FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do people block now because they have been told something they don't wish to hear , ie rejection or is it just a trend now , If you don't want or the other person doesn't give you that spark , is it not better to say sorry but not for me and good luck ,,,, Now it just seems people block , Don't get me wrong there are people who do need blocked , I think it has just become an easy thing to do is press a button and block even without reply , is it just me who thinks that's rude and bad manners ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

People block for various reasons.

I block myself for various reasons and those reasons are mine yet some can't seem to accept that and time and time again it's brought up on forums.

No one should be questioned on why they were blocked just accept it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People block for various reasons.

I block myself for various reasons and those reasons are mine yet some can't seem to accept that and time and time again it's brought up on forums.

No one should be questioned on why they were blocked just accept it and move on. "

Totally agree!

Only in a few exceptional circumstances would we think it's rude to be blocked.

We block for several reasons as well. For example If someone has said we're not their type and said no thanks then we'll usually block them, not out of spite but to stop ourselves looking at their pics and potentially messaging them again by accident in the future.

Everyone has their own rules but the block function is there to ensure people aren't bothered by people they don't want to hear from so just take it as that and move on. Some people can't deal with pressure / rejection etc.and if they have an easy way out, they'll take it, it's as simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reasons why I block:

1- you don't meet black guys;

2-you don't meet bi guys even for a straight meet;

3- I've messaged you in the past and you've read and deleted my message without the courtesy of a no thanks reply;

4- you've been abusive.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Just because I can.

It is usually a blessing, doing the blocking or being the blocked

It's cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block because I can it's as simple as that.. I do not need to reply to every single message I get because it dosent say that I have to in the rules, yes its courteous but its also courteous to read a person's profile therefore to stop the same person sending the same message I will just block them that way it saves both our time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't tend to block people very often, only if they can't take no for an answer or have been rude or abusive!

We don't reply to messages if the person clearly hasn't read our profile though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only tend to block if abusive or threatning

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Multitude of reason mostly for wankbaggery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Multitude of reason mostly for wankbaggery "

"Wankbaggery" love that word!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"People block for various reasons.

I block myself for various reasons and those reasons are mine yet some can't seem to accept that and time and time again it's brought up on forums.

No one should be questioned on why they were blocked just accept it and move on.

Totally agree!

Only in a few exceptional circumstances would we think it's rude to be blocked.

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Absolutely spot on why waste your time arguing with someone or receiving abuse when it's so much easier just to block and forget them.

Here for fun not dramas others want to create.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Noone needs to justify to anyone who they block or for what reason....

You are here for you, we are here for us....doesn't mayter about anyone else.....it doesn't matter what others do.....etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block time wasters & people im not interested in

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Mostly I block when the numpty bus arrives in chat room.... Lost count

Or folk in the forums that really push my buttons and I know that I'd never want to meet them, although I've started using the private notes instead of block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been blocking all the abusive posters in the football threads...with very little football being talked about,just a excuse for trolls to bait fellow posters.

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By *teve_D1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's a shame you can't block people on the forums.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums. "

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums. "

Their posts reaffirm that I was right to block

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums.

Their posts reaffirm that I was right to block"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly I block when the numpty bus arrives in chat room.... Lost count

Or folk in the forums that really push my buttons and I know that I'd never want to meet them, although I've started using the private notes instead of block button

Aye...the wheels on the numpty bus certainly do go round and round!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums. "

I don't it's better just to block from private mails.

I find it hilarious watching the monkeys obeying orders & speaking on behalf from the organ grinder

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums.

I don't it's better just to block from private mails.

I find it hilarious watching the monkeys obeying orders & speaking on behalf from the organ grinder

"
lmao now this really made me laugh

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums.

I don't it's better just to block from private mails.

I find it hilarious watching the monkeys obeying orders & speaking on behalf from the organ grinder

Are you saying some like hand up them working them like a puppet and not in a sexy way

Sad !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums.

I don't it's better just to block from private mails.

I find it hilarious watching the monkeys obeying orders & speaking on behalf from the organ grinder

Def have to agree with that lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums.

I don't it's better just to block from private mails.

