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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should a verification not be about the fact you have met someone to either prove they are genuine or that they exist? Not about the fact you shagged them and how good they are? ( never seen one that slagged anyone) Im also guilty of giving high praise on then. The reason for the post is: I read one yesterday with 29 published verifications, 25 were from 1 person and 4 from another. In reality there were 2. All giving explicit detail of what went on. I found it amusing. Any thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's profile was it? lol

Geek

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Should a verification not be about the fact you have met someone to either prove they are genuine or that they exist? Not about the fact you shagged them and how good they are? ( never seen one that slagged anyone) Im also guilty of giving high praise on then. The reason for the post is: I read one yesterday with 29 published verifications, 25 were from 1 person and 4 from another. In reality there were 2. All giving explicit detail of what went on. I found it amusing. Any thoughts"

But it's upto people what they accept as a veri and choose to display.

At the end of the day all they prove is that the person does meet and are genuine that's all I'm looking for xx

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Thoughts? It's a free country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started off as a way of providing facts on people, this person is real, they turned up on time etc etc etc. Now they are kinda just (fun) lip service but like everything else in life, it evolves.

Who knows what future verifications will bring.

Any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't have any issues with what is said Or who does what with them. I also take the openly pointed comment of its a free country. I just found it amusing that the verifications were only from 2 people. Even if there were thousands of them. .... lol

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By *ustcantgetenuf50Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I don't have any issues with what is said Or who does what with them. I also take the openly pointed comment of its a free country. I just found it amusing that the verifications were only from 2 people. Even if there were thousands of them. .... lol"

But they could have many more that they have not displayed on their profile. In my _iew,it's is used to prove someone is genuine and will actually meet up.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I don't have any issues with what is said Or who does what with them. I also take the openly pointed comment of its a free country. I just found it amusing that the verifications were only from 2 people. Even if there were thousands of them. .... lol

But they could have many more that they have not displayed on their profile. In my _iew,it's is used to prove someone is genuine and will actually meet up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it tells you something about them.

1. They meet people.

2. They meet regularly.

3. Two lucky people get to meet them.

Only my thoughts lol

x

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Personally for me if I see a profile where the same person verifys them over and over it can come across at times like they are mine kinda thing ...you get a gut feeling .

As for the explicit ones they are not for us as what goes on is behind closed doors.

But hey each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally for me if I see a profile where the same person verifys them over and over it can come across at times like they are mine kinda thing ...you get a gut feeling .

As for the explicit ones they are not for us as what goes on is behind closed doors.

But hey each to their own "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What others display, say or declare on their profile is of little interest to me, and getting less as everyday passes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of our old veris on our old profile were so funny... And some were very naughty

Geek

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By *976scottMan
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

I always try to be nice if they are without being too graphic!

However if the meet has been a disaster then I just don't leave one! Only happened once in two years thankfully!

Nothing worse than a Veri that sounds like transaction!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never had a graphic veri as I wouldn't meet the kind of guy that would leave 1

If I'm thinking if meeting someone I look at the veris and that says a lot about the person

If a person has loads if veris from the same person it would prob put me off too

Auds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad I changed my username from baldy_twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye to alkie poutin twat...i seen yae haha

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By *aucy MikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Iv never had a graphic veri as I wouldn't meet the kind of guy that would leave 1

If I'm thinking if meeting someone I look at the veris and that says a lot about the person

If a person has loads if veris from the same person it would prob put me off too

Auds "

But does that not just show that person enjoyed being with them/spending time in their company? That's the way we look at it that they're not meeting all and sundry but going for quality over quantity. Just our way of thinking. Sx

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Iv never had a graphic veri as I wouldn't meet the kind of guy that would leave 1

If I'm thinking if meeting someone I look at the veris and that says a lot about the person

If a person has loads if veris from the same person it would prob put me off too

Auds

But does that not just show that person enjoyed being with them/spending time in their company? That's the way we look at it that they're not meeting all and sundry but going for quality over quantity. Just our way of thinking. Sx "
my way of thinking too too many read far to much into things on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv never had a graphic veri as I wouldn't meet the kind of guy that would leave 1

If I'm thinking if meeting someone I look at the veris and that says a lot about the person

If a person has loads if veris from the same person it would prob put me off too

Auds

But does that not just show that person enjoyed being with them/spending time in their company? That's the way we look at it that they're not meeting all and sundry but going for quality over quantity. Just our way of thinking. Sx my way of thinking too too many read far to much into things on here "

I think I read into it pretty well to be honest:

people getting into regular meetings become quite closed off to new people...and in some cases cast judgement on those they consider 'less quality' because they meet more people infrequently?

I find it all a bit perplexing...but seen as I dont really care much, I'll welcome the new and old while having fun.(I didnt mean age groups)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think verifications are tacky. No one will ever display one that isn't complimentary. And some are far too graphic. I look at them to see the type of people the person has met. I think there would be far better ways to show you are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are good, as there are a few unclean people on site so good to see who they have been with so you know to stay well clear... uncleanliness is huge turn off; just llok at some pics... u see the surroundings and think maybe nice body but they are pigs living in stys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv never had a graphic veri as I wouldn't meet the kind of guy that would leave 1

If I'm thinking if meeting someone I look at the veris and that says a lot about the person

If a person has loads if veris from the same person it would prob put me off too

Auds

But does that not just show that person enjoyed being with them/spending time in their company? That's the way we look at it that they're not meeting all and sundry but going for quality over quantity. Just our way of thinking. Sx "
to me it shows they have become intertwined in each other

Which can open up a can of worms with jealousy and such like... ie... Oh see you met such and such on sat night... We were free why didn't you give us a shout???

Circles I'd rather not be involved in ta

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a verification not be about the fact you have met someone to either prove they are genuine or that they exist? Not about the fact you shagged them and how good they are? ( never seen one that slagged anyone) Im also guilty of giving high praise on then. The reason for the post is: I read one yesterday with 29 published verifications, 25 were from 1 person and 4 from another. In reality there were 2. All giving explicit detail of what went on. I found it amusing. Any thoughts"
some are quite funny especially if its put up by someone you have met a few times and they put up something to have a stab at you if you don't want to meet them again. A women scorned is fun at times lol linda

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