FabSwingers.com forum: "You know who you are" updates.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just going to stop it? It's not big or clever.

Well done. You've had a meet. If you enjoyed it - then great. Message the person direct. Going public is pure attention seeking.

And if any one responds with "each to their own" that's another of my pet hates so I'll stab them with a sharpened hamster.

I'm away back to crawl under my rock now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I dont mind flirty status updates it's their profiles and I'd rather see you know who you are than actually naming the person.

Updates can be fun and long as they are discreet.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Deary deary me,Attention seeking on a swingers site.

Where will it all end,

if we're not careful,

some members will be shagging other members,

in some kind of sex,

With a no strings attached kinda arrangement.

Ooooooooo!! perish the thought,

Tut tut tut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I click on in the morning and some if the local updates makes me wanna throw my breakfast back up!!

Boak

Ps... Sharpened hamster???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ps... Sharpened hamster???

A common phrase.

And I quote. - "Small, deadly and easily concealed in the event of an unexpected search, these are the ultimate street fighting weapon. May be used either in hand-to-hand (melee) combat, or thrown. Variations on the Sharpened Hamster include setting it on fire (Molotov Hamster) or coating it with a toxic residue (Poisoned Hamster Dart).

A good sharpened hamster can do a lot of damage to most mammals."

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Just had a lovely breakfast, cooked by a lovely lady, you know who you are. Oops.............sorry OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a lovely breakfast, cooked by a lovely lady, you know who you are. Oops.............sorry OP.

Sorry about the links Bothy. I know you prefer square sausage but each to their own......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,why care

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ps... Sharpened hamster???

A common phrase.

A good sharpened hamster can do a lot of damage to most mammals.""

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Ps... Sharpened hamster???

A common phrase.

A good sharpened hamster can do a lot of damage to most mammals.""

Step away from the hamster with your hands in the air!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the "I've just seen someone I knows husband on here" updates that annoy me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deary deary me,Attention seeking on a swingers site.

Where will it all end,

if we're not careful,

some members will be shagging other members,

in some kind of sex,

With a no strings attached kinda arrangement.

Ooooooooo!! perish the thought,

Tut tut tut.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Don't those kind of updates add to the secrecy, discretion and naughtiness of the swinging scene though?

Personally we don't like status messages or forum posts that try and dictate what others should or shouldn't do with their time.

(Mr).

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it's words on a screen, nothing more...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't those kind of updates add to the secrecy, discretion and naughtiness of the swinging scene though?

(Mr). "

Nope. If you want to be secret and discrete you communicate privately with the individual.

But then again, I suppose being SEEN to be part of the game is actually a more important thing for many on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just 3 sleeps... you know who you are

Sorry I couldn't resist.

Like someone else said its just words on a screen. It means nothing to me and I take very little notice of most things I read on this site.

Its sweet if its genuine excitenent or something. However been here long enough to know such messages are often point scoring attempts to upset or gain a reaction from someone else! Actions speak far louder than words though xx

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Don't those kind of updates add to the secrecy, discretion and naughtiness of the swinging scene though?

(Mr).

Nope. If you want to be secret and discrete you communicate privately with the individual.

But then again, I suppose being SEEN to be part of the game is actually a more important thing for many on here. "

What on earth's your problem OP? Not getting it, eh? Or not getting enough attention yourself?

As has been said a hundred times, people use this site the way they want to. End of!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"it's words on a screen, nothing more..."

Just this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah. In comes the self appointed ladies champion Bothy. Yes, yes we all know you're in a relationship with another Fabber and getting some. Smashing.

If you read my first OP you'll notice it was a fairly tongue in cheek comment on a pet grumble of mine. Nothing I was losing any sleep over but just adding a we conversation in a Forum. I'd thought the sharpened hamsters comment was enough to show I'm not writing to my MP or anything.

Your original comeback was in the same vein. all good and well. However, as I'm not in the Tufty club (ask your parents kids) my post is contrived to be 'Dictating' what others should do by the secret Mods.

