FabSwingers.com forum: Bisexuality

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

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Do you think it's something everyone is born with or do you think it's a lifestyle choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think personally, that it's a bit of both. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Born with it, similar to full homosexuality

Always said it's the person your attracted to not their sex genre

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

There are true bisexuals and there are selective bisexuals strange that on fab a bisexual male hides the fact and straight females pretend to be bi

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Born with it, similar to full homosexuality

Always said it's the person your attracted to not their sex genre "
yeah totally agree

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"There are true bisexuals and there are selective bisexuals strange that on fab a bisexual male hides the fact and straight females pretend to be bi "
so true kola if your truly bi then your proud of your sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having had a couple of bi experiences, I consider myself straight and would not actively look for a bi meet. So in my experience I would describe it as being a choice. In the mmf scenarios I feel it is good to have the 'ability' to be bi - or just play it straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't like any labels, you like who you like and it shouldn't need to have a label put on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are true bisexuals and there are selective bisexuals strange that on fab a bisexual male hides the fact and straight females pretend to be bi "

lol how true

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

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It is strange why men hide it so much but women have no issues in saying they are bi.

I think it's all to do with acceptance but you think on a site such as this is would be so much easier xxx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have always been bisexual. It was difficult at school but from my art school days, it and I flourished

I would not & never have hidden it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 100% straight

The Bi/curious thing I tried back in my 20's, not for me

Only guy I'm into is myself

Love women too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think all of mankind is bi but...... It is possible to be straight by experience with both genders if say for example a man claims to be straight but yet never tried or experamented with a male then how would they know of they haven't tried?

Attraction isn't just looks it's also about touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My feeling is that no one is 100% anything. We are all on a sliding scale and as has been said it is individuals that attract us. If we have to use labels we choose the one that suits our purpose /desires best at the time.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Sorry but the two comments above simply arnt true in my experiance I dont like dick no matter how pretty the person is I dont do bum love even if its female so the concept that if I try I would like is wrong as the thought is enough to make me gag as im sure it makes gay males itchy horrible thinking of sex with a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think all of mankind is bi but...... It is possible to be straight by experience with both genders if say for example a man claims to be straight but yet never tried or experamented with a male then how would they know of they haven't tried?

Attraction isn't just looks it's also about touch"

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I think a lot of girls will pretend to be bi and go along wit h it to turn guys on to be honest. Where as the chances they'd ever meet up on their own with a girl are non existant. at least that seems to be the impression I get from a lot of bi girls on this site.

I don't want to offend anyone it's just from experience

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

It's in my blood ...was attracted to females aswell as males since a kid.....I have a type I got for in men and woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of girls will pretend to be bi and go along wit h it to turn guys on to be honest. Where as the chances they'd ever meet up on their own with a girl are non existant. at least that seems to be the impression I get from a lot of bi girls on this site.

I don't want to offend anyone it's just from experience"

I have to agree with you on the some women do try the bisexuality thing to please the guys

But imho if it came down to the fact I had to do this to try attract guys attention I would be off here. If my profile alone can't attract men then I would need to ask myself what am I doing wrong.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I don't want to offend anyone it's just from experience"
I have met females on my own many times but my preference is definitely for men so my option for fun would always be ffm or mmff.

I have in the past met couples where it's quite clear the woman feels tense and really isn't into it at all and yes it's wrong to do it for someone other than ourself but then again so many people's aim on here is pleasing their partners.

But in all honesty you would be amazed the amount of closet bi's there are on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont put Bi as my sexuality on here. Any single woman on here should be able to tell you why!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But in all honesty you would be amazed the amount of closet bi's there are on here. "

oh way more than you'd know

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

But in all honesty you would be amazed the amount of closet bi's there are on here.

oh way more than you'd know"
trust me I know

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I don't want to offend anyone it's just from experienceI have met females on my own many times but my preference is definitely for men so my option for fun would always be ffm or mmff.

But in all honesty you would be amazed the amount of closet bi's there are on here. "

Ahhh again I don't mean everyone and I certainly wouldn't want to offend any ladies who do enjoy being bi!

Was just the feeling I got from a lot of the girls I've spoke to they seem to be up for it because their bf is turned on by it rather than themselves wanting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of labels myself but as a white middle aged professional English heterosexual man I can confirm that they come in useful when your hands are tied behind your back and you have to get her panties (love that word) off with only your teeth. You can grab hold of the label and pull!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I don't want to offend anyone it's just from experienceI have met females on my own many times but my preference is definitely for men so my option for fun would always be ffm or mmff.

But in all honesty you would be amazed the amount of closet bi's there are on here.

Ahhh again I don't mean everyone and I certainly wouldn't want to offend any ladies who do enjoy being bi!

