe sex is!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were meeting someone outwith fab would you ask for a rundown of every sexual relationship they had ever had? I doubt it. I do see your point however but think meeting people doesn't necessarily mean fucking on a first meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swinging forum and most meet with the intention of sex, perhaps not on first meet but the intention is there

If the person in question has been with someone that I dislike, distrust or simply something just not right, and on top of that post verifications of unprotected sex then again, I will simply walk away

my choice, my decision, simplzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet people who find it necessary to use the word "simples" or variations thereof after a standard statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've done this before,after seeing a certain persons pictures and knowing this person if I ever see verifications from them on a profile I will not meet that person. It's my health and my choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet people who find it necessary to use the word "simples" or variations thereof after a standard statement.

perhaps you would neither get the opportunity or invitation in the first place

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Would you ever not meet with someone that you are interested in, if you saw they had met a particular person by their verifications ?

Would you tell them the reason why ? "
I would never not meet anyone just because they had met someone I didn't get on with.

I meet people and make up my own mind about them reather than judging them on what others have to say about them and so glad I have as I've made many lovely friends that way.

You cannot judge someone just because of who they have met but sadly many do

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

In the main yes I would not meet them sex is a small part of why I meet and if they find particular people palatable then we obviously have little in common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to make my own mind up too but again its all down to how we judge people.... sadly thats the way of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to make my own mind up too but again its all down to how we judge people.... sadly thats the way of life

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No: not who they have met, however, how they conduct themselves: YES

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"No: not who they have met, however, how they conduct themselves: YES"

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If they were verified by someone I just didn't get on with then I'd have no issues .

I have however said I'd not meet a guy if he was meeting a woman who was on another site getting paid for a sex . My choice .

Have also know some people avoid meeting a person/cpl as they got harassed by a previous meet kicking off and marking what they perceive "their territory" .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Be it shallow or not, the truth is it would put me off. Nothing against the individual themselves, but it would bother me that they had been with someone i genuinely disliked or had some other issue with."

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"If they were verified by someone I just didn't get on with then I'd have no issues .

I have however said I'd not meet a guy if he was meeting a woman who was on another site getting paid for a sex . My choice .

Have also know some people avoid meeting a person/cpl as they got harassed by a previous meet kicking off and marking what they perceive "their territory" .

Sadly this seems all too common.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Have also know some people avoid meeting a person/cpl as they got harassed by a previous meet kicking off

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some even get grief from people they have never even met just because they have met someone the don't like.. There are some really venomous jealous people on here

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By *ustcantgetenuf50 OP Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Interesting responses thank you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet people who find it necessary to use the word "simples" or variations thereof after a standard statement.

perhaps you would neither get the opportunity or invitation in the first place

Ooooooooh noooo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have also know some people avoid meeting a person/cpl as they got harassed by a previous meet kicking off

some even get grief from people they have never even met just because they have met someone the don't like.. There are some really venomous jealous people on here

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had met someone I wasn't a particular fan of...I wouldn't be interested in the first place. If you know the third party personally and are aware that you may get grief why set yourself up for it. I also agree with Kola. If they find that person acceptable then I doubt we would get on. This has happened to me in the past and I'm happy with my decision. Its my choice after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I've not met a few people because of them having met a certain person and I've no issues with telling them why I don't want to meet them. A lot of the time it just shows that they have no standards to who they meet and that isn't someone I would want to meet.

Having told them I've ended up finding out even more reasons as to why I can't stand said person so it's a win win situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"would never not meet with anyone just because of who they have met on other meets life is such that not everyone will like everyone.

we take people as we find them not on what others say about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep . Plenty on here would fuck anything and have zero standards both male and female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find its either arrogance, or insecurity that usually leads to the being put off by a potential meets fab past meets.

note I said usually

just last week I seen one of my meets being publicly slated by some unknown woman..I've seen it happen on various profiles throughout the years...and it always appears to be the moaniest of profiles..the site is either full of timewasters,liars,dreamers and anyone who is meeting various people is a cheap slag...

sad...pathetic and utterly juvenile

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I find its either arrogance, or insecurity that usually leads to the being put off by a potential meets fab past meets.

note I said usually

sad...pathetic and utterly juvenile "

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