As View said, it's just words. But to some in the forum 'outsiders' aren't allowed a opinion clearly. Guaranteed I wouldn't have had same response if I had boobs and a fandango. Lol. No worries. I'll get back to chatting and meeting people and leave the forums to same dozen or so folk slapping each others backs. Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had me at fandango

Ps... I'm still giggling at the hamster lol

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Ah. In comes the self appointed ladies champion Bothy. Yes, yes we all know you're in a relationship with another Fabber and getting some. Smashing. "

OP, haven't a clue what I've said or done to rattle your cage, but all your nonsense is suggesting inherent jealousy issues of one sort or another, in which case you have my pity.

It's also becoming a bit wearing, but better people than you have tried similarly, and given up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OP, haven't a clue what I've said or done to rattle your cage, but all your nonsense is suggesting inherent jealousy issues of one sort or another, in which case you have my pity.

It's also becoming a bit wearing, but better people than you have tried similarly, and given up."

Yes oh Great One.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

"Ah. In comes the self appointed ladies champion Bothy. Yes, yes we all know you're in a relationship with another Fabber and getting some. Smashing.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Guaranteed I wouldn't have had same response if I had boobs and a fandango. Lol. . "

from me, the very same reply

don't let people put you off posting, do your thing

welcome and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with View ..... don't let others dictate what you post or say on sites like these ...... change what you are or who you are to suit others and YOUR the looser !!

Be yourself .... post and say what you feel and think !!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I agree with View ..... don't let others dictate what you post or say on sites like these ...... change what you are or who you are to suit others and YOUR the looser !!

Be yourself .... post and say what you feel and think !!!"
spot on Grid I always have done and always will do.

Some don't like me for it but that's their problem not mine.

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

We are here to please us...no one else....we do what pleases us .

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The longer people are on here, the more they evolve, their tastes change, people will enter their lives and stay, or leave. People will like you or dislike you and that is the same as everyday life.

Swinging can bring out the best in people, it can also bring out the more exploitative behaviours as people seek out what they want.

Just be true to yourself and keep it authentic, the second you start to lose those, RUN.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"The longer people are on here, the more they evolve, their tastes change, people will enter their lives and stay, or leave. People will like you or dislike you and that is the same as everyday life.

Swinging can bring out the best in people, it can also bring out the more exploitative behaviours as people seek out what they want.

Just be true to yourself and keep it authentic, the second you start to lose those, RUN."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deary deary me,Attention seeking on a swingers site.

Where will it all end,

if we're not careful,

some members will be shagging other members,

in some kind of sex,

With a no strings attached kinda arrangement.

Ooooooooo!! perish the thought,

Tut tut tut.

Surely not, that would be appalling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The longer people are on here, the more they evolve, their tastes change, people will enter their lives and stay, or leave. People will like you or dislike you and that is the same as everyday life.

Swinging can bring out the best in people, it can also bring out the more exploitative behaviours as people seek out what they want.

Just be true to yourself and keep it authentic, the second you start to lose those, RUN."

If only some would allow others to be themselves and not try rule the roost not everyones _iews are the same but some get nasty when there is no need its like a school playground at times on here

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"The longer people are on here, the more they evolve, their tastes change, people will enter their lives and stay, or leave. People will like you or dislike you and that is the same as everyday life.

Swinging can bring out the best in people, it can also bring out the more exploitative behaviours as people seek out what they want.

Just be true to yourself and keep it authentic, the second you start to lose those, RUN.

If only some would allow others to be themselves and not try rule the roost not everyones _iews are the same but some get nasty when there is no need its like a school playground at times on here"

it reflects life

all the chatrooms are at times

all the forums are at times

the club scene is and the need to fit in with the masses....

being on the periphery and dipping in and out serves me well

I evolved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all meant to be here for fun excitment escape tho away from real life

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"We are all meant to be here for fun excitment escape tho away from real life

good luck with that

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

"I agree with View ..... don't let others dictate what you post or say on sites like these ...... change what you are or who you are to suit others and YOUR the looser !!

Be yourself .... post and say what you feel and think !!!"

Couldn't agree more.

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By *obbie glasgowMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Deary deary me,Attention seeking on a swingers site.

Where will it all end,

if we're not careful,

some members will be shagging other members,

in some kind of sex,

With a no strings attached kinda arrangement.

Ooooooooo!! perish the thought,

Tut tut tut.

Ha ha - love it

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