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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would scaring of any sort put you off having sex With a partner.

Any sort from facial, on the inside of legs or even stretch marks.

Would anyone see this as a turn off or a reason not to meet just curious on different opinions on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it wouldn't put us off.

I have a couple of scars on my face, one for a removal of a cancerous growth, and he has one on his face. Both aren't that big.

Usually I'm covered in bruises from my dance class, people do look twice at those more.

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

No, wear your scars with pride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, wear your scars with pride "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Absolutely wouldn't bother us at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone perfect ????.... anyone who wont meet cause someone has a scar or stretch marks should have a good look at themselves first..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars on someone else wouldn't be an issue.

I've scaring due to having my kids. The joys of being to posh to push lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Folk can say wouldnt bother tjem as much as they like simple facts of course scars would be an issue same as loss of teeth is a problem

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By *he_batmanMan
over a year ago

Gotham

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest, I've got quite a lot of scars from my younger army days etc. no big ones just lots of wee ones on elbows etc xx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

My scar does bother me always has always will.

I keep it covered at all times.

But as a test to myself I added a photo here on my public gallery and never once has anyone been nasty about it so I know folk are ok about such things.

And if I was to meet someone with a scar I don't think it would bother me either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars wouldn't bother us either, some can even make people look dangerous and sexier!

It comes down a general attraction and although scarring may add or detract from someones looks, we would never not meet someone specifically because they a scar.

J is pretty accident prone and has a few she can show off and I've got a couple of wee ones so yeah, no ones perfect!

S

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

It wouldn't bother me to be honest! Once went with a girl who had breast implants and had scars under both breasts!

I was too mesmerised with the big boobs to worry about scars! Lol

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm thinking the

Majority of folks have some kind of scarring. Whether it be from bumps and scrapes to operational work. Nothing to hide.

Maybe the fact some do try to hide them draws more attention to the scar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 3 children so I've got a few tiger stripes on my tummy and it's certainly never going to be flat. It's something I'm very aware of and would never expect anyone to like . However would hope it wouldnt pit someone off. As a few have said no one is perfect and sometimes the flaws can be the most amazing things about a person X

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC

Scars and stretch marks are not a out of what so ever I have scars all over my hands have some on my face but I never hear anyone noticing r even caring for that matter haha

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Scars here from breast surgery ...taken 2 years to get used to them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got stretch marks from pregnancy. Had c section hysterectomy at 29 and had breastfeeding surgery 7 years ago with a fair bit of scarring . But they are part of me and my journey in life so I'm not embarrassed about them now at all . No 2 bodies are the same so be proud of them xx

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was severely burnt as a baby on my leg. Resulted in a series of operations to my ankle and lower leg. I have ever since lived with the scars. Not with pride but neither with shame.

I have no option but to accept them as they are a part of me and tell part of my story. To reject my scars is to reject me.

Shy x

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Amanda Redman has the right idea. No need to cover up all the time. It's part of who she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy it has always amazed me that the ladies are all very body concious. To the extent of covering up certain bits even when in bed. I understand that they themselves see it as not nice, but honestly , none of us guys are Greek Gods with Brad Pitt looks. Moobs, pot belly, baldy heads, saggy arses and the rest......enough about me LOL A lady is sexy for who she is and how she acts... not cause she has no wobbly bits or no stretch marks.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The ladies get a hard time from the media re little (or large) imperfections. It's hardly surprising some find the need to cover up at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars don't bother us either, and my scars don't bother me either,

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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Stirlingshire

I thought this was going to be about giving someone a fright hehe

anyway, a past girlfriend had a couple of scars on her shoulder, where they had to cut in for an operation. They were just neat lines though, didnt bother me at all and I can't think why it would have done. She's gone now...

thanks for reminding me about that, I'm off to sit and feel kinda depressed for the rest of the night, you bugger

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland


"The ladies get a hard time from the media re little (or large) imperfections. It's hardly surprising some find the need to cover up at times."

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I used to meet someone with scarring around her upper thighs, it didn't bother me in the slightest.

Her constant worry about it, despite many reassurances it didn't bother me did eventually lead to us stopping meeting. She just would never, ever fully relax, it was a shame.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to meet someone with scarring around her upper thighs, it didn't bother me in the slightest.

Her constant worry about it, despite many reassurances it didn't bother me did eventually lead to us stopping meeting. She just would never, ever fully relax, it was a shame.

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I can relate to this as it's scaring in my inner thighs i have and the fear it puts people off can put me off meets

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Glad to see I am not the only one that it bothers we haven't played since op but hey who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars and stretchmarks and lumps and bumps don't bother me in the slightest. I can absolutely understand why some women would worry but my _iew is that it's all the imperfections that make us who we are. Miss Nutella is a real woman and she has things that she's conscious of but I don't see them the way that she does.

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