FabSwingers.com forum: Is chivalry required?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In this day and age (and on a site like this) is chivalry still appreciated and desirable, or should we all revert back to our caveman roots?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

manners, respect and politeness cost nothing...but that's just me...don't see the need to be a caveman tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"manners, respect and politeness cost nothing...but that's just me...don't see the need to be a caveman tbh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site not all have manners sadly there are few cavemen who think women are here for a service and chat & meet on there say so but thankfully few with manners and respect so age of chivary isnt completely dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me a man with manners and I'm a very happy lady... If he's a caveman in the bedroom then even better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a club and a loin cloth....just in case lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give me a man with manners and I'm a very happy lady... If he's a caveman in the bedroom then even better! "

a good combination lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"In this day and age (and on a site like this) is chivalry still appreciated and desirable, or should we all revert back to our caveman roots?"
Totally alive and well but sadly not all men have it .

Gentlemen are my prefered choice of playmates but they must also have that nawty streak that also attract me to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In this day and age (and on a site like this) is chivalry still appreciated and desirable, or should we all revert back to our caveman roots?Totally alive and well but sadly not all men have it .

Gentlemen are my prefered choice of playmates but they must also have that nawty streak that also attract me to them

Not a true gentleman if they don't have that nawty streak to begin with in my opinion

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"In this day and age (and on a site like this) is chivalry still appreciated and desirable, or should we all revert back to our caveman roots?Totally alive and well but sadly not all men have it .

Gentlemen are my prefered choice of playmates but they must also have that nawty streak that also attract me to them

Not a true gentleman if they don't have that nawty streak to begin with in my opinion

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agreed

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Chivalry and manners are diffrent things if defending a female from harsh words then no they are quitebcapable ofholding their own if manners all should have these

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Chivalry and manners are diffrent things if defending a female from harsh words then no they are quitebcapable ofholding their own if manners all should have these"
Your quite right Kola in that women are capable of holding their own but I for one think its nice when a gentleman will comes to your defence once in awhile .

Ive also seen a few gentlemen do this on here and it is nice to see .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think women look for men to.defend them on here women are more than capable lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I dont think women look for men to.defend them on here women are more than capable lol "
More than capiable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a gentleman

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought up"
Thats a true gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think women look for men to.defend them on here women are more than capable lol More than capiable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought upThats a true gentleman

with caveman tendencies

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chivalry and manners are diffrent things if defending a female from harsh words then no they are quitebcapable ofholding their own if manners all should have theseYour quite right Kola in that women are capable of holding their own but I for one think its nice when a gentleman will comes to your defence once in awhile .

Ive also seen a few gentlemen do this on here and it is nice to see ."

Of course women can look after themselves and certainly don't require us gents to protect them, however we should always treat them like the ladies they are and go that extra mile to make them feel special. If however some man starts getting out of line then times do require swift action to put them in their place.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought upThats a true gentleman

with caveman tendencies

lol"
Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought upThats a true gentleman

with caveman tendencies

lol"

Haha you hiding that club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you know where its at lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pride myself in being a gentleman at all times. I'm not sure if it's always appreciated as I do try to display it at all times. I know there is a massive imbalance of lady's to gents here and sometimes wonder if being polite and respectful is sometimes a reason for not receiving much feed back. That being said I wouldn't want to change that and of it's not appreciated so be it (sure there's a French phrase for that!).

Manners as has been said many times in this thread cost nothing! However, please and thank you are perhaps not attractive in the bedroom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you know where its at lol

Yeah i do i was just checking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not required.. but it has a habit of sweeping you off your feet if you find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I as a woman can hold my own never needed a man to defend me.

My brother still cracks up because I tend to be the protective one of everybody.

He tells people her bite is worse than her bark

But being to much of a gentleman bores me I need excitement

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It's not required.. but it has a habit of sweeping you off your feet if you find it. "
Totally agree what woman doesnt like being treated nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the thing, every man can be a gentleman as every an can be a "caveman" its just some don't know when to be one or the other.

