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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have put this in the swingers chat room and have got a good response so we have posted it in here as it's closer to home.

What's the Main Reason you started swinging??

We always thought this was an interesting question as we have all kinds of people in her with a load of sexual tastes.

Basically a questions that can be answered by Cpls , singles fems, single males , MM couples , FF couples , TVs, etc etc

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By *eterjamesmcMan
over a year ago

glasgow

My job means it's impossible to have a normal relationship. Also cos it's fun! Lol x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

When i first joined here it was with my hubby we initially met couples,single guys and fems for 3sms .

Altho i do still meet for 3sms and moresomes most of my activity on here the past two years have mostly been 121's

now sure if you only meet 121 makes you a swinger tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to meet people for sexual encounters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love having fun with the girls

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I've met some wonderful people and have some great times with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of fun and also like the social aspect, making friends...if fun follows great if not...at least I have another friend...

I like the banter on this site and everyone so far has been great.

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I like being myself and being accepted for who I am! I'm not judged for wanted to have sex with numerous women and females of couples! For going to swinging clubs and generally being what others outside the lifestyle might class as a pervert!

It opened me up and I don't judge others as much as I probably did in the part!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no time for relationships & can meet when & if I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fun!

And it means we can both indulge in our fantasies and explore our sexuality with like-minded people without being judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's fun!

And it means we can both indulge in our fantasies and explore our sexuality with like-minded people without being judged."

Same as us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we were curious to see what it was like?

Not all that it's cracked up to be to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically for uncomplicated fun with like minded people. Not looking for a relationship, although needs to be some chemistry, and this suits my needs with people who are after the same with none of the bull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure wat defines beeing a swinger as i havent done socials or clubs only 121 meets but watever i am im here for chats banter with all types of pple fun with the right ones to be me and an escape from the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm crumpet I'm addicted to hot men.

I love challenges

Enjoy sex

Swinging has made me more confident

Saves all the d*unk talk.

I'm determined to keep hot fit men happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were curious to see what it was all about and have had some great fun over the yrs and also met lots of lovely ppl,now its more the socials and drinks nites and keeping intouch with friends that keep us here

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We were curious to see what it was all about and have had some great fun over the yrs and also met lots of lovely ppl,now its more the socials and drinks nites and keeping intouch with friends that keep us here"
I remember meeting you guys for the first time seems like only yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were curious to see what it was all about and have had some great fun over the yrs and also met lots of lovely ppl,now its more the socials and drinks nites and keeping intouch with friends that keep us hereI remember meeting you guys for the first time seems like only yesterday "

yes jacs our first social about 6yrs now still remember most of it well lol x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We were curious to see what it was all about and have had some great fun over the yrs and also met lots of lovely ppl,now its more the socials and drinks nites and keeping intouch with friends that keep us hereI remember meeting you guys for the first time seems like only yesterday

yes jacs our first social about 6yrs now still remember most of it well lol x"

we'll put it down to nerves hunni xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were curious to see what it was all about and have had some great fun over the yrs and also met lots of lovely ppl,now its more the socials and drinks nites and keeping intouch with friends that keep us hereI remember meeting you guys for the first time seems like only yesterday

yes jacs our first social about 6yrs now still remember most of it well lol xwe'll put it down to nerves hunni xxx "

lol and the drink was a great first social for us tho yous made us very welcome x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We were curious to see what it was all about and have had some great fun over the yrs and also met lots of lovely ppl,now its more the socials and drinks nites and keeping intouch with friends that keep us hereI remember meeting you guys for the first time seems like only yesterday

yes jacs our first social about 6yrs now still remember most of it well lol xwe'll put it down to nerves hunni xxx

lol and the drink was a great first social for us tho yous made us very welcome x"