Was just the feeling I got from a lot of the girls I've spoke to they seem to be up for it because their bf is turned on by it rather than themselves wanting it

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no its ok didn't take your comments personally but I fully understand what you ment xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to offend anyone it's just from experience"

I've found this on here, I've met with girls who when it got down to it only wanted receive. Also spoke to couples where the female doesn't go below the waist

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By *tarburst_88Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I don't want to offend anyone it's just from experience

I've found this on here, I've met with girls who when it got down to it only wanted receive. Also spoke to couples where the female doesn't go below the waist

I know.. Totes selfish eh.. although I am more than happy to give(or receive) from any nice ladies who are actually bi

Nothing like some shameless advertising eh haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I don't want to offend anyone it's just from experience

I've found this on here, I've met with girls who when it got down to it only wanted receive. Also spoke to couples where the female doesn't go below the waist

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had this too its amazing how many think they are bi just because they kiss a woman or lick a pair of boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what would people class as bi fem as there's loads of bi-curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi curious is someone willing to try sex with someone of their own sex but will either like it enough to want more in which case they become Bisexual or they won't and in which case will choose to live a straight lifestyle.

Bisexual is someone who has sex with someone of their own sex on a regular basis with no holds barred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So does that mean that kissing someone of the same sex sucking boobs or sucking each oothers cock .

Does that make them straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there should be a new tag something like Bi-Nowandagaincauseivedonethecuriousbitbutnottotallysexual

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"So does that mean that kissing someone of the same sex sucking boobs or sucking each oothers cock .

Does that make them straight

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snogging a woman or sucking her boobs in my opinion would make you biplayful in my opinion.

Sucking cock regularly would definitely make you bisexual or gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what I was thinking about really Bi-Playful - covers it all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I was thinking about really Bi-Playful - covers it all really

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"That's what I was thinking about really Bi-Playful - covers it all really

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yeah bisexual to me is someone who has full sex with the same sex.

Bi curious is someone thinking of it.

And biplayful is soft play ie kissing or maybe lickung boobs but not full sex.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"That's what I was thinking about really Bi-Playful - covers it all really

yeah bisexual to me is someone who has full sex with the same sex.

Bi curious is someone thinking of it.

And biplayful is soft play ie kissing or maybe lickung boobs but not full sex."
licking*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But sucking cock isn't full sex either

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"But sucking cock isn't full sex either

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sucking cock is a sexual act it's no different to a woman going down on a woman that is sex so in my opinion bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a great post, but Christ what nonsense with some of the comments posted.

My situation is I love women, and respect everything they stand for and respect a beautiful woman, nothing better that having sex or making love with a gorgeous girl/lady.

However, while M on F can give the woman a multiple orgasm/ full body orgasm... it is only male with male that I have experience can make a male have FB0 and that is not having sex with a male just hitting and massaging the right areas!

If a female could do that for me then I would be less in need to be with cock!

So whilst I have a fantastic GF who I enjoy great sex/love making with she cannot give me a FBO, that lasts for over a minute, tingles my body from head to toe, makes me shoot to the other end of the room (large room!) and make me scream as cannot control the full body eruption!

So if I didn't get naked with a man I could just have great sex with a 'typical' orgasm... but FBO are the way forward and reason I believe so many males are curious!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people will lie about their sexuality to get their end away with people who have deselected that particular sexuality...

it's being going on for as long as I have been participating on gay/swinging sites and willl be after I am gone from them.

some people just lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree... u got a kind of freaky but cool profile; take you creative in more ways than one, dude!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Ive said there are a lot of closet bi's on here.

And many are under the impression that if they don't have full penetrative sex that doesn't make them bisexuality when it clearly does...there are many many orally bisexuals probably than there are bisexuals that have full sex on this site.

But just because you don't have full sex don't kid yourself on that it doesn't make you bisexual.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

I don't think labelling is important but I do think it's important to be honest....

Whether you suck cock, ride a cock, lick a fanny, etc etc

It's about honesty and respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U kind of right babe, but 'labels' are for objectives and human beings are not objectives!

There is not one of us the same and regardless to which city or state we travel to you will not find another one of yourself, we are all unique!

The only 'labels' human beings should read is on food packages as this would make sure they have the correct source of nutrition and hopefully stop obesity and improve bad health!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Labeling is sadly a society thing on here where people like to know someones sexuallity before playing.

So honesty Is what people want on here in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Labeling is sadly a society thing on here where people like to know someones sexuallity before playing.

So honesty Is what people want on here in my opinion. "

Honesty is best policy I agree when in LTR or looking for a wife/husband... this is a shagging site nothing more and yes possibly a lot less!

Let's not confuse it by getting to emotional or technical!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Labeling is sadly a society thing on here where people like to know someones sexuallity before playing.

So honesty Is what people want on here in my opinion.

Honesty is best policy I agree when in LTR or looking for a wife/husband... this is a shagging site nothing more and yes possibly a lot less!

Let's not confuse it by getting to emotional or technical!

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who was getting emotional and technical I merely stated that the biggest majority on here would rather know the sexuallity of their playmates.

