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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So as some will be aware I'm not meeting and I see occasionally and get responses of "why are you on here if your not meeting?"

Due to some circumstances that arise I.e bereavements,relationships , family life

Do others really have a right to have a gripe about why one has a profile on here or not ?

What's your opinion?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

No they don't, it's none of their business

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

No they don't so don't let it bother you hun.

Many people have a profile on here but ain't meeting and used it purely to keep in touch with friends xxx

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By *inasparklesWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You don't need to justify yourself to anyone. It's your business. Why you do or don't meet. I don't meet off here as most of the guys are deluded. I prefer the club or social scene xxx

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By *obbie glasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm more blunt. Fuck them.

What you do is your business, and this site should be about a community as well as the obvious.

Peace x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more blunt. Fuck them.

What you do is your business, and this site should be about a community as well as the obvious.

Peace x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh no I see what you mean just generally wanted opinions as some may vary from others lol

Personally I couldn't give a shit about being Here and not meeting last I was aware I'm 18+ and met fantastic people lol

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By *r and Mrs SnogalotCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Everyone ie entitled to run their live the way they want.

Unfortunately that means that idiots too are allowed to make posts and send email to other people questioning their choices.

Likewise we have the ability to tell them to f**k off and go crawl back under whatever rock or pile of sh*te they call home, block them and just wait for the next one.

On that note my young nubile friend when are you coming back to glasgow for a night out

Fly xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha dear lord when I win the lotto :p xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're just annoyed that they won't get to tap that

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Wouldn't lose sleep over it thats for sure.

At least you are upfront about it which is not the case with the timewasters on here that have no intention of ever meeting and just want to get their rocks off by being arseholes.

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By *obbie glasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"They're just annoyed that they won't get to tap that "

Well...... There is that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're just annoyed that they won't get to tap that

Well...... There is that!! "
maybe hide your profile so you don't get any mail asking why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they don't, it's none of their business"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So as some will be aware I'm not meeting and I see occasionally and get responses of "why are you on here if your not meeting?"

Due to some circumstances that arise I.e bereavements,relationships , family life

Do others really have a right to have a gripe about why one has a profile on here or not ?

What's your opinion?"
no they dont,you are here for your own personal enjoyment wether that being just chatting,socials/coffee meets,clubs or play meets,no-one has any right to question you or anyone elses reasons for being here.

If they dont like it,stuff them.

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC


"So as some will be aware I'm not meeting and I see occasionally and get responses of "why are you on here if your not meeting?"

Due to some circumstances that arise I.e bereavements,relationships , family life

Do others really have a right to have a gripe about why one has a profile on here or not ?

What's your opinion?"

Hey I have similar things happen I'm new to this whole seen so I struggle to get a lot of people to actually speak I'm shy as hell so that never helps but whenever anyone asks to meet I get unsure mainly it's because I'm nerves? And they tend just to change there mind and question? Why I'm on here if I to nerves to meet? It makes me want to delete this but I made this for the intention to meet lovely people and maybe find someone that would help me out my shell? So fuck them it's our choice not there's and this site docent have rules that we need to meet everyone that messages us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If just looking to chat try Facebook

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If just looking to chat try Facebook "

And may I ask why I cannot come on here and chat? There is a allocated chat room and forums are people who are not meeting expected to take clothes off and use toys or even have sex on cam and create posts to have cybersex to keep fab running?

I only really keep chatting and arrange social meets with the good people I have met on here.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I've had the same issue. No one's business but my own. And we have has much right to just chat on here as on FB.

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC


"If just looking to chat try Facebook "

I plan on meeting some people if I talk to them and they actually seem interested in the meet plus as far as I'm aware I can't go on my Facebook or even text my friends without other half having to look and moaning and everything having to be her way or no way the reason I wanted to make this personally don't expect anyone to like the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If just looking to chat try Facebook

And may I ask why I cannot come on here and chat? There is a allocated chat room and forums are people who are not meeting expected to take clothes off and use toys or even have sex on cam and create posts to have cybersex to keep fab running?

I only really keep chatting and arrange social meets with the good people I have met on here."