I see myself as a gentleman, will always respect the other person, I think you can tell when the time is right to unleash the caveman lol...if you cant then you need to have a look at yerself...if you get my meaning..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"That's the thing, every man can be a gentleman as every an can be a "caveman" its just some don't know when to be one or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's the thing, every man can be a gentleman as every an can be a "caveman" its just some don't know when to be one or the other.

I see myself as a gentleman, will always respect the other person, I think you

can tell when the time is right to unleash the caveman lol...if you cant then you need to have a look at yerself...if you get my meaning..And thats what i met by the gentleman with the nawty streak lol

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and you know plenty Naughty lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"That's the thing, every man can be a gentleman as every an can be a "caveman" its just some don't know when to be one or the other.

I see myself as a gentleman, will always respect the other person, I think you

and you know plenty Naughty lol

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Indeed I do because here is another one just popped up ....you gentlemen are spoiling us lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"manners, respect and politeness cost nothing...but that's just me...don't see the need to be a caveman tbh"

This

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By *riction addictionMan
over a year ago

bathgate

A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door "
Hahahahaha luv it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door "

That's the man I'm thinking of lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree, that said if a woman was getting abuse I would jump in..as I would if the same thing was happening outdoors...I suppose that's the way I was brought up"

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Be a gentleman and know when to hold her hand.

Be a man and know when to pull her hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door "

I know one of those very well.

He knows that I'm a strong, capable woman but treats me like a lady....always. "You know who you are" Lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door

I know one of those very well.

He knows that I'm a strong, capable woman but treats me like a lady....always. "You know who you are" Lol

Sounds to me like that AndyKay, you been bribing him with cake again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door

I know one of those very well.

He knows that I'm a strong, capable woman but treats me like a lady....always. "You know who you are" Lol

Sounds to me like that AndyKay, you been bribing him with cake again?

Saying nothing.....

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"A gentleman always holds the door open for a lady, a true gentleman slaps her ass as she's walking through the door

I know one of those very well.

He knows that I'm a strong, capable woman but treats me like a lady....always. "You know who you are" Lol

Sounds to me like that AndyKay, you been bribing him with cake again?

Saying nothing.....

Not like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My father insisted manners and a shine on your shoes cost nothing and I have stuck with that all my life !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's important to me. I'm very independent but I do still like the idea of it. However I think sometimes your expectations drop and people then get just as far without it so stop making the effort.

It should work both ways though. Women should also follow the lady code. It's a bit lost on here too though I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, even if chivalry was on the way out I'd still do what I could to keep it going.

I held a door open for a woman at work and she looked completely stunned. That said, I work with a bunch of neanderthals and social hand grenades.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners are always to the fore...and Chivalry is defence of anyone under attack.

I have on a number of occasions defended ladies in chat...when they have come under attack...I know that most people are well capable of defending themselves...it does no harm in adding some weight to that.

To be honest I would never want to be described as a caveman...and I am never boring or bored...my over active imagination makes sure if that.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Give me a man with manners and I'm a very happy lady... If he's a caveman in the bedroom then even better! "

Absolutely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My father insisted manners and a shine on your shoes cost nothing and I have stuck with that all my life !!!"

Add to that "manners maketh the man" and I'm with you all the way

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

People seem to be confusing chivalry and manners, two different things.

Right back at the beginning of my time on here, I defended and supported a lady and got dogs' abuse for it. But I have a long memory!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both chivalry and manners are, paramount.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The white knight syndrome is a fasinating one, it is lovely to see when they are supporting the lady, it is funny to watch them then fall out and have spats in the forums.

Then the white knight become the person they were defending the lady from...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My father insisted manners and a shine on your shoes cost nothing and I have stuck with that all my life !!!

Add to that "manners maketh the man" and I'm with you all the way"

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I'd still rather be a 'white knight', even if things change in the future, so be it, it's life, we move on.

But I still have a long memory! Abusers beware!

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"manners, respect and politeness cost nothing...but that's just me...don't see the need to be a caveman tbh

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I'd still rather be a 'white knight', "

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