FabSwingers.com forum: New To This

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all I am new to this site and have now been a member for 3 weeks. Was wondering what is the best way to approach. I mean I thought best to send a message which is quite casual and chatty with no "sex sex SEX" involved. Then after getting to know the person then see where things go. Is my idea wrong?

David.

p.s. Dont see many people with their faces on show either?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what id say is the right idea.

As for face pics, you're right there too.

By *lasgow sthMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Im quite newish here as well my advice would be just take it easy.

And dont pester people if you message someone and get no answer then thats cool just leave it. That person might get back to you in a month because a couple youve met spoke highly of you.

Dont rush anything and be clear what you will do and wont do.

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Hi and welcome.

Just be yourself when sending out emails take time to read people's profiles and make reference to what's on it so people know you've read it.

Maybe think about getting yourself along to the many social events that are advertised in the Scotland forums its definitely a great way to get yourself known just ask any single guys who have done this lol.

As for face photos many people choose to be discreet with face photos for many reasons but don't forget most do have them in private.

Good luck and have fun xx

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well thanks for the welcomes and advice. I think maybe a visit to one of the get-together may be a good idea. I guess there are days where is it "bring your friend day"?

By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Well thanks for the welcomes and advice. I think maybe a visit to one of the get-together may be a good idea. I guess there are days where is it "bring your friend day"?"
they are posted on the forums scroll through and I'll find them.

And yes friends are welcome if they are members xx