You are free to do what you want...but at times this site is more like facebook than a sex site...there are to many time wasters...just my opinion

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"If just looking to chat try Facebook

And may I ask why I cannot come on here and chat? There is a allocated chat room and forums are people who are not meeting expected to take clothes off and use toys or even have sex on cam and create posts to have cybersex to keep fab running?

I only really keep chatting and arrange social meets with the good people I have met on here.

You are free to do what you want...but at times this site is more like facebook than a sex site...there are to many time wasters...just my opinion "
are you saying she's a timewaster because she's not meeting?

That's what it looks like your saying.

Vixen has made many friends here and if she wants to stay and keep in touch that's upto her.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"If just looking to chat try Facebook

And may I ask why I cannot come on here and chat? There is a allocated chat room and forums are people who are not meeting expected to take clothes off and use toys or even have sex on cam and create posts to have cybersex to keep fab running?

I only really keep chatting and arrange social meets with the good people I have met on here.

You are free to do what you want...but at times this site is more like facebook than a sex site...there are to many time wasters...just my opinion "
why are they timewasters if they want to chat and thats all that aint timewasting folk believing that only hardcore fuck me now types are all thats here are the timewasters surely

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC


"If just looking to chat try Facebook

And may I ask why I cannot come on here and chat? There is a allocated chat room and forums are people who are not meeting expected to take clothes off and use toys or even have sex on cam and create posts to have cybersex to keep fab running?

I only really keep chatting and arrange social meets with the good people I have met on here.

You are free to do what you want...but at times this site is more like facebook than a sex site...there are to many time wasters...just my opinion are you saying she's a timewaster because she's not meeting?

That's what it looks like your saying.

Vixen has made many friends here and if she wants to stay and keep in touch that's upto her. "

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If I read your profile correctly you say you are only here to chat, so you are not wasting anyone's time if they can't read... Not your problem!

It's your profile, use it as you wish.

Too many people on here trying to tell people what they should or shouldn't do!

They can get lost imo

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I justify fuck all on here, I am here to do what I seek, when I want to do it and with whom I choose.

End of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If just looking to chat try Facebook

And may I ask why I cannot come on here and chat? There is a allocated chat room and forums are people who are not meeting expected to take clothes off and use toys or even have sex on cam and create posts to have cybersex to keep fab running?

I only really keep chatting and arrange social meets with the good people I have met on here.

You are free to do what you want...but at times this site is more like facebook than a sex site...there are to many time wasters...just my opinion "

I see what your saying about the Facebook part I.e some statuses that appear there are many time wasters and fakes on the site. But maybe being a bit defensive here as i think this thread I've started is coming across as about my profile I was merely stating that and curious to know what people's opinions on the "no meeting" part of it I haven't met off this site since before june last year due to circumstances.

It does clearly state what I am on here for and why I am not meeting surely that's a indication to me being honest and respectful of any rejection that may come a users way as I feel it would be disrespectful to say " sorry I'm not meeting " and have nothing on my profile

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC


"If just looking to chat try Facebook

And may I ask why I cannot come on here and chat? There is a allocated chat room and forums are people who are not meeting expected to take clothes off and use toys or even have sex on cam and create posts to have cybersex to keep fab running?

I only really keep chatting and arrange social meets with the good people I have met on here.

You are free to do what you want...but at times this site is more like facebook than a sex site...there are to many time wasters...just my opinion

I see what your saying about the Facebook part I.e some statuses that appear there are many time wasters and fakes on the site. But maybe being a bit defensive here as i think this thread I've started is coming across as about my profile I was merely stating that and curious to know what people's opinions on the "no meeting" part of it I haven't met off this site since before june last year due to circumstances.

It does clearly state what I am on here for and why I am not meeting surely that's a indication to me being honest and respectful of any rejection that may come a users way as I feel it would be disrespectful to say " sorry I'm not meeting " and have nothing on my profile "

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Why care what anyone thinks? Justify yourself to noone ....block and move on if anyone starts .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I read your profile correctly you say you are only here to chat, so you are not wasting anyone's time if they can't read... Not your problem!