How many times do you read on a profile no bisexuals or someone saying on a forum they would never meet someone who is bisexual when the reality is they have probably met so many closet bi's anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to offend anyone it's just from experience

It attracts me dee but i cant mail you ??

I have to agree with you on the some women do try the bisexuality thing to please the guys

But imho if it came down to the fact I had to do this to try attract guys attention I would be off here. If my profile alone can't attract men then I would need to ask myself what am I doing wrong. "

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By *10NY7USMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

My sexual preferences have evolved over the years and can change dependant on circumstances, sometimes I'm completely off the idea of guys, other times I get excited.

It's fluid.

As stated at the start, it's very much the person I'm attracted to most, rather than gender identification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My sexual preferences have evolved over the years and can change dependant on circumstances, sometimes I'm completely off the idea of guys, other times I get excited.

It's fluid.

As stated at the start, it's very much the person I'm attracted to most, rather than gender identification.

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agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe you are born with it but during the past couple of years I began to realise that I may quite enjoy a Bi experience. I then met a couple and yes I can definitely confirm that I am bisexual and love the dynamic this brings to MMF meets. I have also had a couple of MM meets but to be honest I prefer MMF best.

I pride my honesty so have now updated my profile accordingly. I originally did not put bi in my profile as some people did not wish to meet Bi guys.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I don't believe you are born with it but during the past couple of years I began to realise that I may quite enjoy a Bi experience. I then met a couple and yes I can definitely confirm that I am bisexual and love the dynamic this brings to MMF meets. I have also had a couple of MM meets but to be honest I prefer MMF best.

I pride my honesty so have now updated my profile accordingly. I originally did not put bi in my profile as some people did not wish to meet Bi guys."
so bi being honest has your meets increased,decreased or stayed the same since being honest on your profile?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

By not bi *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NMD I have just changed my profile so that remains to be seen.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"NMD I have just changed my profile so that remains to be seen. "
ah okay I see just wondered what the impact of changing it had been so I guess time will tell xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's hope there is a big increase but then again let's be realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a great post, but Christ what nonsense with some of the comments posted.

My situation is I love women, and respect everything they stand for and respect a beautiful woman, nothing better that having sex or making love with a gorgeous girl/lady.

If a female could do that for me then I would be less in need to be with cock!

So if I didn't get naked with a man I could just have great sex with a 'typical' orgasm... but FBO are the way forward and reason I believe so many males are curious!

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and you still have straight on your profile

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"It's in my blood ...was attracted to females aswell as males since a kid.....I have a type I got for in men and woman

Yep, this. Although I didn't do anything about it until a couple of years ago

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'm not keen on labels either but I would probably describe myself as bi-playful. I kiss women, lick pussy, use toys (although I've yet to experience a strapon).

But I don't want a relationship with a woman. I'd like to have a regular female FB though

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Bi-sexual .... sexual attraction to both sexs some folk seem to muddy the waters with yoir not bisexual unlessyou suck a dick or lick pussy I classify myself as straight as men hold zero sexual intrest to me a gay male would say woman holds no sexual intrest to me willing to let the same sex go down on you for your partners kick is just cheap and nasty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't agree more. If it's a choice it's probably something you are born with anyway. I try to be honest at all times, as Ben stiller says in starsky and hutch "be who you really are, that's what's really cool"

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Mine is still evolving & forever changing (albeit with a vein of solid core preferring men), but I go with the flow if the person is attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was quite bi-curious as a teen, which led to one enjoyable experience. Conformity and behavioural expectation have kept me straight ever since but I imagine, like many others, I'm still curious but repressed. Hairy fat blokes in ill fitting dresses aside, some T girls or fit lads could probably tempt me.

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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

"Maybe there should be a new tag something like Bi-Nowandagaincauseivedonethecuriousbitbutnottotallysexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it's something everyone is born with or do you think it's a lifestyle choice?

Discuss

I don't believe it's either. I think nature AND nurture are responsible. It's part of life some decide to try others don't.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Do you think it's something everyone is born with or do you think it's a lifestyle choice?

Discuss

Not everyone has it there are some of us that are immune

Personally i think its a lifestyle choice for most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think it's something everyone is born with or do you think it's a lifestyle choice?

Discuss

Not everyone has it there are some of us that are immune

Personally i think its a lifestyle choice for most

Kind of opposite with me, I was curious for a while in teens, then tried it and enjoyed it later in life but after a few years grew bored with it and tend to stick to the more beautiful sex of females, I cant really see me turning back to guys unless its a MfM situation.

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area

I am.lucky to have a friend. Do on here who I've known a he'll of a lot longer in the real world who is openly bi and doesn't stigmatise anyone for whatever their choices are. Personally I don't care if someone is male or female if there is a spark there is a spark

Whether the spark ignites into a roaring log for of passion is dependent upon the mood the setting etc

Ditch the labels open the can of fun

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