Thats what is all about hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were curious to see what it was all about and have had some great fun over the yrs and also met lots of lovely ppl,now its more the socials and drinks nites and keeping intouch with friends that keep us hereI remember meeting you guys for the first time seems like only yesterday

yes jacs our first social about 6yrs now still remember most of it well lol xwe'll put it down to nerves hunni xxx

lol and the drink was a great first social for us tho yous made us very welcome xThats what is all about hun xx "

yes defo thats why we would advise anyone to go along and meet lots nice ppl its def the best way to get to know fellow swingers x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"We were curious to see what it was all about and have had some great fun over the yrs and also met lots of lovely ppl,now its more the socials and drinks nites and keeping intouch with friends that keep us hereI remember meeting you guys for the first time seems like only yesterday

yes jacs our first social about 6yrs now still remember most of it well lol xwe'll put it down to nerves hunni xxx

lol and the drink was a great first social for us tho yous made us very welcome xThats what is all about hun xx

yes defo thats why we would advise anyone to go along and meet lots nice ppl its def the best way to get to know fellow swingers x"

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Mr has been doing this for a long time, and when we met I was rather inexperienced.

He wanted to show me that I could have fun and that I was desirable

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By *andyman1963Man
over a year ago

Ayr


"My job means it's impossible to have a normal relationship. Also cos it's fun! Lol x"

Why is that are you a priest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work for Sydney University. ... sssshhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came on to use the chat option. It opened a whole new world for me and having previously had interests and fantasies when I had been married , it gave me opportunities to fulfill some of them and more than I had ever thought I'd consider doing . The social side is massive for me now and it's given me a lot of extra confidence by meeting lots of decent and good people and a much greater understanding of who I am . It's also a place where I don't feel as judged as I might well be in the vanilla world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mrs)have a higher sex drive than my other half so joined here to fill fill that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love it...the variety, the freedom.. Even the pre-meet butterflies... Time wasters aside...it's quite an exciting lifestyle.. Long may it continue..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many good and honest answers on here and in the swingers chat thread.

We never thought we would do anything like this but here we are again in the site looking for fun. On and off for around 4 years now x

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By *rian4444Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Because you are a long time dead !

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By *inkyHnSCouple
over a year ago

The Council of Elrond

Well for us we both met on here when we were single and came off for a while then rejoined as a couple to try new things as a couple this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you are a long time dead !"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex, and a variety of it. Fab offers me that with no commitment to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not very desireable, so figured I'd cast my net over a bigger pond to see what I can get.. So to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just want to meet a hot girl we can both take turns to make each other moan, and play as a threesome.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

When we started the sex, the chance to play with females, made us feel naughty and dirty a side that no one outside knew about to indulge fantasys....

Now we enjoy the lifestyle not sure what else now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like being myself and being accepted for who I am! I'm not judged for wanted to have sex with numerous women and females of couples! For going to swinging clubs and generally being what others outside the lifestyle might class as a pervert!

It opened me up and I don't judge others as much as I probably did in the part!"

This is possibly my answer too.

I have been in around the scene most of my adult life and prefer this to being judged and pontified over for my actions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame (thank?) Cairn O' Mhor wines...

B

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By *ustforalaugh1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

My wife has been seriously ill for several years making sex a no no.

but i love her to bits, so don't want to have an "affair".

This place seemed like the right place to have some fun and fulfill a few fantasies while I'm at it without getting involved in a "relationship".

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By *lay_Mate_RequiredMan
over a year ago

eadt kilbride

i have been swinging on and off for 13 years, it's a good place to find a fuck buddy when you are in between relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allows me to swing the other way, without involving; family, friends, clients and employees!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno why I do it cause it's infuriating and i can't get any meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno why I do it cause it's infuriating and i can't get any meets "

Well try sitting up, your profile picture is not that inviting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It runs in my family lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It runs in my family lol."

Incest is not for this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should think not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for or wanting a relationship and I would rather chat to and meet people that are in the same sexual wave length as myself, rather than have one night stands that end up with sex that lack sexual chemistry and connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been working away alot recently so haven't had time for a relationship and I get to experiment

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

To step outside reality away from working kids and gran kids

To have a side nobody would ever dream of us doing and get done ticks in our bucket list . Ok so we have been ticking it for 6 years as we discovered some need re ticking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's really long and I don't wear underwear so when I walk at a brisk pace it's inevitable that there will be some free flowing back and forth 'swinging' motion down there.

Sorry, I just saw an alternative way of viewing the question and then it was too late to stop myself from answering. I shall endeavour to be reasonably sensible for the rest of the day...

Oooh, look... It's snowing again... Yippee!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because hubby loves watching me fuck other guys expecially we/vwe 1s or 2s or 3s lol x

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