It's your profile, use it as you wish.

Too many people on here trying to tell people what they should or shouldn't do!

They can get lost imo "

Is the irony of what you just said lost on you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too havnt been.really meeting for past five months due to a tradgedy in my life i didnt delete fab but gradually came back.to chat and to escape a bit had many a bad remark saying timewaster etc so to the ops question no one has a right to gripe if your not meeting

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Admin let people use the site how they wish as long as it is within rules, if you don't want mail from people questioning that then Admin give you the tools to stop mail from your filters. If you also empty the"Looking for" on your profile it cuts down on even more mail.

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If I read your profile correctly you say you are only here to chat, so you are not wasting anyone's time if they can't read... Not your problem!

It's your profile, use it as you wish.

Too many people on here trying to tell people what they should or shouldn't do!

They can get lost imo

Is the irony of what you just said lost on you?"

I am a French speaker, I hope people got the idea of what I was meaning... but ty for pointing it out

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By *yan19Man
over a year ago

NLC


"If I read your profile correctly you say you are only here to chat, so you are not wasting anyone's time if they can't read... Not your problem!

It's your profile, use it as you wish.

Too many people on here trying to tell people what they should or shouldn't do!

They can get lost imo

Is the irony of what you just said lost on you?

I am a French speaker, I hope people got the idea of what I was meaning... but ty for pointing it out"

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By *inkyHnSCouple
over a year ago

The Council of Elrond


"If just looking to chat try Facebook

And may I ask why I cannot come on here and chat? There is a allocated chat room and forums are people who are not meeting expected to take clothes off and use toys or even have sex on cam and create posts to have cybersex to keep fab running?

I only really keep chatting and arrange social meets with the good people I have met on here.

You are free to do what you want...but at times this site is more like facebook than a sex site...there are to many time wasters...just my opinion

I see what your saying about the Facebook part I.e some statuses that appear there are many time wasters and fakes on the site. But maybe being a bit defensive here as i think this thread I've started is coming across as about my profile I was merely stating that and curious to know what people's opinions on the "no meeting" part of it I haven't met off this site since before june last year due to circumstances.

It does clearly state what I am on here for and why I am not meeting surely that's a indication to me being honest and respectful of any rejection that may come a users way as I feel it would be disrespectful to say " sorry I'm not meeting " and have nothing on my profile "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they don't, it's none of their business"

This.... sometimes I cba meeting doesn't mean I need to justify anything to anyone

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By *all saulMan
over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

nothing wrong with being here to chat or check forums etc not meeting doesn't mean cant take part in socials etc so sorry no don't agree not meeting makes you a time waster

as for the op welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So as some will be aware I'm not meeting and I see occasionally and get responses of "why are you on here if your not meeting?"

Due to some circumstances that arise I.e bereavements,relationships , family life

Do others really have a right to have a gripe about why one has a profile on here or not ?

What's your opinion?"

It's your profile to meet or not meet as you choose. Anyone questions it tell them to bugger off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO , your profile, your life and your choice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said earlier maybe hide your profile or as rugby suggested use all your filters so you don't get hassle or abuse

Some... And I do say some fems on here moan about all the 100s of mail they get everyday blah blah but excuse me if your profile pics are of you with yer bits oot or recent veris sure guys are gonna try their luck?

As for not meeting that's entirely up to the indevidual but the clue is in the name of the site?

Maybe add the friends you have made to Facebook instead lol

Auds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok think I better make this clear ...... Again as it doesn't seem my post wasn't clear enough so I will type it again this wasn't a "rant" off post I came across someone asking why came up with a idea to ask you all a question I don't give a shit whether people have a problem with my profile whatsoever I know how to hide my profile I lnow how to use my filters

I was merely asking for other opinions not a judgment on my profile nor my intentions on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say they have the right to gripe (as long as it's not in a nasty or abusive manner). And you have the right to totally ignore.

Simple. Next question.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Vixen, do what you want to do and use your profile how you wish to, other people's opinions don't matter.

If they don't like it they can move along

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