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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having a bit of a gripe here. Why oh why, despite having it right at the start of our profile text, do people, all guys we might add, send you a friend request, despite having never messaged our chatted?!

I know the real answer, to look at friend only pics. However, if the members are genuine about meeting, then how do they expect to connect with people if they can't even take the time to pay attention to someone's profile for two minutes?!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

They do it to us too, those requests either get deleted or ignored

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

It's not even just the friend requests. We put up a status on Friday saying we were looking for a couple to accommodate us, within 30 mins 3 guys had messaged saying they were free *sigh*.

Those guys were also ignored

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By *issyForDommeTV/TS
over a year ago

glasgow

It's amazing how little friend requests you get when all your pictures are public...which is why i made them all public. Just as an experiment, keep your public ones but make the rest private and look for a difference in the amount of requests and random messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but it's not just guys that send random friends requests ?

We find cpls are the worst !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but it's not just guys that send random friends requests ?

We find cpls are the worst !

"

Had one just now Auds, totally random, yet on there profile it states "no random friend requests", and yep, we get more couples doing this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell a lie, we do get some from couples. Although nine times out of ten, it's the male half of couple, and more often than not, we're suspicious about whether or not the female even exists.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Single males we cant read lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single males we cant read lol "

Lol, to be fair Kola, we have never had terrible messages from guys, we've always had decent messages from them

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"Single males we cant read lol

Lol, to be fair Kola, we have never had terrible messages from guys, we've always had decent messages from them "
careful you may tarnish our unblemished nasty nick persona !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you guys put this up saves time who wants to be friends saves reading the profile yawn straight to the pictures lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't send a trashy message or invite anyone unless chatted first and then if I wanted to invite would ask first anyway...but that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single males we cant read lol

Lol, to be fair Kola, we have never had terrible messages from guys, we've always had decent messages from them careful you may tarnish our unblemished nasty nick persona !!"

Lol, never had a problem in all the years we've been here, couples can be far worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chose not to have a friends list and I even wrote that in my profile but still get requests every day. Some message first then ask if they can add thinking this will work.. If I want to keep in touch with people I pop them in my hotlist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single males we cant read lol

Lol, to be fair Kola, we have never had terrible messages from guys, we've always had decent messages from them careful you may tarnish our unblemished nasty nick persona !!

Lol, never had a problem in all the years we've been here, couples can be far worse "
very true

Because we only have 1 public pic on our profile and the rest private I think folk think they must be really mucky lol

They ain't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couples can be the worst...and its the male half more likely just being well....a man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never sent a friend request without having had some chat and then send a message asking if it's okay to send a request, basic manners really

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