I find it hilarious watching the monkeys obeying orders & speaking on behalf from the organ grinder

Are you saying some like hand up them working them like a puppet and not in a sexy way

Sad !"

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums.

I don't it's better just to block from private mails.

I find it hilarious watching the monkeys obeying orders & speaking on behalf from the organ grinder

Def have to agree with that lately

Yip but folk see it for themselves

No need for tittle tattle it's seen clearly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame you can't block people on the forums.

I don't it's better just to block from private mails.

I find it hilarious watching the monkeys obeying orders & speaking on behalf from the organ grinder

Def have to agree with that lately

Yip but folk see it for themselves

No need for tittle tattle it's seen clearly

Yeah wud surprise you the ammount of folk who see for themselves

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

anyone who joins forces with others to belittle members, posters or club attendees, should take a long look at themselves before swiping out at others...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyone who joins forces with others to belittle members, posters or club attendees, should take a long look at themselves before swiping out at others..."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a msg to a lady. She replied perhaps if you could spell. And blocked me. One letter out and your gon. It's funny. To be honest you don't want to know these people not worth it. I do agree with the quote above as if u get a knock back U block them no point in trying again.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"anyone who joins forces with others to belittle members, posters or club attendees, should take a long look at themselves before swiping out at others...

Exactly

and that is why, being on the periphery and not involving myself with others has served me very well over the last few years, the crazyness of the years before that taught me a lot, about myself and others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyone who joins forces with others to belittle members, posters or club attendees, should take a long look at themselves before swiping out at others..."

agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sent a msg to a lady. She replied perhaps if you could spell. And blocked me. One letter out and your gon. It's funny. To be honest you don't want to know these people not worth it. I do agree with the quote above as if u get a knock back U block them no point in trying again. "

Some people accidentally press the wrong button or predictive text can kick in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on here for 3 months never met anyone never been verified feel like Twat to be honest. Today I messaged a woman in Birmingham who wanted a photo of me, fair enough I sent her a Photo on KIK and then blocked me and hid her profile!!! I am amazed and also quite sadenned by it, it wasn't an explicit photo but just 1 of me standing fully clothed. P

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

lmfao this post is histerical ....hands out some mirrors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on here for 3 months never met anyone never been verified feel like Twat to be honest. Today I messaged a woman in Birmingham who wanted a photo of me, fair enough I sent her a Photo on KIK and then blocked me and hid her profile!!! I am amazed and also quite sadenned by it, it wasn't an explicit photo but just 1 of me standing fully clothed. P"

Maybe reconised you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyone who joins forces with others to belittle members, posters or club attendees, should take a long look at themselves before swiping out at others..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the story of my life on here !!! send photo receive blocking in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is the story of my life on here !!! send photo receive blocking in return

I wouldnt block coz i didnt like someones pic think thats bit extreme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peoples choice to block, no doubt we are blocked by some, not a problem. Have certainly blocked some from the forums, mainly because of their _iews/comments we would have no interest in meeting them (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still cannot understand it and im amazed this seems to be a bit of a trend on here!

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Noone needs to justify to anyone who they block or for what reason....

You are here for you, we are here for us....doesn't mayter about anyone else.....it doesn't matter what others do.....etc etc "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"That is the story of my life on here !!! send photo receive blocking in return

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I didnt block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block if people haven't read our profile and mail us requesting a meet. Saves any hassle and ping pong mail. We also block fakes, people that say they are one thing but are another, and general numptys.

We figure there's someone doing the same and we are probably getting blocked by others for something so alls fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lmfao this post is histerical ....hands out some mirrors

I know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe reconised you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe reconised you? "

I think your right! I have mirrors and they don't break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block folk that

dont take no for an answer or are complete numpties

auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still cannot understand it and im amazed this seems to be a bit of a trend on here!"

Welcome to fab , you will get used too it and you will have 2 grow a harder skin m8

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By *av xxxMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Mostly they block for no reason to;-)

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Mostly they block for no reason to;-)"
There is always a reason they might not tell you what it is but there is always a reason .

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Mostly they block for no reason to;-)"

You're a mind reader, are you?

Most people have minds, they do things for a reason.

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