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"Vanilla sex & swinging sex I've always been the same not going to change because I'm on a swing meet I'm who I am in bed not what someone Wants to me to be & had no complaints so far "so you had gangbangs and mmf 3sms in your vanilla life? | |||
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"Vanilla sex & swinging sex I've always been the same not going to change because I'm on a swing meet I'm who I am in bed not what someone Wants to me to be & had no complaints so far "Same for me, infact it could have been the opposite way round. ... wanting more fun in the bedroom brought me to swinging  | |||
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"Vanilla sex & swinging sex I've always been the same not going to change because I'm on a swing meet I'm who I am in bed not what someone Wants to me to be & had no complaints so far "Good answer I'm with you on this 
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"Vanilla sex & swinging sex I've always been the same not going to change because I'm on a swing meet I'm who I am in bed not what someone Wants to me to be & had no complaints so far so you had gangbangs and mmf 3sms in your vanilla life? "why do some on this site think of sex diffrently I have had far more sexual encounters far from the norm outside of fab and had some pretty plain lights off sex on fab | |||
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"Vanilla sex & swinging sex I've always been the same not going to change because I'm on a swing meet I'm who I am in bed not what someone Wants to me to be & had no complaints so far so you had gangbangs and mmf 3sms in your vanilla life? why do some on this site think of sex diffrently I have had far more sexual encounters far from the norm outside of fab and had some pretty plain lights off sex on fab"and that's the question I've asked you mIght have had more serial experiences outwith swinging but my guess is more people lead more of a vanilla life before they joined fab I know I did. | |||
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"No your original question was do you think swinging has made you more adventurous as an aside what is vanilla because im sure most in your life dont know your sexual tastes so why assume the rest of folk are boring vanilla plain janes which is what I take the overused term vanilla to mean " yet again kola you turn an innocent ask into something else so please don't try and manipulate what I've said yet again. The question is there for all to see and no one is judging anyone. | |||
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"Def made me more adventurous! If you had told me 5 years ago about what I have been lucky enough to have experienced in the past year or so then I would have laughed! I think being about people who accept you for the pervert you are is good! " yeah I'm definitely more adventurous as a swing than I ever was in vanilla life  | |||
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"I'd say more confident Still loads I wouldn't do so adventurous not so much Auds x "confifence is something I still struggle but with the right people I've overcome a lot | |||
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"The way I look at it is... If someone wants to meet me then they obviously like the look of me and that gives me the confidence that I need When I meet a guy I want to leave that guy with the biggest smile on his face that he won't forget in a while It's defo a role play sort if thing ... I'm the wife mum mate most days ... But some days.... I'm Auds
If that makes sense? Lol "Totally with you on that Aduds. I know for me that swinging has brought out the nawty little voxen in me and this is my time | |||
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"Swinging has brought out the naughty side in me and also now im very considerate of other peoples sexuality i did enjoy sex before my swinging life bit now enjoy it more Also made some fantastic friends on here and its not only because of swinging But i must say i often wonder if folks think im getting to old for it and should stop "I've always said Heather when it stops being fun it's time to stop and hang up my kinky boots and walk out the door . So as long as it's still fun for you then carry on xxx | |||
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"Swinging has brought out the naughty side in me and also now im very considerate of other peoples sexuality i did enjoy sex before my swinging life bit now enjoy it more Also made some fantastic friends on here and its not only because of swinging But i must say i often wonder if folks think im getting to old for it and should stop I've always said Heather when it stops being fun it's time to stop and hang up my kinky boots and walk out the door .
So as long as it's still fun for you then carry on xxx "I agree with nawty age docent matter long as your having fun and enjoying it then keep the boots on _eather x | |||
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"Before I met Mr and we joined here I had little confidence and not that much experience. I've definitely become more adventurous as a result "that's great from speaking to many people I think swinging has made a lot of people more confidant and more susceptible to trying new things they would never dream of doing in vanilla life | |||
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"Hell yeah before i met kinkypeacock i was shy and quiet - mind you I still am "so do you think if you hadn't become a swinger you'd have become as kinky as you are in a vanilla relationship Greg? | |||
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"Hell yeah before i met kinkypeacock i was shy and quiet - mind you I still am so do you think if you hadn't become a swinger you'd have become as kinky as you are in a vanilla relationship Greg?"kinkypeacock always said it was there lurking just needed to be discovered - i doubt it would have come this far in a vanilla relationship so id say no | |||
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"Hell yeah before i met kinkypeacock i was shy and quiet - mind you I still am so do you think if you hadn't become a swinger you'd have become as kinky as you are in a vanilla relationship Greg?
kinkypeacock always said it was there lurking just needed to be discovered - i doubt it would have come this far in a vanilla relationship so id say no"yeah and I think that's the case for many... Enjoy x | |||
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"swinging has made you more adventurous in the bedroom? What things have you tried that you never would have contemplated in vanilla life?" Not sure it's made me more adventurous. I'd say it opened my mind even further to things I had previously thought about and didn't have the confidence or circumstances to move forward with those ideas and fantasies . It's always allowed me to see some things that I didn't know I was interested in, or liked and allowed me to be part of some of these things . Maybe I would have still been able to do them should the opportunity have came about but I feel pretty sure confidence wise I wouldn't have proceeded with them . | |||
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"The way I look at it is... If someone wants to meet me then they obviously like the look of me and that gives me the confidence that I need When I meet a guy I want to leave that guy with the biggest smile on his face that he won't forget in a while It's defo a role play sort if thing ... I'm the wife mum mate most days ... But some days.... I'm Auds
If that makes sense? Lol "Totally agree, most days I'm the worker, mum, wife, organiser, referee etc but... When we play especially at meets I get to forget all that and just be me. It's almost a release & relief as well as the fun sex part. Always had a dirty mind and loved sex, I/ we just get to class it as a hobby now & include a few more people in the fun
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