FabSwingers.com forum: knockbacks

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

How good are you when someone turns you down.

Do you feel shit and feel down for a while?

Do you say oh well Next!!

Or something else?

I think I'm pretty good with accepting being turned down at least I've made a new chat friend if nothing else.. So I'm definitely a NEXT Kinda girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet to get as far as a knockback, sure I'll be disappointed when it happens, but I'd hope to be grown up about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I just accept the fact I aint their kind of girl and move on x

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By *nonandyMan
over a year ago

Near Glasgow

Some of the best friends av made on here have told me am not there type so its not the end of the world but I do find it puts me done I feel dead defeatist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a knock back,thank them for replying,then move on.

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By *oldenknobMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I never feel down (unless she asks me lol .) that only makes it easier to show that person u are an adult and let them see u are a fun person to be near . And what fun they will miss lol

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Are you having a laff, knock backs on here, pffftttt ,

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I never feel down (unless she asks me lol .) that only makes it easier to show that person u are an adult and let them see u are a fun person to be near . And what fun they will miss lol "
yes and for some to realise what a near miss they had when their knock back wasn't accepted to well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place would be murder for anyone who couldn't handle being knocked back, you need to take it and move on

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Take it on the chin and move on, bit long I'm the tooth to get upset lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"This place would be murder for anyone who couldn't handle being knocked back, you need to take it and move on"
yep totally agree

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Take it on the chin and move on, bit long I'm the tooth to get upset lol

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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Stirlingshire

I was knocked back by someone one here about a week ago when I'd just joined. They actually sent me a hello rather than the other way about, then they blocked me lol. I didnt feel sad for not being their type, but felt it was a bit harshly done at the time.

At least they were honest if a bit harsh, have had worse hehe

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I was knocked back by someone one here about a week ago when I'd just joined. They actually sent me a hello rather than the other way about, then they blocked me lol. I didnt feel sad for not being their type, but felt it was a bit harshly done at the time.

At least they were honest if a bit harsh, have had worse hehe

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I don't understand that myself and there is nothing to stop you from still chatting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had that many knock backs my arse is made of rubber ie I bounce

No point on dwelling on what might have been

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By *ocknrollerMan
over a year ago

Glasgow/Stirlingshire

At least they were honest if a bit harsh, have had worse hehe

I don't understand that myself and there is nothing to stop you from still chatting lol"

Thats what I had been thinking too, but I'm totally ok with it now, just some people are nice n polite, others are weird and rude. someone else said hello almost straight away so quite happy with how it worked out.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

At least they were honest if a bit harsh, have had worse hehe

I don't understand that myself and there is nothing to stop you from still chatting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knock backs are just how it goes here...everyone gets them...we are defined by how well we react.

Me personally just think that's a shame...as I know it would have been such fun...then it's next...

I am pretty selective as I like a chat first to see if there is anything happening...it's more than just sex it's the anticipation and the excitement.

But maybe that just me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are more your sort of 'next!' type of folk. That is when we get a meet anyway. You've no idea the porkies being told on some people's profiles. That's another reason we are more likely to do the knocking back!

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I just wish them all the best and happy swinging and move on!

Don't understand why some guys and even girls start the abuse!

Do they think they will turn round and say! Ok he / she has called me whatever I think I made a mistake there should have met them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask,,so never get knocked back

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By *oldenknobMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Yes u got that one right hun !! When is ur next social nyte .i had meeting u all and met other.s downstairs that I knew had 1or 5 dances I think dj thought I was having a fit lol x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Yes u got that one right hun !! When is ur next social nyte .i had meeting u all and met other.s downstairs that I knew had 1or 5 dances I think dj thought I was having a fit lol x "
next social is 27th feb which I believe ur already down for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the good way the bad. Eeeek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never risk asking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky enough not to be knocked back yet ?? Lot Easyer for women as we are well out numbered on here.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am very cool with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't really bother me as I'm quite confident anyway. I shave my hair and get knocked back every now and again because I'm 'bald' but I don't see it that way because I choose to shave it lol

I just thank people for taking time to reply and wish them well. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother us, and would hope people would be mature enough to accept that not everyone's gonna fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't bother us, and would hope people would be mature enough to accept that not everyone's gonna fancy them

Really,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep,really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep,really

aye right,,pull the other one its got bells on it

I almost believed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't got far enough to be "knocked back"

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't sleep properly for about a week after it as it doesn't happen very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been knocked back yet from a guy ... I say yet as iv never made the 1st move in asking a guy lol

Cpls yip we have had a no thanks or an ignored message but hey ho we can live with it lol

We ain't that far up our own asses that we think everyone wants to meet us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean some people actually agree to meet others!!!!!!!!!!

I had just assumed from my experience that knockbacks were the norm, I get enough practice at it

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

What's the saying..?

'Whats fir ye, wont go by ye'

Sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My attitude is"fuck it"and move on

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Am a 'move on' man myself.

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By *otGeorgeClooneyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Firstly I like to say how shocked i was that someone knocked back Nawty_MissDynomite !

Does it count as a knock back if the other party don't reply or don't turn up for a meet ?

Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a few knockbacks but haho not a prob as everyone has different tastes xxx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Firstly I like to say how shocked i was that someone knocked back Nawty_MissDynomite !

Does it count as a knock back if the other party don't reply or don't turn up for a meet ?

Next. "
lol I didn't say I had been knocked back.... But yes I have in the past and that's absolutely fine as we're not all going to like everyone we meet.

But where knockbacks have come by either party I have still remaind friends with most of them.

It's about being adult enough and knowing how to behave when someone doesn't want to take things any further after a coffee meet.

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By *otGeorgeClooneyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly I like to say how shocked i was that someone knocked back Nawty_MissDynomite !

Does it count as a knock back if the other party don't reply or don't turn up for a meet ?

Next. "

Funnist thing iv seen on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had my fair share of knockers!

back..

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By *lorryMan
over a year ago

dalry

I get a knock back all the time

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I get a knock back all the time "
it's how you deal with it that counts tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy asked me today to come to his office for a fuck, I said I'm not a snob but that's not for me so said nah sorry and his reply was it obvious with your Grammar your not a snob then blocked me haha

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1 OP Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"A guy asked me today to come to his office for a fuck, I said I'm not a snob but that's not for me so said nah sorry and his reply was it obvious with your Grammar your not a snob then blocked me haha

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This made me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knockbacks are just the norm for me so i am used to it

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